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Ok What's Up With Married People Especially The Men?

Can you imagine this guy I met at the restaurant. He approached me and said he had noticed me before at my school and a gathering but never approached me. We exchanged numbers, went out on a date. He now told me he was married with kids (looked like a young single man though) but looking for someone for his younger brother. He doesn't want his younger brother to go out with foreigners, that he has noticed me for quite sometime, my behavior and wanted to confirm for himself. So I was like goodness, thank God I did not end up doing anything with him being that he's married.

He started calling me, to go out and all as a way of getting to know me better for his brother but I never saw the brother even when I asked him. He came to my house one day and tried massaging my back, saying my shape is good and all that. I was uncomfortable, even as far as him calling me and me saying I'm out, he would start acting all jealous like "Oh who is that person"?

Please what does these mean? Could he really have lied to me about his brother or what? He sounded or sounds like a good married family man.

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You are calling someone MUMU what if you fall into the trap one day? did you think you can easily get noticed of what's going on?.

Mhmmm, be warned because some guys are bad ooo.

I'm not one of them sha ooo OK?

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na wa o.my sis u are M-U-M-U

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There is no brother. He wants u for himself. Are u too desperate for a husband dat someone u don't know is helping u wit one.

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telling you that he is married is to cover his a$$ if/when he get busted. . . . . . . . they would say that: "he couldnt possibly want anything from you since he already told you he was married. you must have been the devil and YOU went for him"

FIRST what you should have done straight from the get go is ask to see the brother's pic, unless you are ready to date just about anybody.

SECOND you should have kept this friendship exactly that: A FRIENDSHIP. dont let no fool put their hands on you with silly excuses such as the one you fell for. next thing you know he will be asking to test ride the kitten "for his junior brother" too.

THIRD kindly explain to us all what a"good married man" sounds like? if he was such a man then he would be with his wife rather than toasting young girls in the streets with BS excuses.

the day that he asked you on the phone about who you were out with , you should have told him to mind his goddam business!!!!

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Hmmmmmmm its like marriage is just an empty promise these days, these Nuggars are still playing the field and living like bachelors. My prayers are with the wives of these useless men.

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stop meeting up with him and talking to him then - are u a baby that needs to be told that you should be careful around men.

na wah o! even if its for the brother don't u think the family will respect u more (thats if this BS story is true) if u keep ur dignity and keep ur distance from this MARRIED man. naija girls and the temptation they put in front of men's eyes - i don tire for unna

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cheater alert. whats next? he will probably try to bed you, claiming that he just trying to test for his "brother".

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