I've spoken to a few Nigerians andyou can't imagine that most of these ppl either male or female went through something deeply disturbing as child. The sad truth is they never tell their parent and will never tell their parent because of their parents style of parenting. So if parents do not even know, this means the police will never know and these people cannot be prosecuted. By the way the veil i'm talking about is sexual assault either as a child or as an adult.
Is it high time we spared the rod and employ the western style parenting? i.e have an open door relationship with our kids so they are not scared to talk to us and we can quickly take actions especially by not allowing them to visit that uncle or aunty that always wants them to visit.
It seems to be working for the familie employing this style. Or is it still the case of spare the rod and spoil the child