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Sex And Marriage : What's The Catch?

It has been widely believed that sex and marriage go hand in hand and are both like Siamese twins which are inseparable. However, it has posed as much problems as anyone might have thought in most marriages, resulting into chaos ranging from cheating to messy divorces. I have seen situations where many sexual acts have been successfully introduced into marriages, permit me to be vulgar on this one, the sucking, licking, food play and all of that, while some women think they are emblems of the the true and proverbial African woman - one that doesn't engage in "nefarious" and "demeaning" sexual acts. They just want the old time kind of sex which doesn't entail all the "western" fantasies.

On the other hand, 98% of men, I mean men who are enlightened(educated,exposed and such) are so much engrossed in these habits, which I think is good because that is part of the globalization we're talking about evolving into, but their wives have refused to let them exhibit their new found talent in bed. The man subsequently seeks another woman out there who can go to any length to satisfy his needs and before you know it, he falls in "lust" and starts to lose focus on the home front and concentrating real good on the sexual counterpart, sending text messages, phone calls, romantic gifts, and dare I say that the man will be wayward and will start showing off attitudes to his wife if his counterpart is very sexy, good in bed and romantic?

Conclusively, some women are nasty with their husbands in bed, some are nasty within themselves but pretend to be saints to their husbands.  The main problem I think is that most partners don't know how to bring up the subject, Sex. Some don't always want to talk about it. Do you think sex makes a marriage last? Do you think there is any marriage devoid of better sex is prone to perils? Where do you think a marriage where sex is not talked about will land on? Let me know your opinions.

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If partners don't communicate about their needs, even with sex, it is sure to bring about trouble in the end. I guess it's best to be open, and if one party isn't 'down' with another's fantasy, they can come to terms with some solutions.

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Another name for sex is. . . . . . . . . . .David! I mean Donuts.

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If the marriage foundation is not built on sex then it should not be a problem IMO.

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its quite simple really

bad sex = adverse effect on marriage even with abundance of other stuffs

gr8 sex = makes up for a lot of, though not everything in marriage

don't make ur partner need or seek Bleep outside, simple

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Madam, thank you for highlighting all this, you hit the message right on the head.

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