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Sex Before Marraige Is It An Issue?

Its really amaze me why any guy i meet always wants me to go tho bed with them.

i am so confused should i,i am really lonely out here,the only guy that is ready to stay is not the person i really love somebody help me pls.

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Some gurls are very funny

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As a guy I just want you to know that giving a man your body is no guarantee that he will stay with you. When the real person that God wants for you comes along, he will respect your wishes and wait till you both are legally married. You should read some threads in the family section and see how many women gave a man their body for years on end and then he turns around and ends up marrying someone totally different. Sometimes, the man might get you pregnant and then dump you. God did not make a mistake when he said se.x is for the married. If you want to disobey Him, go ahead. But don't come here and whine when you get dumped or are left with an unwanted pregnancy. A man who truly loves you will not dissecrate your body. Men only need a warm fleshy hole to empty their over filled scrotums of sperm. It has absolutely nothing to do with love. Men do not attach se.x to feelings of emotions like women do so always remember that. That is why some can even sleep with a mad woman and see nothing wrong with it.

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@ poster i experienced d same tin ure experiencing now.i used to have a boyfriend who threatened to leave me if i dont have sex with me.he tried all he could to get me to is bed n even told my friends to beg me.when e discovad i stood my ground he left me n i dint feel bad cos i'd rada b at peace with God at d expense of man because any man can disapoint.few years later after waiting on God i met my own "husband to be" and guess what,he was ready to wait til marriage b4 sex,so my dear sis there are stil decent guys out tere.dont let any man including a lot of filthy minded guys make u feel inadequate or give u d impression dat u will grow old single without any man to propose to u.by d way,ure nt a gal of easy virtue,ure a woman of substance,prove dat to him by ur attitude.meanwhile,while waiting on God develop wifely characters by being domesticated,hardworking,prayerful to prepare urself for your future and your marriage.one more thing there are a lot of men out there,but very few of dem are husbands,a man who is eager to get down wit u is certainly nt a husband material.be wise

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@ Poster,

I advised u stick to ur decision------but then, the reason why many guys will not abide by ur decision are many among which is if u are not a virgin----the guy may doubt ur claim and feels insecure.

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We should try to follow d bible's command to flee fornication.Shikena

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sex is great yea, but not before marraige, its will be so painfull when a man has seen ur nekeness and turn u down . oh my God what a disgrace.

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It shouldnt be.

A guy who really loves u and wants to marry you will respect your decision.

If he cant sacrifice not havind sex till marriage then u need to ask urself it he is worth being with.

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you dont want to do it, dont do it.

I beg you not to fall for any trick. No guy stays with a girl just for the sex. . . if he does, there will never be anything serious in the relationship. . . it will just be about sex.

I pray that you will have the strength to continue keeping yourself

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it is always wrong especially if u are a christian

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No it shouldn't be and should not be a condition for a relationship either. Good gal, take your time and when you're ready go for it.

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Sorry my sis, but relationship without sex is not easy, and most men wont settle for it, i am sure, even the one that is wiling to stay without sex, is just saying that till you fall fo him.

But dont compromise your value for a man's need, cos if he will go he will, even with all the sex in da world combined, Ask him, if he is not a virgin, how come he broke up with the last babe she had sex with.

Use your head but be reasonable.

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If abstinence is your desire. . then forbear.

When the right one comes. . . he'll be willin' to wait.

Let 'em go if they want.Sex can NEVER keep a guy with you.

A guy who will stay. . . will stay with or without sex.

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it doesnt have a clear cut route, sex before marriage is not the best but how many girls now dont ask guys for sex before marriage, thats if we want to be factual,

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the key is try and get married.

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