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Should Husbands Permit Any Contact Between Their Wives And Their Ex-boyfriend?

Someone once told me that if a man had great sex with a date sometime in the past and later they meet again,he can always sleep with her again,if he tried hard enough(sometimes without much trying),whether d date is now married,divorced,widowed or still single.This is called the "OK" law.It explains why men r very uncomfortable with their wives coming into contact with their ex boyfriends.

I'd like members to share their experience, or make their comments on this issue.

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Not permitted!!wife or husband!!!!!

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that changed the whole equation, cos once they have kids together, they are bond for live.

They will walk the kid together down the aisle.

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what if they have a child together?

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"permit" is a wrong choice of words.

a mature woman will know where to draw the line with exes. Unless of course she's unhappy with her current relationship or simply wants to play the field for whatever reason.

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it all depends the type of man here,

the woman needs to understand the husband,is he a jealous type,that is, suspicious of rivals,if yes.

than keep off.

please is better not to establish such contact,by the way,what is the contact all about?

you can make new friends not Ex- boy,it does not worth the pains and the distrust in the family.

this is my summission.

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The woman is an adult and she ought to know what is right.

Else, the man can lay his coin on the table, however, what is good for the goose is good for the other

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interesting.funny enough,i've found myself in the same situation.my "ex"who is now married still keeps in touch.i'm sure she doesnt have any ulterior motive,i still insist on not meeting her and always cal her MRS to remind her that she belongs to someone else now.i think one should break all emotional ties wit ex's once they are married.you can still remain friends but it should be platonic and NEVER cross the LINE!

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Why the Ex-,It belongs to the past. Only a fool live in the past

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they are ex for a reason. you should not have contact with any ex wehter you are a man or a woman once you decide to get married. there is no purpose for it

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@poster!! the devil is sleeping, please let him sleep the sleep peace as not to wake him up to destroy something good.

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some times it depends on how the man treats his wife,if the man is the type that can't take his eyes off young girls ,by this the wife can give the ex -chance, although i will never do such thing to my man, Anything can happen u knw,

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some times it depends on how the man treats his wife,if the man is the type can't take his eyes off young girls ,by this the wife can give the ex -chance, although i will never do such thing to my man, Anything can happen u knw,

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some times it depends on how he man treats his wife,if the man is the type cant take his wife off young girls ,by this the wife can give the ex -chance, although i will never do such thing to my man, Anything can happen u knw,

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Do you know the meaning or marriage?

Why would you pay a woman’s bride price organize an expensive and memorable wedding and at the end of the day you run away with an ex-lover.

That’s stupidity of the highest class and such a person should be kept in a zoo co’s he or she isn’t fit to be call a human being.

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This is why you make sure the man and woman both spent on the wedding.So at least she too go feel the lose of money when the man kick am out of house.

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At last someone speaks with some wisdom,

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very well said,

but then . . .when u're married, exes need to remain in the past where they belong

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I don't see why my husband should permit me to do what I want if am an adult. Further more if the ex was so amazing he would not have the status of an ex. Therefore my husband should have confidence in himself.

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Absolutely not.infact NOOOOOOOOO.its wrong.u married u married.forget abt ur EX.no contact shld be permitted.

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Very wrong,it brings back old memories

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hmmmmmm,

afta marraige,da sign "no ex's please" shuld be displayed

a very gud example 's mi & ma ex, she's engaged but she claims 2 be madli in luv wit mi

i've managed 2 avoid her demands[u guess'd ryte],

i jst 1da wat 'll happen wen dey eventuali get married,

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Dear poster,

EXS' are irrisistable whether man or woman.

The solution is to avoid because whenever they meet in a conducive whether secured or unsecured environment, they will DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN. DON'T ASK ME WHAT THE IT MEANS BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE ANSWER, BUT BELEIVE IT OR NOT, THEY WILL DO IT.

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Any wise woman shouldnt contact her ex while she is married if she wants her home to be in tact.

Her husband shouldnt have to stop the contact, she should do it herself.

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Any wise woman that wants to keep her home would NEVER keep in touch with an ex cause hummmmmm - lkie i say it before you know it, your clothes are on the floor and u are doing the deed.

Especially if its a guy that treated you like gold.

I dont think the husband needs to put an end to the relationship or contact, the lady that wants her home to be in order would do that herself.

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Why the hell will i need permission for any thing i do.

Fact is if i meet my ex and have sex with him, something is not okey in my marrage.

I will not go out of my way to meet any ex but if i bump into him , i will spend sometime with him , over a cup of coffee or a meal in a public place.

I will also tell my husband about it.

If i do not then there is something to hide.

But to ask for permission?

If i feel the need to meet an ex (with appointment) Then something is not okey in my marrage in this case am asking onbody

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What if your friends with your ex before you got married, by getting married do you cut the ties? Nwayz i think it depends on the situation between the person and the ex. If it was a clean break, a messy break, a regrettable break.

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Omo eko, U is funny, I agree wit u sha.

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The issue here,ladies and gentlemen is,if the woman and her ex run into each other accidentally,would she be able to resist love advances from the man,considering that she is married? People say that if the woman enjoyed the sexual relationship with the ex she is unlikely to be able to resist him.Ladies,what do u think? Do u have friends who had, say, a one night fling with their ex bf who they suddenly ran into?

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Do you know the meaning or marriage?

Why would you pay a woman’s bride price organize an expensive and memorable  wedding  and at the end of the day you run away with an ex-lover.

That’s stupidity of the highest class and such a person should be kept in a zoo co’s he or she isn’t fit to be call a human being.

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and why will anyway wife wanna keep in contact with her ex boyfriends, abeg if i was the husband i will send her packing out of my house.

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Oshodi Straight. Go on soun. Notin de Happen.

Y not, i guess it depends on the the trust we have for each other.

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