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Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?

Women can be very funny atimes: Imagine I had a little misunderstanding with my wife and she won't let me touch her. Now I am in a fix, I feel like having s*x, should I force her and do it or go out and satisfy myself with another woman? Please I need your honest opinion.

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lol! I've not stopped laughing since i read ur post. Do not force her to give u 'pomo', believe me e no go sweet. Also she'll be dry n u'll be hurting her, unless u don gather money 4 expensive medical bills cos u might damage something in her body.

Pls talk things out with her n make up, simple. Best of luck!

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You are a man & should realise that women sometimes need pampering to play along with you. It is not always you apply force. Forcibly sleeping with her will earn you no satisfaction; rather it will worsen matters. Looking outwards may break up your marriage. Dont you see that it is better to make peace with your wife?

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if your angry at someone- wth should you now have sex with him?

its different if its a means to survival- its not

settle your disagreements first, have make up sex later!

meanwhile- theres always your right hand!

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This topic is quite old, i wonder what action you eventually took.

what guys dont understand is this: women are the easiest to manipulate emotionally and sexually, but to do that you must be very humble and thats where guys fail. personally in my relationship no misunderstanding stays overnight. never underestimate the power of these words: thank you , am sorry and please.

why not try sending her an sms in the early hours of the morning (4am-5.30am)while you guys are lying on the same bed if you feel too proud to walk up to her and say am sorry even if you think you were right?

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He should only apologize if he is at fault. Otherwise he will be validating her bad behavior and she will continue to use sex as a weapon to manipulate him. Ol boy, if your wife is at fault and she refuses to see reason, go chop outside and stop trying to have sex with her. She will come to her senses.

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Come, your head dey house so? How do you intend on forcing your wife to have sex? Only a slowpoke will ask that kind of question.

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This will help - Baby I am sorry for whatever I have done. You are the best and most beautiful woman in the whole world. I love you more than you know it. Nothing what so ever will come in between us. Muaaaaaa!

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Cook her favourite meal for her, send her a 'i love you just cos today is tuesday' card, buy her an insanely expensive perfume, do whatever you can to win her back as am sure you know what she likes BUT PLEASE DON'T COMMIT ADULTERY or FORCE HER. It might take you a long time to forgive yourself for these if u've truly got a concience which i think u've got.

After u reconcile, in a lighter mood u can talk things through with her telling her why she shouldnt use sex as a weapon to fight you so that you wont be forced to go astray as some men would do. And also try to stay away from whatever you did to make her act this way.

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None of the above, simply becos your wife refused u sex once does not mean u should force her.

Mind u, a bitter mind no dey born better pikin ooo. I am sure she might ve refused because of your way of approach.

U think she has no right to refused u becos it's sex? When a woman is not happy why would she have intimacy just to plz the man?

If u ve played a good role, after disputing with your wife, she will nt refused u after all requesting for sex shouldn't be the first step to take.

Why not buy her a flower or a reconsilation card, when her mind is down then u play with her the love making will flow at once,

Most men don't know how to win their wife in situation like This, they want and the woman said no, they will not even try to add technics to make the wife smile back, all they do is by force becos she is my wife.

I think that is nonsence and a non romantic way to settle with a wife. Imagine u coming to ask NL if u can commit adultery!!! Chiiiiiii, some men no get shame for eye at all. !!!:>> go ahead and commit, I can see that u really love your wife.

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Please make up with her. By now should know how to settle it with her and enjoy love making with her after wards.

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come on man wat re u saying?

make things work btw u two and u will feel the difference. make up and not break-up please she is ur wife and need that pampering

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and where else should a couple end their misunderstanding,if not on bed, sooner the style will not be valuable again when the husband have an alternative.talk to her and let her know the danger of her action. sex starve is not the best.

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It's possible the case is not settled. Anyway, the man doesn't seem so mature to me.

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I agree with you. That is just blackmail in my opinion. Still every situation is different

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I dont know about the Nigerian ladies.

I have noticed that babes in the western world, when they are angry and upset with their men, that is when they will wear their hottest skimpy "take me and chop me now" kinda dress or the Lingerie they will have on to go to bed, and no matter how bad the fight is, that is when the man wanna do the good thing to her.

Here is what i think, i think a woman shd never use sex as punishment for the husband, i think it is totally wrong, even if the fight was only one day, still do your duty as a wife, which includes, give him a good and hot sex, this goes for the men too, he still have to do his duty as a husband.

No matter how bad the fight was, feed your man in the kicthen and in da bedroom, and as well, the man has to feed the woman via his pocket and his heart.

Besides, whatever happens to "never go to bed angry"?

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A fight to me means they just had a quarrell. It does not seem to be a long period of time. So how could he already be so Hot that he cannot contain himself. He is already messing with someone or talking to her and wants an excuse to go ahead and do it

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ogidiboy I will soon turn you to agidi

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i dont think that is a fair conclusion, if he really wanted to bone another woman, he cld have done it without asking the question.

The guy has the certificate to do it with the wife whenever he wants and the wife decided to lock the shop . . . .haba, that aint fair.

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Exactly how long have you been fighting that you are talking adultery. I think you simply want to have sex with someone else

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i wonder why your wife is using sex as a defense mechanism?

forcing her or committing adultery solves nothing, it makes it worse. try and find ways to make amend with her

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Settle your differences.

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where in the Bronx are you ?

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NEVER force anyone to do anything against their wish.

If you force a woman to have sex with you, it means you Molested her and that can send you to jail.

Make up and be apologetic . . . the made up sex is the best, nothing compared to it.

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neither, make up with ur wife.

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