I’m a white woman married and in love to an Igbo-man for more then 3 years now.
When we met we were talking about everything what happened in our life. He told me about his marriage to an Igbo-woman and his children. And that his marriage was failed because of his long time abroad so that he has noticed that she was cheating on him. Of course he’s still taking care of his children what is very important for me too. I don’t like irresponsible men. So I did everything to support him to be a good father.
Unfortunately after a while I had to face the truth that he was lying to me and that he is still a husband to his nigerian wife, making her pregnant everytime he was travelling to Naija. I’m a strict protestant woman, educated with strong moralities by my parents. I’m not able to abide lying, cheating, taking advantage and so on. I tried to speak to him but he denied that I was right with my presumptions. It’s causing me heartaches, tears, stomach pain and sleepless nights to think about what is right or wrong to do. Any advices?