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Should Parents UnCloth In Presence Of Their Children?

With the increase in moral decadence and the sexual harassment witnessed in our society today, should parents UnCloth in the presence of their children? What effect do you think this would have on the children?

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I think this is an intriguing topic. My mum (God rest her soul) always dressed up in front of us (my brothers and I) and we couldn't be bothered. At some innate level, we knew that even though she was dressing up in front of us, it was no license to gawk so I saw my mum's Unclothedness but never really saw it.

I believe it all depends on the parents and the kind of bond they feel they have with their kids. I believe if I had a sister my mum would probably not dress up before us guys. Since she had no daughter, she raised us both as boys and girls at the same time.

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Nope, the child might begin to get ideas into his head. . .lol

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Dont think it is a good thing.

But a mother infront of the daughter, is not bad, while a father with the son is not bad either

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well mine sent me to buy ogogoro in the afternoon but i always came back early .at nite they were just too loud

.ditto for mama francis who you could hear through the board that separated our room from theirs . when you saw her on sunday morning fully decked with headscarf you would not believe it it was the same person that was screaming "papa francis,nyem,nyem,nyem" the previous nite. that was orile for you

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I lived in a face me I face you apartment, and my parents fc.ked in my presence all the time. They had no shame.

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just keeping it simple don't wanna overburden your austere mental resources .really won't be fair if it got any better .but ,heck,i 'm human so;thanks bring it on.

l pray for you too;i hope you develop some common sense.

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smart inteliigent person. It took you two posts to explain that. Sorry I can't insult your parents. My parents were smart enough to raise me well. Sorry my dear. I know not all fingers are equal but e go better for you one day

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guess what kind of progeny that leads to.,.,.,em,right.

you

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your father is a dullard .

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Dunce. I don't know the "real naija" because my parents did not make a display of humping each other.

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do your own research and use the equipment between your ears.not everyone has a mansion and boy's quarters .many families often share a single room with more than one family . and the families grow even larger .obviously you know little of the real naija

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Please can you break this part down. Inquiring minds want to know biko

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obviously a middle class perspective. many nigerian women to this day walk around with bosoms hanging.many kids bathe openly till puberty if you have ever lived in a genuine face me i face you will know people f.u.c.kk in the presence /hearing of their kids other adults/families .the real urban nigeria. find out!

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obviously a middle class perspective. many nigerian women to this day walk around with bosoms hanging.many kids bathe openly till puberty if you have ever lived in a genuine face me i face you will know people f.uck in the presence /hearing of their kids other adults/families .the real urban nigeria. find out!

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oh realy, then we should not start whot we can not finish with our children.

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Undressing in the presence of ones child should not be a big deal irrespective of their gender(when they are still very young)When my son was within age 2,3,4,i UnCloth in his presence but not anymore.I think it is good for them, as it prepares them for the future and erases whatever curiosity they may have as in "what does it look like?'

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As others have said, if its same sex i guess its ok. I only have a son so no. He was in the bath with me or shower til he was 2years old, but not from then on. His father changed in front of him til he was 6 but not now.

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It might not hav meaning to children under 4yrs, but 4rm there upward Mama should not hide 4 GIRLS but 4 BOYS, BABA should not hide 4 boys but 4 girls, not withstanding, i love my female children a lot

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What sort of question is this?

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No no no no. It is not good once the child is up to 6 yrs and above.

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@kobikwelu,hes a man now,is never a shame if a man decides to stay in his parents house forever,what if hes not married or maybe hes married but not financially okay,to me its not a taboo

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this days from 7yrs to 18yrs and above the are no longer a kids

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Died!

What do u mean died?

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it is a very good thread because , if you UnCloth in the present of ur children u teaches them immorality, so let us all go against that

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I think it's wrong for parents to UnCloth in front of their children,

especially when it has to do with the opposite sex.

I had always warned my huzzy about undressing in front of our

daughter but he didn't see anything wrong with it, until one day our 4yr old daughter

told him that, his class boys have this kind of his bombom, but the small small ones,

he became embarrassed.

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By the way the real issue is whether u can still feel normal if u accidentally see ur mother or father in their birthday suit. Am saying that it has happened to me many times, i cant even think of it 2 seconds later and i feel normal. Ppl are different and families too. Some can take it, others cant.

Oh! Undressing is something else, even i cant stand that.

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u guys can ask anything on this forum. ANYTHING?

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E still dey ok pass blue fil,m

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It is not ok in any way.

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IT depends on the attitude of you and your folks. however, I must caution that you don't encourage Unclothedness within your family if you are not ready to be open about sexual matters. Kids as young as three will ask why mum does not have a third leg and why they have flat chests.

If you cant deal with such questions honestly, DO close you door to dress.

IF you are willing to discuss such then feel free.

My younger brother (the only boy) used to hide himself from the moment he could bath himself (primary sch) but was forced to expose it all when he caught a toilet infection (from his pry sch) which got quite bad because he was feeling uncomfortable with me and mum been female. No one made fun of him but the doc told him, he should have spoken earlier and since then (with much encouragement he freely talks about his privates within family.

Am married now and comfortable bath together with my son. My husband and I patiently answer any question he has about body parts as the alternative is letting him learn at school through peers or through paedophiles who mask around as teachers in nursery and primary schools

DO NOT HOWEVER ALLOW SUCH EXPOSURE WITH RELATIVES NOT EVEN COUSINS, AUNTS AND UNCLES. and do attach dad to son and mum to daughters as often as possible. if you fall out of line and pack ur balls in public, itch your Tips in fronts of guess. your kids are going to do so its really your choice

Go to sites like parentlingweekly.com and learn how to introduce you child to personal hygiene and matters of sex by example, you get to see to pros and cons and how to manage it, when to start, when to stop.

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l can UnCloth in front of my sons, not my daugther,especially if she is older than 5years

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I won't UnCloth down to my birthday suit in the presence of a child that is older than three.

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Nawa for Parents that are completely Unclad in front of their children, where are they from 'west'. It is absolutely wrong for a man to expose hid unclothedness in front of his child be it a boy or girl. I believe Parents should be Parents not peers.

Unless the parents are very old

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This post is uncalled for. Very senseless. Just use your discretion to judge if it's right or wrong.

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This post is uncalled for. Very senseless. Just use your discretion to judge if it's right or wrong.

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This post is uncalled for. Very senseless. Just use your discredition to judge if it's right or wrong.

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With my mama, no issues. But ofcourse, no one is going to delibrately look @ d oda person. Possible we'r gisting or sth. Now with my dad, he TOTALLY IGNORES the rule of knock and wait for an answer. E no send you AT ALL. If he has a msg 2 drop for you and you happen to be in the bathroom, dat one no concern him o. He'll just open d door, say wateva and exit. So,I kinda do the same 4 him too. Just that its a bit embarrasing busting into your dad wyl Unclad. He's the only guy in the house anyway. But I thnk its no big deal, but discretion is advised, both on the part of the parents and children

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it really depend just as simple as that

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lol what next? parents can even make love in the presence of their kids

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@ topic: I personally wouldn't dress and UnCloth in front of my children, others may feel differently though.

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only shameless parents do this, lol, immorality

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I've seen my dad, mum and my younger sisters Unclad (by accident) because i have the habit of not knocking in my house and they have the habit of being very comfortable standing Unclad in front of the full length mirror robbing cream after shower. Am the only boy and 29 by d way and my 2 younger sisters would nt ask me out before they change clothes nor i walk out. I just dont look and i try to be normal. I never look at them intentionally or burst into their rooms with an intention. But for my mum i always do ABOOOOOOOOOOOOUT TURN! I've been more carefull in my mums room but she ask me to pass her her phone even when shes pooing.

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EHNNN!!!

for wetin!!!

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

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with young children it's not big deal. We are family. When my daughter became older she does not like to UnCloth or vice versa, but she is ok about either one of us undressing in the same room, but she will tell us she is undressing so don't look. I do the same cause I accomodate her comfort level.

My son, he does not care, but I think guys are like that.

My mom, she is an asian woman and has no problem about me seeing her Unclad. She is an old woman in her 60's. I think it all just depends on your family culture.

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I am addicted this nudd thing like facebook and am not ready to logout!

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Very funny, i cant stop laughing, but as for me i wont dress in front of my kids thats just it!!

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@ what is the age of the child?

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It all depends on factors like age of the child, gender and generally the right orientation.

by orientation i mean not taking things to the extreme. train your kids properly and they should be able to handle themselves.

i guess the watchword is decency and prudence.

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it is totally wrong, scripturally it is bad

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the pathetic number of response to the thread justifies why it should have never made the front page to start with. Whats with these moderators now a days. Very soon a thread on someone sneezing would be making front page.

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