This is truly a question that boggles my mind. I have girlfriends both married and single (in relationships) and this issue always rear its ugly head.
Seems there is a battle of the sexes when the issue of submission arises.
Personally I think it takes a woman of strength to truly submit to a man. It isn't easy to take the high road especially when u disagree. It is difficult to subject yourself to a decision taken by your husband (especially when u disagree and feel might affect you negatively).
So truly women your opinions are required:
1. What is your definition of submission in a marriage/ relationship?
2. Why the resistance?
3.How does being in submission make you feel?