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To Live With Newlyweds: Sister Or Brother In-Law?

As a woman that just got married to a man who is the bread winner of his family-extended family and he wants to bring in one of his siblings to live with you all in the house. Who would you prefer, sister or brother-in-law

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By dis in4matn given by diff girls, it's obvious none of dis girls deserv marriage. They are family destroyers instd of builders. Have they eva wondered dat such action can bring enormity btwn d members of d family for life? Tufiakwa.

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My door is open to all the members of my family and my wife's family.My wife and I have never one day complain that any of them is giving us problem.Please try and live peacefully with your people.

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live for where? To your tents oh israel. No, stay in your house and i will stay in mine.

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Non. Newlyweds should not have anyone living with them atleast for the first year or two. You are still trying to figure out yourselves in the marriage, set boundaries etc. How can you do that when there is an "antenna" there breathing down your back. I say NO NO NO.

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2 is a couple and three is a crowd. None should come and live they are free to visit and stay few days after which they must leave.

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Sometimes they tend to make trouble based on the fact that their bro owns da house. useless creeps. i've seen it happen.

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ah ah aha ahaha ahahahah ah

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the truth of the matter is that for a woman to be comfortable in the man's house, she must learn to tolerate brothers-in-law and sisters in-law; that way peace wld take its course. As for me o, l can live with any of them; even invite them when they seem to be afar; establish a peaceful atmosphere in a way that they cant do without me.

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All of u girls just hav2b carefull.Na so e dey start o.Ehen! Pride. If the husband wants it,den let it.Just free ur mind.Been friendly is the best.

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well i have only one question, how many of them did i say that i promise to live with you till death do us part, if none then get lost, i love my wife even i have a problem sharing her with our daugther you come dey talk of my brother or her sister, i beg, i was not there all the years that they had her to themselves so now that i have her am not sharing. to come for hoils fine anything after that no, not even my mum,

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Choose the most respectful one! Both men & women are capable of disrespect so chose the one w/ manners.

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i'll choose none, we'll render assistance to them without them living with us.

its better to be safe than sorry

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In the yoruba culture it is not advisable, because relatives of your husband expect you to treat them with the same (excessive) level respect that the husbands get. If one of them is living with you, it will be simply unbearable. Never ever make that mistake if you are married to a Yoruba man who still follows Yoruba culture.

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hmmm i would go for the brother-in law

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Please non of them I don't need a spy in my house.

A man that would pee allover my toilet sit.

Or a woman that . Hm I think i will be able to handle a woman better.

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thats the good spirit i feel u girl

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@rhodalyn assuming the brother-inlaw is more handsome

than your hubby and also is matured will still go for the guy

than the lady, u no what cud happen

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