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Understanding Men (Now What?)

Need answers from u Men, females are also welcome.

When You are stressed out, maybe goin through financial probs, You like to be left alone. Why? not to even be disturbed by ur partner or loved one but still have time n act differently towards ur friends, i mean much better than u would to ur girl or wife. Why??

Men, when going through problems, what is the best that we women can do for u because most times u guys don't even want to hear love or anything relating to that, so what do we do to help u as ur partner whether wife or girlfriend?

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You are kind of right. It's not as if we find it humiliating to reveal our mistakes or weaknesses but the issue is that most women do not have the mind to withstand some issues,they'll rather be emotional about it. So in order not to add more to the problem,a man would rather keep to himself.

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I didn't just jump into another relationship. But considering this situation now, what would u do? Do i just call him to know if everything is ok, im surprised no one has seen him.

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I though you just got out a relationship. Why did you jump into another so soon?

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JJYOU, pls wat do u mean by time?

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when men are being liken to children its not just the fact they suck like children(let nobody ask me wht they suck o) but this is one area they act similar!

When i child needs something and hes not getting it,he gets frustrated and easily pissed when disturbed even when u try helping,he wnts to do it himself not wth u help,and trying to help annoys him but after giving him tym or rather the space he needs. u knw wht?

he comes back telling u his probs and hw bad he felf,this is for a child and its also applicable to men .

As a woman u grab that oppournity to mk him feel u wl always be there come wht may,and if u have better ideas to the solution u sell it out to him.

most tyms they need that space,weather feeling bad or not give them(men)space once a while.

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@mohawkchic

I really dont know why you like typing like that,i found it very difficult

to read your posts since i joined this nairaland.No offence, just my opinion

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@Mohawkchic

I can relate very well to what u said. It makes a lot of sense.

@DavidDylan

It isn't about spending time together or so on. Ok let me ask u, for example, ur babe calls u once or twice in a week,to know how u r, if u've eaten n that's bout it. Not asking anything from U. Isn't that enough space or what type of space do u want or r u looking for??

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i like this topic cos something like this just happened to the best is for you ladies

to by our side and to trust in us and in any step we would like to take , with you

there we would be happy and have the hope that it can get better thanks

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