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What If Ur Husband Loses His Man-hood In An Accident?

Well u and ur husband have been living hapily, with a child, when suddenly your husband goes to work one morning and meets with an accident that costs him his man-hood, will u leave or will u keep ur marital vows...to stay on together 4better..4worse..??

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I feel you, but it is easier said than done . . . .Like you said, God forbid bad thang

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God forbid it happens to me but if it happens I will want her to give me a divorce, I can handle myself but I will not be able to handle pity from her. I will then relocate and start a new life, spend more time on my career, improving myself and become religious.

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Nairalanders bring up strange ideas sometimes they even freak me out.

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And u cant be bothered ?

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as long as the accident didn't cut off his fingers and tongue,no problem

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God forbid!!! But, if it does happens, I will stand by him and never ever have intimacy with someone else. I will encourage him , pray together and beleive in God together.

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4rm my view , dis is d highest temptation in marriage because SEX is d life wire of marriage. if it is cut short dear will be problem. dis is where a woman's love is tested, 4 BETTER 4 WORSE u said @ d alter of God, hear is d worse hw do u handle it.

my own opinion is dat it is my CROSS so i will carry it with prayer & faith, there is notin d Lord cannot do, bcs if u go outside 2 derive satisfaction outside wht of d man, dos it mean his feelings is lost? stay with him, give him words of comfort bcs he will not be happy with d condition he finds himself, there ar many ways u can get sexual satisfaction u employ one. if u really LOVE ur husband just kissing him will make come, good romance play wil make u ok etc. God help us is not a good story 2 tell. AMEN

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Like i said earlier on, i will make do with his tongue

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lol and wat exactly would he need a wife for??

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I feel you Chaircover, a man without a dikc is as good as dead.

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yea, i got your PM

anyways, different strokes for different folks

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Sorry but men have a dick for a reason and a woman has a Kitty-Cat that needs to be filled with some warm flesh.

PS: I bet you got my PM. I don't want to waste time with irrelevant issues.

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yay, but that doesn't rule out the fact that there are people ready to do that included widows who refused to marry and never even had boyfriends after their hubby's death.

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that's why the marriage vows should not be taken if you don't understand it. it says for better for worse, well, even if his manliness is gone, does that mean a woman can't be satisfied sexually without the use of a manliness? remember that the post said, they have kids already.

btw: how many ids do you have?

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His joystick is an important part of him. If he lost it, well that'd be a pity but we must face the reality of facts: the marriage makes no sense.

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maybe it was the di.ck they got married to. this is to show that alot of people on this site don't really know why they get married.

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people are just being real, paralyzed man as long as the dikc is working is still better.

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sometimes i read these responces and wonder if people over here are capable of love at all.  your husband lost his manhood in an accident and most of you would turn tail and run?  so if he was paraysed you would leave him?  when he is older and impotent you would leave him?  men the same views.  this is not something he did on purpose.  he didnt do anything to harm you.   he didnt catch some disease off a chachke and have to get it amputated.  this was an accident!  did you marry him or his f**ck1ng d1ck?

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Make una carry go. I nor get time for all this.

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God is a God of impossibilities

Where the knowledge of man ends, that of God starts.

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God won't give you back your broken joystick.

That is just a self delusion.

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Thank you Mr Femi, I understand you want to be real, yes, it is good to be real. Everyman that is in the physical body will talk like that including me, but the situation on the ground will not be solved speaking like that. The medical doctors might have said different kinds of things to the situation but that is not what God is saying. I want to believe that for the author to ask such a question, she would have concluded on her husband that his case is over, but it is not yet over until God said it is over, and God has not said it is over 'cos I can see revival coming up to her husband and his man-hood in Jesus name, amen. (Remember the woman with the issue of blood, how the Physians concluded on her, she was completely written off by them, but one day she met with Jesus, the Son of God and all her issues of blood seize, I decree unto the live of the recipient going through this problem, that the Almighty God will visit you very soon in Jesus name. And strenght will be brought back to you. Pls. I'm available if you want me to join you in praying together. Pls. we will both talk to God and something will happen in Jesus-namw, amen. God bless you.

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I do blv in God, and i love Him with all my heart, we are just being real and not being spiritual.

I hate to argue with things of God, so i mechonu

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Thank you very much Mr Femi, God is God, and whatever He says is the final. People have really missed it nowadays because of wrong advise and counsel. It is well with you. She must always remember that her husband and his man-hood was not like this before, she must endure with him, 'cos the marriage is for better for worse, and God wll never allow it to be worst for the two of them, if they face the problem together. God bless and good luck in Jesus name, ame.

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And verily verily i say unto you, IF U RUN TO GOD ALMIGHTY, YOU SHALL GET A REPLACEMENT D.CIK SENT FROM ABOVE.

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Pastor Ajayi have spoken . . . . so shall it be, amen

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Still stick to him and this is where your faithfulness will be needed the most. Do not listen to all the above advise given to you by people, if you live him and do what they asked you to do, they will not be there when the repercussion comes. The two of you can go to your Maker ie to GOD ALMIGHTY together and that, that is destroyed can be fixed back in Jesus name, amen.

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I refused to be spoilt by you

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see as u dey laugh like person wey see yarnsh

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amen oo, well, i still won't know how it feels even if that thing happen to my worst enemy

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you can't advice anyone on this kind of situation, the women remain the only one who can answer the questions because they are the ones who know why they are married to their men in the first place. so we are both making our points not to discredit the other.

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The cover on the chair have spoken.

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Let me be on same page with you and safe the arguments.

yes there are few that might stay for other reasons.

But since majority will leave, lets take the position of the majority and advice people.

So my take on the subject is - If the woman will only stay with you out of self pity and would be bangining other guys out there, let her go. Simple!

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so what are we arguing about? we are still saying the same thing.

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Not having a di.ck makes a man a loser? uhm, well, to those who only think with their dick or those who only have their confidence wrapped around their manliness

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Guy, i am not saying you are not pointing out the reality, i am also pointing out the reality that some would still stay not out of pity but for other reasons.

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Go and talk to a man that impotent and you will know it is as easy as you make it sound, the child poverb is just a saying, i am not really referring to child.

Basically, all i am saying is that, a dickless man has lost it all, his mojo is gone, and lost face . . . . i am not saying it is nice, but it is a terrible thing and most women would be goneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Never denying the fact that we have alot who won't stay, it's a reality and yes it's also a reality that we have quite a number of women who would stay. those who didn't get into the marriage for the sex per say.

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like i said earlier, handful will stay . . . . .but not many

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that's a child, not a hubby, just because he's deficient in the manliness part does not make him useless, how about marriages where hubby work out of town and only come home few days in a month or in months? does that give the woman right to bang around? what i am saying is that, it's possible that we still have alot that would stick to their hubby as long as the man knows other ways to satisfy his woman sexually.

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We cant forget the %. If we have to generalise, we have to take a position with the majority.

What you wish for is diffrent from the realities out there.

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Na wa for yu oh.

Yes, i have seen such, and have you heard of the saying that "A child is dead, is better than the child is lost"?

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haven't you heard or seen widowers that never married or had boyfriends?

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that is why we have pre-intimacy and intimacy gadgets, we have sex store in Nigeria now so if they both understands eachother, then they should be able to map out which toy's best to use in other for the woman not still feel her husband. the man can always wear a rubber manliness strapped to his waist/hip and the action still goes on.

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Mehn thats tragedy.The very essence of living is gone.

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They never went into the marriage cos of marriage, however, sex is one of the most important part of marriage.

Show me a grumpy woman/man and i will show you a man/woman that need to get laid.

Like i said, there are just handful of women that wll stick to the man, and such woman is probably cos she has something to gain, or lose if she run away.

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i still maintains that there are women out there who would stick to their husband, i am also being real here. some women or men didn't go into a relationship because of the sex, i hope you know that?

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