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I just found my Dad on top of my mom and I am so scared,I can't even look at my dad's face.what should I do

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Is it that sports people are naturally mentally backward or what?

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Leave her n dnt turn back or u will change into a pillar of salt

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@poster

u said shes sleepin around 4 cash

didnt u jst read another thread abt a girl wit HIV

these are the main cause of the disease

slippin around

now that u have ur facts straight

she's sleepin around that means she has a very gud

opportunity 2 get the VIRUS

Just 1 advice

FLEEEE FOR UR LIFE FROM HERE

RUNNN, RUNNNN, NEVER LOOK BACK

OR else u go turn 2 pillar of salt

dnt let that babe giv u the virus o

u no go fit play ball again o,

if u doubt am ask mikel obi

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Since you know what and who she is no more story leave her patapata , but no do am in a way wey she go think sey you dey form because of sey you wan travel

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~ What a question! ~ NLers are human too ~ If u cnt cope with a 'fukc all' then u gotta move on ~

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@Poster,

I don't think you should be asking for advice after your extensive research on her.

You know what to do,Leave Her!

and when I say Leave her I mean Stop Sleeping with Her!

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psychiatric hospital for that matter

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Just breathe you will be fine.

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Do nothing, it will pass!

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She said we should tell her what to do.

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Have u sort out urself is almost four years now

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How can you end up with a drug dealer? men there are so many fishes in the pond. I am sure you are young. look else where for a new guy.

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I'm glad others saw through the lying character.

Nigerian prisons no get ordinary electricity and H2O na internet them go get for the kwashiokor inmates.

abeg!

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MAMAPUT,

JUST LETS FORGET, E COME TRY US NI

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She also wrote she had just visited the bf.

that means he is also in Lagos.

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Thankyou for the right spelling.

Is the poster in Lagos or from Lagos?

and is the boyfriend in a lagos jail?

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@poster

i would really be sincere with you. please leave the guy ohhhh. just think of what could happen in future.

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I did not know that Kire-kire(SP) hat internet

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Hello mukono, this is a very sad situation but you ought to thank God for this experience.

Had it been you had married him before being faced with this, what would you have done?

No matter what he tells you, do not be fooled. Take a deep breathe; shoulders high and head up

with confidence and take a walk into freedom and be wiser next time around, that is life!

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Thanks gyz for yo replies. I am from lagos. Cmn why investigate me? For wot? I jst met this guy like how u would meet any man bt as u knw men are so secretive. So jst advise me on wot to do if u can. A friend refered me to this site for advise. Its ma first time here.

Good Day

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first tell us who you really are.

1st posting on the forum is having your own thread ?nah.

what is your other name?

Seun please investigate lol.

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Cant you think!you she will go after some time again

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I think they do come back in regard to the fact that men; they realized are always firm and not washing away like them, or wat do u think?

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why do gurls go away from a relationship and want 2 come back later on~

why~

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maybe he never trusted himself

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Do you really need our advise to accept or not to accept her? Don't you have a mind of your own?

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Good point,that exactly what am doing now and thank God she is trying[url][/url]

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Now i know nairaland is filled with dudu but i thank God we still have one outstanding like u.Keep it up.[url][/url][img][/img]

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Na these kind dating dey sprout all these nonsense threads for NL.

3 months and you didn't know. Which kind relationship be that? You don't know much about the person.

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poster no vex na only abuse dem knw 4 nl dnt worry u nd ur babe can teach each other a,b,c to z nd since u can post nd operate a pc u no get problem jare na ur fault say u be iliterate people talk say na condition make crayfish bend u go show dem no wori

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All u posters are fools,u people are not helping matters,am only trying to raise this topic incase we come across somthing like this but instead u prove to b insultive Bleep all ya.No more post if not advice[img][/img]

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Hehehe. D thing cach 2 of una nah, shey na driver be? Tel d truth. @ayetty's signature. Dont warri dear, i willy help u cal am a inlitrate.

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English Language is really hard for this poster.

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U BOTH ARE SAME THATS WHY U COULDN'T NOTICE HER BEING ILLERATE

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It might interest you to know that there is no such thing as 50/50 love, one must love more than the other so is not a big deal. some people dont know how to xpress love maybe thats were ur girl falls in.

so my Guy no reason anyhow make u no go wound o!!!

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@ poster

soldier go soldier come

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Call her, ask her if she really loves you.Let her know how you feel about the both of you, and what is bothering you about her.Then talk things out.

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Dude that is just the reality in a relationship someone always loves more but that doesn't mean that it wont work. I guess just pay attention while enjoying the realtionship while it lasts

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sometimes that feeling she has for you might last longer than you imagine

just accept your fate and hope it works out but if you cant cope with it you are free to back out

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@poster

you just have to accept your fate. . . . . .there is nothing you can do after 18months that would make her love you more than she does(unless you want to pretend being someone you are not).

enjoy the ride while it last.

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@ 007

You have 2 be more specific here otherwise ur fears may b unfounded and thus baseless and shallow.Does she deny u intimacy,if so then that doesn't mean cos we still have chaste girls in Nija.

*peeps to see if he's getting attention from d ladies*

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Tryin 2 be like you.

But at times its better 2 bury d hatchet!

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JUST FOLLOW UR HEART & HAVE FUN, TAKE THE RISK AND DONT LOOK BACK DATS WHY LUV IS RISKY.U MAY NEVER KNOW WAT IS REAL BUT KEEP UR HEAD ON.

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Are you kidding me, ? What should you do? I can't marry him!!! He was in a relationship with another woman, and you guys fell in love with each other? How are you so sure that he won't start running around with other women when you are married to him? You need to run o! Forget about him and find another, better man!

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@ sallysexy,

think long and hard before you take that leap. give your relationship some time to grow and be certain he feels the same way. dont forget you dont live in nigeria so he can put up his best behaviour for the period you are around. my point is be objective, be absolutely sure before you take that giant step. good luck

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@ Aproko

it's not like i have seen him just 3 times, ant time he visits, he spends not less than a week

and the last time i visited him, i stayed with his parents for a month and some days. during that period

we were going out most often with his friends. am in love with him and i feel like av known him all my life.

and about the work he does, he's an engineer and av been to his office thrice.

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Don't be too sure. If the Man has many friends and family that she (d ex) knows, Nigeria won't be big enuf to hide in. unless they (d new) couple move to a rural area.

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@ poster,

you would be shocked that the 'niger ladyand her family' have better things to do than chase you and your future husband around nigeria with over 140m people!!!

your problem shouldn't be whether some girl will chase you around, your problem should be whether that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. you've spoken to him on phone and have seen him only 3 times, you didn't even say if you have met any of his friends or family member, what does he really does for a living, what is in that closet of his e.t.c.!!

i may be old fashioned but i dare say, 3 visits and numerous phone calls is not enough reason to believe he is the person for you. good luck pal.

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