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A girl caught her father having sex with her brother, when her mother was not home,, they claim they are gay, and she has a feeling this has been going on for long, but she just caught them. She is in shock. what should she do?

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The guy never actually said he doesn't like her and she didn't tell him she likes him either.

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Tell your friend (X) to look for another guy; sitting there and grieving over spilt milk wouldn’t solve the problem.

So should move into the relationship market and look for someone else.

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I have a question oh, does girl z like guy y back??

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All this long english - just let her go to the guy and tell him how much she wants him to be foking her, simple.

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okay i get it now, well unfortunately there is nothing she can do about it cause she cant force the guy to love her so she should just move on with her life

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let me make it simpler.

My friend(x) likes a guy(y) who doesn't like her back. Instead, he(y) likes her cousin(z) and he(y) told her cousin(z) that he likes her(z). Her cousin(z) knows that she(x) likes him(y) but didn't tell her. When my friend(x) found out, she got really upset.

Pls, what is ur advice for her.

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am still trying to understand what you are saying but when i do i will get back to you

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@Tope

Stop fleeing from my whispering now,Oya gbe si mi lenu.

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Tell her to find a poor man that is ready to pop some babies into her tummy. The poor man will be happy to do it, so he can live off of her.

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My dear i can handle all weapon that fashions against me,Am more worried about you,dunno if you can hack it.

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"the more we share together, together, together, the more we share together, the happier we'll be~"

3some?

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@ poster,dis ur rooster & bull story is so amazing,innit?

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@Big-Bumper

Am so so in the mood now,Come to my yard now.

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For me i will always HAMMER b4 Marriage.

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you should buy a dictionary.

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@ThiefOfHearts, I see you're trying pretty hard to patronise me.For your information, I don't buy what your sell, okay?

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@ThiefOfHearts, I see you got no scruples one bit.Unfortunately it's filthy ladies like you who dress up on a Sunday morning to go to church to worship the God you know.What's the poo you're dropping around here got to do with the thread?Dam on with your intrigues.

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@ThiefofHearts, if you ain't got any candid or honest advice on a crucial issue why not step on.You don't have to talk for the sake of talking.Everyone's not like you, okay?How do you know BehindBased sex doesn't require much?Sure you've been there, right?If that's what you do then know it's not good for you.I'm straight to the hilt.Stay with the thread or lose it.

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am i missing a point here?! if he has 2million pounds worth of asset of his own and so does she, why should she or he has to give away anything.

they only have to share the common assets which stands at 4mill.

maybe i should read the thread again, i must have missed a corner.

and for the sex thnigy, one posters said it best:

THATS WHY YOU SHOULD ALWAYS TAKE HIM/HER FOR A "TEST DRIVE" BEFORE SIGNING ON THE DOTTED LINE.

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dude you sound gay. why not take the guy for yourself. after all BehindBased sex doesnt require much

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The guy's so cute and good looking and no lady could've known he's dead 'down south'.

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@whitelexi, I guess you got a point there.

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The guy's a british citizen while the lady's being here for 13 years and just 'bout getting her right of abode.For those who're conversant with british law, what's your take on this?

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if she sues him to court its possible she gets away scot free

she can claim he was aware, forced her to have the property in both their names while refusing to include hers in his

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Yeah, that's the big issue.According to the law here, she has to share the property with the bloke if she decides to back off.She never knew before the marriage that the guy wasn't 'man enough'.

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If she leaves now, shouldn't her property be shared?

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If it's a tale to you then pray it doesn't happen to you or anyone you know.The guy is so much set in his ways and won't give a bulge.As a matter of fact, the papers have both of their names on her property while he's refused to put her name on any of his properties.What's you advice?

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what yeye financial security?

they both worth the same thing abeg u n ur tales sha

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When you give advice to some people they'll think you don't know nothing. . . Or you're too young to know stuff or you're just jealous. . . But then u keep on giving advice after all what re friends for?

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See why mothers tell girls to hook up with guys that like them more than they like him? It's so she can decide what's best for her that they (the couple) should do.

This rich guy just has too much control or the girls involved seem to think having his baby will make him commit to them.

Make dem dey dey born for am, at the end of the day chic wey strong go marry the boy and none of those kids go see him house.

What's there to do than to work and take care of Ur kids and stop waiting for the guy to marry U.

Una dey worry sometimes o.

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^^Will they ever learn?

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This is what happens when women are blinded by money you tend to accept rubbish in your life. how can a grown person hook up with someone who "has been looking for a child" What is she a surrogate? she obviously knew the guy is a playboy and he obviously wanted nothing from her other than the fact that he can bed her when ever he wants to and stupidly she thinks she will be financially secured because he has money. Some people shaa. shame on the guy for getting another woman pregnant and shame on the girl for opening up her leg again after she found out he had another woman pregnant then had the nerve to not use protection geez

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Hectic got no words for this

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God will direct u if u get closer 2 him. . talk 2 him.

Never be deceived by men words . .He's must have promised u marriage!nor b 2day!

Move on and keep a clean heart. .hopefully,things go better.

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Ask every married couple d will give u d same story. silly guys are like dat, 7-10 marriages same story.

she better start preparing for self dependence.

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the guy isnt a responsible man but i guess that much is obvious.There are men like that he may feel he owns her and as such have taken her for granted to be a single parent for a guy with two kids cannot be easy i feel for her but your frend must at once start hunting  for a job to be self sufficient is something she must aspire for lucky her she has some form of education she must stand on her two feet so as to raise the two kids properly no need crying over something she cannot reverse.Since she is not married who knws what the future holds tell her to keep her head up.

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he sent her to school to better herself so that she can take care of herself and the babe, she goes and gets knocked up, for a guy who couldn't be bothered, but it makes sense if she didn't want mixed vegetables. or whas she thinking he'd marry her now that she's got two kids instead of one, that the other woman has,

my take, tell her to pack her bags, go back home and start afresh. she can sublet the apartment for extra cash if she needs to,

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What kind of business does she want to start?

How will she run it if "work is out of the question because of the kids" ?

She should look for a business partner,financial backer or maybe she should try to get a mircoloan.

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Don't mind the dumb woman

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She needs to help herself.

Maybe go back to her buz,and stop expecting too much from the man.

Again getting pregnant the second time from a man that has not married her,what waz she thinking?

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she had her own biz before she met him. . . A laundry shop. He told her to stop cos it a majority of men that patronize.

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Is she not doing anything with her life? I think in a relationship, both sides should contribute. As a man, I do not want liability - trust me on this. It will be nice for a woman to be able to do something too you know.

I don't know the guy, but he probably feels she should be able to do a few things for herself.

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He paid for the house yes but daily necessity its a problem. Forgot to mention he's a divorcé

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tell her to let him go, she we find better guy.

after 4 yrs haba the guy is bad

well God knows the best

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its better she is heart broken now than to find out wen the baby is 30years old and then wat will she say or do, So if she loves him to that extent and live with the fact that she has a rival, wel good for her otherwise go the other way,

there is no way to advice such a person they ve to find the answer themselve,

gud luk

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I think she should dump his @ss!

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space and a booking at the hospital for a paternity test if she decides she wants to stick to the guy

and he still insists on his not being sure of the paternity

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take the malnourished 10year old boy down her street to the other girl and say this is his son, i you sure u wanna go thru with this prenancy? i bet she will opt for an obortion.

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