She's a foreigner. We married 1989. We have a son. I live in Naija. She lives in her country. She visited me once. Each time I say come home she says she'll come and visit and I hate to hear that. For the sake of our son in 1996 I tried making a living in her country to show how much I care for them. I came back home briefly on my return to them I was deported. Ever since she had never made attempt to move to Niaja or do anything about my re-entry. Advice me honestly what to do. I'm what u can call a married single for 17 years! Don't ask me how I'm surviving! I'm fine & not doing badly in life, I av what it takes to live.