Just a quick question, people.
Your mother has bosom cancer and decides to leave Nigeria to come take treatment in the country where you reside and stays with you. You have 2 other siblings (1 is married with a baby and the other is single) who live in a different country.
You've been staying and taking care of your mother for about 2 months.
Then, you have a boy you've been dreaming to meet for about 1 year now. You've been talking to him and all that.
People, will you leave your mother to go visit this dude in another country for 2 months while your brother comes to stay with her for the time you'll be gone? Reason, being that "you need a break from all the stress".
She has cancer, you're a woman, she doesn't want you to go 'cause she wants you around her, she's scared of her illness. Would you turn a deaf ear and a blind eye and still go away for 2 months to meet a boy?