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What Will You Do, In This Condition?

please what will you do if you found out that your wife is cheating on you, and to make the matter worse she now have a child that dose not look like you, fair in complaxtion,while you are dark and she too is some how dark too, plaese advice is needed ugently is you love your brother here in N/L

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please if any body have idea on this dont forget to help a brother

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there is a great show on tv called "the Maury Povich" show. they have paternity tests with a twist and your case would do great there. i think you have to get an appointment with them.

If the child is NOT yours then depending on how old the child is, you can either:

1) walk away like you never been there (if very young)

2) stay in contact with the child(if older child) but definitely drop your cheating wife.

so, in fact, all you have is SUSPICION of adultery and nothing more?! get real brotha. the colour of the child skin is not a reason to suspect foul play.

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We are the only race that can create every hue and color up and down.

There is no other race out there that can do that.

Like so many have said before me, because the child is not your color does not mean that she/he is not yours.

As far as the wife cheating if the only thing you have to go to on is the color of the baby then i say get your DNA and then shut your mouth.

Yes you should catch them red handed before you pack her things (if that is what you want), and the DNA test will be your proof.

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pls. without wasting time go for the DNA.

and don't hesitate to give us the feed back there after .

wishing u all the best.

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i dont see anything in your first post that gives any indication the child isnt yours.

Do you have any evidence besides the baby's lighter skin?

be careful with your suspicions- how do you know your wife was cheating on you?

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Before you go for the DNA test, make sure you discuss it with her

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thank you.

Even siblings of the same parents can range from every color- from light to dark. Some dont even look alike.

Its not written in stone that your children will all have the same your complexion.

besides, some babies start out light but get browner with time.

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I think DNA is the solution and you will need to let your wife be aware before going for it.you don't need to care about her feeling because she has betray your trust for her already

so please go for it am solidly behind you

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You can arrange with your doctor and go with your wife and kid, pretend to be doing another test but let the doc take samples and do the paternity test.

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you have supposedly caught her cheating and you STILL worry about HER trusting YOU when going for the DNA test, WTF?!

i will be polite and tell you that you shouldnt really care what you "wife" thinks. if you REALLY caught her cheating then YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO DO A DNA TEST TO ALL YOUR CHILDREN!!!! sorry to bust your dreams but there is no trust in your marriage because if there was, she would go and get drilled by some stranger.

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DNA, DNA is the answer!

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the lack of trust and honesty is the first problem that you need to address in your marriage and then go for the DNA test to see if that child is yours or not. if it aint you will have no option than to leave the rat of a wife you got because it means that she has been unfaithful for quite a while (unless you want to be married to someone who bangs other people).

funny that you had to catch her cheating for realizing that the child was a different complexion than both of you(beware, its possible for 2 dark skin people to have a  light skin child)

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Go for a paternity test.

If the baby is not urs, its only YOU that can decide if u wanna stay with her or not

Goodluck!!!

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