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What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes ?: I Need An Advice Pls !

I am in a relationship with a girl,in the neighbourhood i grew up.although, Before my parent left the the neighbourhood were this girl is ,we used to be very closes friend.After some time has past,i We met ourselves again,fortunately for both of us then we were not in any relationship.,so we started dating, Yes,she is a good cook,she knows how to take care of her Man ,she is hardworking,and most of all she loves me, but ,she isnt that educated, Later i got to discover some things about her pasts.I discovered that she has dated some guys in the same neighbourhood,some of which i dont know.Infact ,i discovered that a guy whom i know in that neighbourhood disvirgined her and she has aborted twice for him, I dont like the fact that I know this Guy  so well, i need an advice pls  should i QUIT  the relationship, She has been begging me  !!!!

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The guy only made a typo. error.

Why y'all stressing it out.

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@EBONY

I GUESS THAT WAS WHEN U WERE IN 100L

GNS101, AHAHA

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4get her past stick with her, everyone has a past includg u

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^^^ listen to this advice because that was in the past and this is now and she loves you. I mean if this is going to bother you because you are afraid of what everyone would say then you are not matured enough to be in a serious relationship. Think of this when you were a virgin it was another woman who disvirgined you and since then you have dated all other people who may or may not know that woman who took your virginity. Now imagine if this girl were in your shoes would you want her to take the fact that she knows who took your virginity into consideration for being with you? or would you want her to consider that some girl you dated in the past got pregnant for you and because you weren't ready she had an abortion?

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there is no saint anywhere, havent u had sex with any girl irrespective of the neighbourhood? If yes why are u feeling embarrased? If u love her go for her, nobody dat does not have a past, u just have to move on with her if u love her.

In terms of her illiteracy, its not everyone that is bound to be literate, and its not everyone that is bound to be illiterate, mind u scholl does not guaranty success it only connects u to success, seems she is hardworking like u said try and study her to know what she i really good at in business and explore her into her area of specialization, u will see she might just be ur perfect woman. Ciao

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@poster, if U think the future will be brighter than what u are experiencing now, then forget the past life of hers and build a solid and strong future with her.

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My sentiments exactly!

@topic

Look at this pot calling a kettle black!

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Geez,according to u she's uneducated!but she aint the one typn "neighborwood"every 10 second nor is sshe d one dat sent us all this grammartical scud missiles.but,setting your seeming semi-illiteracy asid,.everyone has a past don't let hers be the reason for a breakup.hold on tight to her if u truly love her

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U said all this happened in d past,so leave the past alone,u dnt hav 2 quit cos u knw the guy she once dated,wat matas is dt u love her & she feels d same way.

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Interesting. . . . you have a girl that has all those qualities. . . . would you leave her for another girl with less than 2 of those qualities?

I know the weight abortion might weigh on you, but think about it. . . .and get her checked up, if you want babies of your own.

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So she has a past so what? Are you perfect? She loves you right now, she made mistakes, forgive her and move on. You have a good woman there and that is very rare. She may have slept with these guys because she was looking for someone to love her, only to be deceived.

Be man enough to stand up for her, be her covering and put her on a pedestal. You won't regret it.

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