At all, this story is very much like a very bad dream , but when u feel the pains through the 3 yrs dat she felt it, i wonder if she is really like everyone else with so much patience and loss of action. This in deed is a very long story, of emotional,psycological, physical abuse of someone very close to me.It hurts me badly and i feel like i wld ave handled it differently, but my cuz is a very cool, patient and good hearted person, she doesn't deserve such pain, but recently, i found out dat she wasn't really exactly silly for being taken forgranted after all, but am not sure if she can really handle things herself cos of her nature, dats why i need pples advice as am the only person she confines and want to make sure dat i support her and give her my opinion but mine is not enof dats why here, to ask of other pples opinion
In a nutshell, My cuzin's hubby has been cheating on her since they both got married. (5)yrs now, he condems her by giving silly excuses for his lack of respect for her and thier marriage, the worst part is dat he acts like a responsible man to other pple but conceals his evil nature at home, it takes someone who is stays in the same house with them and who is sensitive to know dat things are not what it appears to be,
they dont stay in the same room, sent her out cos he claims he wants his privacy/he locks his door even while taking his bath or in the sitting room
he doesn't eat her meals, brings in meals from his sluts
he doesn't touch her, claims fatique and other silly reasons
he gives her abnormal rules to live by
he lies on her
he chats with his g/friends in front of her on the computer and phone/ on 2 occassions she has been called by them to insuilt her
He always boast to her dat noone wld believe her, cos his words wld be against hers, which is true
he recently beat her cos she managed to confront him when he tried setting her up dat she is the one cheating on him, yet he swore to pple dat he never touched her, this got her really scared cos she feels dat he maybe planing to kill her and noone wld believe
what he doesn't know is dat she has been keeping evidence of things he has been doing to her in the past 3 yrs,
to me this man has no remorse and with each passing confrontation ,he goes back to his action after his wife forgives him and try hard to be perfect, he improves by making sure dat he dates majorly married women so dat no one wld believe his wife.
I BELIEVE THE MAN IS CURSED AND NEEDS HELP, BUT HW CAN U HELP SOMEONE DAT FAILS TO BE REMORSE ORTRUTHFUL?