What should you do when your other half starts getting fatter and fatter?
What you do not want to do is keep telling her she is fat.
Otherwise she will get bigger - just tell her nicely that u wanna get a bit trimmer and both of you can go to the gym together.
Just help her with the calorie intake and she will keep up. If you can sign her up to a calorie counting class, then its ll good.
Hey there is a non judgemental site that deals with this issue.
Its for people who are married to fat wives and husbands
Before you start whining about spam at least look at it, ITS NOT SPAM, its a real support group for people have this issue where they don't get scolded about being shallow for having natural opinions.
On the other hand they don't tolerate "Dump the Fat B**ch" very well either there are real people who are in this situation that have real ideas and suggestions.
If him or her being fat really upsets you then you and he/she need to discuss it. However, not all fatness is harmful - moderately overweight people are actually at an advantage in some areas, especially if they also exercise and eat healthily.
The real issue here is the personal dynamic. Most heavier people already have an awareness that they are heavier, some actually are naturally heavier. Many times they are comfortable with their size, in others they are not. In the former they are not really interested in losing, in the latter they are likely to be insecure and resentful. Bottom line: any advice not asked for is going to be resented. Ask yourself, how would I feel about someone trying to change me without being asked?
Now a real surprise - do you know that some people actually LIKE fatness, either in themselves or in others? Before bringing up to another person the issue of their changing you need to first determine how they feel. If they change it should be primarily for themselves, not for you.
obesity can be a big problem. It's also a breathing ground for other problems as well, (high blood pressure, high cholesterol, etc, ) Obesity complicates everything and worsens problems that could have easily been treated had the person not been obese.
Tell your wife you love her and you want to grow old with her, something you might not get to do if she doesn't get help. Try to find out why she's eating more--is it emotional eating? is she stressed out about something? or even depressed? Hire a dietician (sp ?) (if there's one where you are) to start preparing her food for her and advising her, if you can't afford to do this, clean out whatever is in the fridge and storage/pantry and replace it with healthier things, change how you prepare your food--i.e. don't fry everything, try baking, get her interested in something active and participate in it together, get rid of anything that's not water or a healthy liquid, start counting calories and gradually reduce it as times go by, and have her talk to a doctor about the potential consequences of being obese in case she doesn't want to listen to you, sometimes we need to hear things from the horses mouth, you know.
www.webmd.com is a fairly informative site for good health info,
generally most men turn outside when there spouse/wife get fatter but i must advice if the love is till there you should take out out for a gym and some evening walk.most Ladies stave them self all on the name of not getting fatter but how long will they do this
men!!! just help her out for a gym and show her more love
ok this is a realistic answer..if u r newly married, it is understandable that happiness and confort might make her fat up. If u werent planning on getting a baby anytime soon, just ask her to find a job that will make her wake up early in the morning. Very stressful job like working in mc donalds and standing up for hours. She does not even need the gym and she will melt within a week. I am saying from experince....
If she lives in nigeria and ofcourse no business in open by 6 7 in nigeria, just advice her to wake up early with alarm clock and do some jugging in the house. It will not help as much as starting work early in the morning though in an office where she will stand up for hours..good luck to the men with fatties. Definitly not my type..The beautiful ones are not yet born....