Imagine this situation:
1. You are happily married with kids, but the family average income is just OK but not sufficient to cater for the whole family. You always have to plan before the next pay check.
2. You are happily married still waiting on the Lord for kids, but can afford all the good things of life. Good House, Cars, frequent vacations etc.
Sincerely, if you have a choice, which would you prefer?