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Who Comes First: Your Mum Or Your Wife?

Who comes first btw Ur Mum and Ur Wife and vice versa as the case may be?

But as for me my wife comes first cos we re one in two.

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depends on the circumstance.

key is never to take sides no matter how difficult

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i don't care what anybody says, my wife and my mum each has a special place but if i have to decide, mama first, i am sorry honey.

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gbam ,  if your mum comes first please dont bother getting married you have already found you soul mate. Remember that your wife is the one you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with, your sleeping and waking hours the one who you should turn to when things are good or bad , for better for worse.

If you have made a mistake in marriage and need to turn to your mum for solace pray to God for a turnaround ,

My dad holds a special and dear place in my heart , i will always be there for him and take care of him cos he has always been there for me . My fiancee fully understands that my dad is my hero and i will never consisder marrying a man that does not realize that my family is important to me  , but i will be silly if I let my dads voice be the one that supercedes in my maritial home, or I take my dads needs over the needs of my future family. 

On the other hand I always forget that some men have wifes that are simply vessels to cook , clean and bear children, if that is the case with you and your future wife of course Mummy is the true soul mate , plan your life with mummy!!!!

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@topic,

tough decision

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Love mum but when I'm married my wife comes first, too many marriages have been broken up by men putting their mums first. . .

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mom will never deny her child?? i have read and seen women who dump their child, some who just left it with the father family and run away NEVER ever to come back.

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She holds the two piller of my life inform of ribs and without mum i won't ve been here posting this.let me breakdown this way.with the good things of life i will know the value of my wife and when things are tight mum will never deny is child.but i have to stay close to my wife becos she is just me in another human.

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pls ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh guys IT MUST BE UR WIFE FIRST

when u go out there u face many struggles and tribulations

it is ur wife that will still come and rub ur back no matter what u pass through.

mummys are good oh but wifey comes first

so guys take note.

ok

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dude take it easy, all your posts this night have a mean streak to them. did you have a rough day?

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I think this question is for Igbo/ Yoruba Guys, THEY are the one who face this dilemma , there is nothing to choose, this aint no objective crap, They play there seperate roles, it like asking a human to choose between water and food, plz , stop psoting up poo,

why choose when u can have both? abeg , try use brain

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Sweet mum comes first.

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and your wife father should come first, very simple.

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I love my parents dearly and I will love my hubby deeply too by God's grace. I already know that my hubby will come first cause we are one.

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this question was asked in a survey and most men chose mother in place of their spouse; some claimed a wife can be replaced but not a mother. heard the result in a radio talk show.

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my grl comes first, anytime anywhere. It's different for different ppl. My mom's goin to be close,but not as close as my girl. nuh uh--nope.

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The rope btw mom n child is endless but when you grow up to be a man she learns to see you do things ya own way. She comes first cause she brought me into this world. Wives come n go, you can have so many even when you are married but you only have one mother.

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For me, my mum comes first

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depends on who my "wife" really is and what she means to me,

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my husband will always come first

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d wife shud come first. d bible confirms dis saying ' for this reason, a man shall leave his parent and cling to his wife and they shall become one flesh'. am a girl, and i expect that the affection btw d mother and the hubby should be as strong as ever, but then i shud come first in his decisions.

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I will love and cherish my wife , but my mom comes 1st.

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