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Who Is Supposed To Be Richer, The Husband Or The Wife?

I wonder who is supposed to be richer, is it the Husband or the Wife but I think it is the Husband, I don't know about you.

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@post, Money brings out a part of us we often never knew existed, its easy to say stuff when reality aint your real backing, methinks we need an example of a real life scenario as a basis for judgement why not check up this unfolding thread and make a really truthful comment http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-484727.0.html

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Leave that undeveloped cells alone. At least some people still have working neurons.

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You are a clown.

CHild of God dont talk too much about it, they will be spotted with their actions.

Mind u, aint saying you are not a child of God oh.

So preach on broda

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Ideally the husband should bring in more money.  What if the wife gets a better paying job than the man?  Richer husband or wife should not matter as long as there is love, understanding and mutual respect in the marriage.  I do not respect a man because of his income, there are better qualities I look out for.

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Offcourse, you must start from somewhere but don't stay there.  Yes I am a MOG and I am imparting many lives.  I don't have to be in agreement with everyone though.  If you don't agree with my little knowledge, well and good.  I don't please men, I please God!  I don't fear oppositions, many are made by them.

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oh my worst days, is this a human beings posts or an animal's?

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you are very silly for this statement, common go back to kindergarten,efulefu

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Like i said, you have no idea who i am and what i do, so let us drop that one.

I will agree with you that working for someone else is never a way to be rich, but life starts from somewhere sir.

I read somewhere that you are a child of God, tongue talking and that----i am not your judge, so will leave u with that.

But my guy, let your light shine so much, that it will lit the darkness of the world, let your light make others to wanna follow u to your God and not otherwise.

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@chaircover, who did I insult, give me an example.

By the way, I am Holy Spirit filled with evidence of speaking in tongues.  God is the judge and stop judging people so that you won't be judged!

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Forgiven.  Post your post and don't insult people in the blog.  Abusing others is abusing yourself.  It goes back to the sender.

Money is good but the love of it is bad.  Money is just paper.  In heaven there are no $$$ £££ €€€, there's gold and more precious stones than paper money.  Your worth is not only measured by what you got in your bank account.

My point in the topic is that, man should not be complacent when his wife is earning more.  He was given a brain to think.  I believe man has only used only 0.5% of what he has.  The potential in man is unlimited. 

Incase your wife earns more than you do, that is very good and gives you a chance to explore the unlimited opportunities.  That way if she earns hundred of thousands, there's a business or entreprenuership you could engage to be earning in millions.  Be richer than Solomon who was filthy rich than all!  The richest men in the world today are men.

God never wants otherwise for anyone.  That's no good prayer.  God has given everyone a free will, but His will is that you may prosper even in your health.  Because a sick rich man is a poor man.

Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

3 John 1:2

You are responsible of who you are today don't blame God!

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Yeah my daddy is God and He daily loadeth me with benefits.

It depends with your understanding of business and entreprenuership.  But the question is, will you work for someone else all the days of your life without having shares even when you 90, just incase God blesses you with longlife?

By the time you 60, your money should be working for you and one way to do that is by investments.

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How is that Sir, cos i said the money is for both?

Biz is good sir, and who told you i am not in biz? i guess cos we all come here and talk together now makes u think we all yahooze?

My guy, from all u have said, it is obvious, you are just some lil kid that is surfing with daddy's allowance to his son.

First of all, get it str8, biz is not for everyone and i can point to millions of biz men that are yet to make it.

Whatever your hands find to do, please do and God will bless it.

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By d time Seun introduces payment on NL almost evryone here will flee esp those dat have mouth!

But i guess this is 9ja and a forum here shldnt be worth paying for.

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Any1 can be richer. But love is important esp if d wife becomes richer than the man

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@ GEW

So? What are you trying to imply? Money makes a better leader or other types of influence are more important?

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chei you are usually very calm wetin happen?

oga,  mamlaka, i beg leave this matter this lady is one of NL finest. she dont go looking for trouble.  we all know how we keep our homes and we dont have to know how much we keep under pillow or flight class we use.  this is NL and so fully naija.  we have from bankers to unemployed even though over opiniated teenagers here.

there are rich, not so rich and probably mr and mrs average here that is why seun made it free forum so pls if you dont mind leave this matter i plead

and tks for heeding

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@ mamlaka

*yawnnnnn* As Fhemmy has said, you have no clue about what leadership is about.

Must the President of a country be the richest of all before he can consider himself a leader? All what you have written is pure crap. No wonder you have gained no support from any one with a number of neurons superior to one.

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That's pride and it comes before a fall.  Just be careful.  You have no Idea who you talking to!

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Whatever?! My advice for you is that marry a hard working man if you aint.

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@chaircover, the question is not what marriage is!  Invest in Africa there are more opportunities here.

@Fhemmmy, you sound like a lazy man who manages a woman that is rich.

Men do business till He comes.  For how long will you be employed?  Business has great rewards (filthy rich).  You'll see billions in business but never in employment.  You will retire someday anyway!

You don't manage a woman you manage the resources!

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Great.

It doesnt even go down too well with me, hearing that the man has more money than the wife, of the wife has more money than the husband.

It is a family.

The wife or the husband is used to describe the other, they will call the woman, the wife of that "poor man" or vice versa.

It is a family/couple thing, if one is rich, they are rich and if one is poor, they are poor.

Who draws the line btw the wife's money and that of the husband?

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So cos a man has to always lead means he has to always have more money than the wife?

i think we need to always know the meaning of Leader and a Head before we just use any funny definitions.

Being the head could mean managing a woman that is richer as well.

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@sweetpie, You got it!  Paradventure, the lady gets a better job, the guy should work overtime or start another business and take the lead by example.  Do whatever his hands findeth to do.

I prefer, my wife take care of our children till they grown since they are our future and I provide everything.  It's more profitable for my wife to do so.  The success of a woman is her home not her career.

I enjoy when my wife spend on me wisely.  Thank God I never married a waster and I treat her like a queen.  She has direct access to all my accounts.

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If there is true love between the two, it doesn't matter who is the richest though women love it when they told their friends my husband bought these and that for me or he took me to xyz and we had fun than when the husband depend on the wife for most of the things.

So women love your husbands for who he is not for what he is and men don't get jealous if your wives earns more than you

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wonderful question and i will be back to read her response

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Have you just described yourself?

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If the wife is only respecting the husband based on the size of his account, then, that is not respect, but bought respect.

That is why i said, in a love-filled marriage, it should not matter.

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In a real true love-filled marriage, it should not matter.

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Both should be rich. . . no one shud be richer.

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And your husband will surely be in serious trouble.

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Whatever, so far one of you is rich, I want 2 b d rich one sha.

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you are doomed as a man if your wife is reacher than you

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no mather what the wife wont give respect to her husband

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