So i was talking with someone about this and she was like you'll marry your husband,not your kids. I think husbands are alright,but when i get married and have kids,my children will be the most important things in my life. Then i brought in a little illustration: if you were in a situation where your husband and your child were going to die and you could only save one,who would it be? As for me it's a no-brainer. I'd save my kid. What would you do,and who do you think should be more important in a marriage?