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Who Would You Like To Die First: Husband Or Wife?

People, this has always been what comes to my mind everyday and i will like to hear your opinion about it.

Most couples tend to love each other till death do them apart but one thing is certain someone has to die first.

The wife would want the husband to go first because she want the property or will to be in her favour and belong to her alone ( but most will prefer to say "for her children").

while the man will want the woman to die first so that he can become youth again and live life while it last.

Which ever way it goes death is inevitable, but who would you prefer to die first and state your reason.

thank you

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^^^ Lol

No Nija man or woman wanna hear about death

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i will leave it for baba GOD

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That's going to be a hard one. What I do know for sure is I'll spend 120 years before I die, so if she can beat that then I sure will die before she does.

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I will not be too quick to say that, cos some of the people on NL are just clowns, they just say what they feel like saying and what they do at home, i am sure is different, cos some pple just saying stuff that makes u to wonder, what kinda man/woman sleeps under same roof with them.

But then, different strokes.

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If some of the marriages I've read about on NL are anything to go by, I wonder why they didn't just buy the film rather than get married! 

Death is not an easy thing to deal with most of the time, even after taking the vows we have no idea when it will become real.  This is quite true at the moment with a friend and the family of a late work colleague's family who are living this situation.

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Yeah, in a real marriage, not all the "yeye" union that people are having these days, not the "for better for stay, for worse, for waka"

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No one knows what's in anyone's mind, whether they're married to them or not.  However I find it annoying when people can trivialise the loss of a spouse down to "what is in it for me".  When a spouse dies, unless someone is particularly bitter and/or resentful, those matters are the last thing on people's minds.  Maybe it's on the mind of the rest of the family who weren't in the relationship.

In any case, I probably don't watch those movies or hang with those people.  Not everyone is in a marriage for fraudulent reasons.  There may be some people who do it, but in my experience they are not in the majority.

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Old topic with new character on a daily occourence

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@Fhemmmy thanks u , some ppl think others are not as wise as them.

we all know that is more than pain when you lost someone close not to talk of your better half. death is ineveitable but someone must go first.

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Inasmuch as you have a good point, you will agree that the dude has some point too, marriages these days are full of funny characters and it is all like a movies, how i wish we can read what goes on in the mind of the other half in the home.

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weird question.

whoever God decides he wants FIRST

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seems like this person have some other agenda after the age of 60 for her husband, i hope the husband will be careful.

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I will leave that to the Almighty Father to decide.

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Well, this decision or contribution is very personal.

My Father once told me that he prayed about it, he wanted to die first, so that someone will be there to mourn him, fortunate that was what happened.

It is my desire also, that I die be4 my wife.

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i will like to go first, cos i will be lost without her

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