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Why Are Married Men Never Contented With Their Wives?

Can somebody please explain why most men still run after other ladies after marriage. Why do men find it difficult to stick with their wives no matter how beautiful or attractive she is? This is so pathetic.

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TWO REASONS;

(1) Most wives starve their husband of sex by giving series of excuses.

(2) Most husbands kept so many sex partners before marriage. Hence they will find it very difficult to stick to just one after marriage.

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The person is still talking?

Is your brain made of cement?

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You are a person.

Shut up!

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Cause you seduced him to marry him by showing off Your.... So when he gets tired of your help needs to move on

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I don't believe in this phrase "its in their blood" or d sentence "men r born polygamous" et al! I think it was adopted cos of their chronic infidelity not really cos they were really born dat way! I think they use those silly phrases and sentences to justify their he-goatism =)) (if english will permit dat word)

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Things is, men are a lot more open about their sins than the female folks, who wouldn't hurt a fly at day time, yet bosom feed a lion at night.

What I'm trying to say is, women should stop putting 'all' men in bad light, after all it all began from them, right from Eve.

The first profession in history of man was prostitution, & who plied the trade? Women of cause. Well we all know who stands at night in the middle of the streets waiting for 'married men' too.

So ladies should quit acting innocent when most times they're play acting & appealing to pity.

Its a 'pro women's' world. They just want more if not all. Men happen to be the fall guys.

Not saying men are not bad, but not as bad as most ladies potray cos I come across worse ladies everywhere I turn. Most Nigerian ladies are not worth marrying if we really want to go by the book. Men are more of the victims in marriages, cos a man goes through a lot in the hands of his wife that he can't say publicly just to save his own face. Look inwards poster.

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the truth is dat most guys want wives as hot as beyonce with class, elegance and coordination yet they want to remain mr ibu.......you dont want your woman to tie wrapper on her chest but you tie urs on ur waist and sit down to read the dailies or wear an over-sized boxer with a sagged singlet like osuofias . it doesn't work that way.....if you want her to be cool,morden and trendy then step up your game. she ll definitely adjust when she sees that she is being left behind and getting outta your league

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I can virtually guarantee you that that position wouldn't have changed.

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Its lyk, single ladies love to date married men...especially wen dey are not ready to be engaged....dey will be rest assured that their relationship with a married guy will benefit dem and dey can still move on wif dia lyf....since the man can always go back to his wife wen they are tired of him....its a win-win situation.....so

Ladies, blame ladies dat date married guys too

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Whr is seina?u said u love ur wyf in 2010...wld lik 2 knw if u stil luv here in 2013

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Its obvious that ladies are more religious than men. They're are the ones to blame, firstly, for getting involved with married men (for whatever reason) secondly for crying foul when same happens to them when they finally become victims of their own games. If ladies will ever be honest and admit the hideous crimes & infidelity they get involved in, this thread won't have been up. If ladies are true to themselves, we'll all agree that women are far more promiscious than the male folks. They're masters of deceit & appeal to pity. At the rate of one cheating man to two ladies; we have that if ten men cheat, twenty women do same. Hence women cheat far more than men. QED. (Maths nor dey lie)

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Even though I agree with your position, I am just entirely baffled why you quoted such an intellectually bereft post to praise.

It really rarely gets dafter than this!

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I am happy someone finally addressed the issue in such a way. We should have a discussion on how to make a change.

I am convinced that many Nigerian men cheat because it is considered normal in Nigeria's society.

I know, people will get angry with me now and say white men cheat too. Yet, I am convinced that Nigerian men cheat more. And I am also convinced that it is due to the fact that we accept this behaviour so easily. So not only biology plays a part in that whole scenario but also the cultural approach. My opinion AND experience.

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Very negative mindset.

Its no different from a suicidal one only matter of time and being expressed in another dimension.

Every spouse who cheats only reflects how much s/he hates him/erself.

There is a trend going on,people are taking out their frustrations on the ones they love believing it makes them feel good.

I like to close by saying "everyone grows old feeling used"

I have seen men cheat by just traveling out of town,I have also seen women cheat because he traveled to a far state and comes once in 1-3yrs,statistics none;I bet you dont have.

My question: Is there no way we can discus how to get your spouse not to cheat and atleast offer vacation packages or organise outings or events to help unions than sit all day post on spouse who cheat?

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It takes the fear of God and grace not to cheat on your wife/spouse in marriage. In my own case, I am contended with the kind of woman God has given me. I am happily married for over 10 years now and God has helped me to be faithful to my wife. I have never sleep with any other woman apart from my wife and I pray it will continue like that till death do us part. It takes the FEAR of GOD, grace and commitment.

I pray god will deliver those who cheat on their spouse (amen).

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It is only glutons that eat up and down and its only male rooster dat run after female hen and also lizard run after female lizard so men are not just contented with what they used so they like changing them or dump them when they are old this is just the problem.

By uruemu.

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The law of diminishing marginal utility is involved. And this law has taken a firm hold of most men.

Leave matter for mathias, joor.

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[quote author=Happytina][/quote]He/she who fears GOD will never ever call HIS WORD 'yeye'. we need to fear and respect GOD without HIM, we cannot be. If theres fear of GOD in every individual, this TOPIC would not be in existence. i rest my case.

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They lack the fear of God

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one word- INDISCIPLINE

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One toto dey kill prick.

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some women can b so boring after marriage.they feel they'v arrived and dunt need to impress their men anymre,whras there r other ladies out thr that can gve anythng to get attention

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women tend to lose their values as they stay longer in their matrimony

They depreciate in what they used to do before and immediately you got married

Some are not as romantic and friendly as they used to be back in the days

then, men wants attention and care at all times and if he's not getting enough in his house

he goes out for supplement.

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The simple answer is because they lack a personal relationship with God! The depth of love a man has for his wife does not guarantee he will not cheat,the only thing that will stop him is the fear of God knowing that what he is about to indulge in is a wicked thing and will grieve God's heart. This theory also applies to the female gender.

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My Broda I wonder whether na blood dey run for your veins ... One year !!

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;DPay back time for those wives who kept married men when they were not married away from their legitimate homes. Any wife who cannot keep her husband contented is falling. Find out what is missing

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Even most women does same too. The truth is that the law of nature or karma must take effect. As a young girl in secondary school or university or even as an unmarried graduate, once u had in ur time slept with another woman's husband in d name of knowing whats up or whatever u girls call it, it must surely come back to u. By the time u marry ur own husband, another young girl must surely do same to u. It is the law of nature: DO UNTO OTHERS AS U WANT THEM DO UNTO U. THE MEASURE U GIVE IS THE MEASURE U WILL RECEIVE.

So, if our single ladies should learn to date single guys and leave other women husbands alone it will go a long way to reducing men's stepping out.

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some men r not usually contented with what dey have, some are sexually gifted n some have long throt on women that why they have to leave wife n look for another woman.

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Not true 'cos I love mine n have never wanted another but in some cases the couples are to blamed for it due to issues they have and in some cases result to the man/woman's waywardness.all the same some men are randy likewise women period.

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The number of threads put out for the sole purpose of condemning and castigating a sex - male or female - is getting increasingly annoying. Why are we hell bent on casting aspersions on one another. Truth is this trend can only serve to create antipathy between both sex. Men and women are meant to complement one another and not become sworn rivals. It is true that Love does bring hurt with it atimes, but Hate is a recipe for disaster and a tool of regression. After all is said and done, Love does make the world go round. Planting this notion of 'gender isolation' or 'ganging up together' or 'we against them' mentality in the mind of the younger generation isn't the best. Unnatural sexual orientation are fast on the rise and this growing void between between both gender could possibly be the reason why. Nature/God has made it so that we coexist together, why not make the most of this and learn to coexist BETTER. Love and Respect are two sides of a coin, appropriating them correctly will serve us well. All the best pals. Cheers!

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1.It takes grace and fear of God to be faithful which all men should seek for

2.Some men mitate to do so or marry when they said i do without knowing the content.

3.Upbringing matters too,either extended or polygamous.

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Your english is in dire need of deliverance

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can u chop one soup for one year?can u chop one soup for one year?can u chop one soup for one year?

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Man insatiability towards women dates back to history, so I think we have nothing to do about it, we just try to be cautious. Abraham in d bible, David, Solomon and you name all had fling of a sort.

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Something tells me you are a high-quality woman.

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Its in our DNA.It goes back to caveman times when death cld come at any moment and survival was the first instinct.We want to spread our seed as widely as possible to ensure survival of the species.We also want a female who looks like she can carry our children and breastfeed them.That is why a woman with big kegs,wide hips and a tiny waist is a man killer anyday.What she looks like facially is beside the point.

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makw una listen i get explanation to dis tori

dont shoot me oh im just a messenger

u wey as u fit watch one tv station for 1 day?

That is how it is with the organ called joystick lol

on a serious note its a matter of self control

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because they go through hell in their various homes frm u ppu.....Onli a foolish/Mad man ll have peace of mind with his wife nd stil go out there chasing yng gals

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After marrying her, you go out after others? It shows some level of immaturity & irresponsibility in da man.

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Women are totally clueless about this. Men will always cheat because they are wired to. The kind of sexual pressure men deal with in a day trounces what most women see in their entire life time. it is all about sex and to be truthful one woman is never enough. So when you see a man that is faithful know that he is a very strong man. For women, it takes practically no effort to be faithful.

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Why shud the man be d one to always ask for sex frm his wife? Also, 99% of married women nag and don't respect their hubbies. Also, why is it that whenever a man wants to do, that's wen his wife will remind him of how he offended her? To the extent that d man's Prik wud become flaccid. I have reasons to cheat cos of my wife's attitudes but I chose not to cos I don't want to start what I know is wrong and won't be able to stop. I love se.x buh my wife is fond of putting up attitudes that get me frustrated. I am still trying hard not to start what I neva did while I was single. It aint easy though.

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because some wives stil tie wrapper lik an old woman.

Remain spicy jus lik wen he 1st met u,

Anoda,dere is diffrent btwn ewedu,banga,egusi,owo n ofensala.

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1. Is ur relatnship abt 2 collapse

2. Is ur relatnship already in d pit

3. Ar u findin it difficult 2 get d rit relatnship

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That's just how our gene is programmed. Man isn't made to stay with one woman, it is against our nature. Monogamy is a restriction on men's sexual drive which determines our persona. Look at our cousins in the animal kingdom, 99.9% of other animals share their brood and don't burden themselves with one partner. Monogamy is one of those sef-denial instead of self-affirmation introduced by white men and christianity. Man is simply polygamous in nature.

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Most women dnt bother 2 ignite d passion I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ their marriage agn,dey are wtf I'm married so he's jez gonna like ♍ƺ d way iam,slap ursf sister,men like d chase or why do U̶̲̥̅̊ think dat guys are always aftr gals dat do not want dem is coz d one thing only"d chase",so yl being d G̲̣̣̣ό̲̣̣̣̥ό̲̣̣̣̥D̶̲̥̅̊ wife dnt 4gt abt lookn gud 4 ur man and I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ d course of tryn 2 kip ur man dnt do dat till U̶̲̥̅̊ exhaust ursf,learn 2 stand Ǚρ̩̩̩̩̥ 4 what U̶̲̥̅̊ bliv I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ and those stuffs U̶̲̥̅̊ used 2 do b4 U̶̲̥̅̊ gt married(not d bad stuff though)bottom line let him knw U̶̲̥̅̊ hv gt a life dan stalkn him  d phone like tryna knw wia he is everytym

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Cheating is a choice! It could also be because the man has a special bond with his Ex or its just a habit to have more than one lady while he was growing up.

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In some cases,greediness. And in most cases their wife stop being,acting,dressing like the same hotpie they met many or few years ago before they got married

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Greed, lack of principle and lack of respect.. read more...

http://www.nairaland.com/1474929/what-hard-monogamy-mono-amorous-relationships

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I hate cheats! Two things I'll never take from any man: abuse and infidelity...they are sooooo unforgiveable

God knows I'll do anything to keep my man/marriage but when you m.ess up... zan ci duru uwar ka!!!

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