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Why Do Married Men Run After Young Girls?

Recently, married men have been on my neck and when i ask them why they want to be unfaithful to their wives they tell me it's a man's world.

Please why are married men like this?

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Mr concept, l like ur cencept gan, ese pupo, but u cant blem d girls alone dis issue is vice versa, l tried datin a girl all ma life but wen u r heart broken, cheated, dump, l learnt ma lesson, learnt d game, re-arrange maself,

Now l dont do girls again, and am planin to marry, girls with obsession,ladies dat want nice guy, mamas, suga mumies r all over d place after me, am even afraid to marry nw, so there wont b any yawa, but ma councelor is workin on day.

So, men go out for girls like dem, some girls even prefare married men, alot dey look for, fun, l wont say money because daugther of rich people fall into dis too, l wud say d game, but me cant do it, cant do, not any more

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I will start like this:

What goes around comes around. There was a guy who studied in one of the tertiary institution in Nigeria, He had this beautiful lady he wanted to make his wife. They were dating, the guy being from a very humble background has nothing to entice other ladies but at the other side the intended wife i.e his girlfriend did not have money however the beauty of lady will always attract prospective admirers to her.

The lady had some admirers and secretly slept with some who were her benefactors. These activities were suspected by the boyfriend but anytime such issues were raised, the lady would even swore to God to strike her dead if something of such has ever happened. This is the kind of scenario guys face when dating in higher institution and they end up marrying these ladies. Please ladies in the house. I want you to crucify me. How many of you can boast of being faithful to your partner 100% during courtship?

The guy got married, had a good job, then the spirit that hunted his wife when at school is now hunting the ladies around him, they sought his attention and  men (90%) being what they are, whether in Tokyo, America, Europe or our polygamy Africa will never allow such opportunity to slip through. However, the madam on the other hand is now relaxed, the man has finally become her own. She is careless about his requests; food, sex and views on family management.

The man is now obsessed with things outside the house, booze with guys, womanise ;sometimes these ladies treat them so nice especially on food and sex and suddenly that good husband now turned bad at home.

I will impolre the ladies like the wife above to stop the inglorious act then such recycling of event will stop.  E SE PUPO.

AND STOP PRACTISING HYPOCRISY

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I think its the other way round why are young girls chasing married men. Cos I am married and av met several girls who even knowing that am married still pester and confess love to me. Most of their reaons they adduce are:

1. Having boyfriends is not a gurantee they will get married to theim

2. Some bachelors are actually older than most men who marry early E.g I got married at 26 and am now 28+, I have an elder broda who is 31 yet unmarried

3. Whether married or single, man na man

4. Some married men have just one mistress and wife and are better than some guys who have dozens of gurlfriends

5. It is more difficult for a married man to cheat cos of time and accommodation constraints unless he is irresponsible to his family

6. They always want the best (money and s3x) man whether married or not

7. For a man to be married that means they can feel safe and are sure to be taken care of

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Most of these single ladies are the ones who are chasing after these married men.

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@ OP, I think that apart frm indiscipline n lack of self control, most men do it for unexplainable reasons. Associated with the FACT that its an African Culture. Its sad though, but its a fact that remains. For the girls, nobody forces u, u're well aware he's married n u have a choice to accept or not. As simple as that.

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Cos they are riotous, not contented, greedy and not God fearing. Moreover @ post, not "Married Men" but "Some Married Men".

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because they are he-goat, simple

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SO WHAT DOES A MAN DO IF THE WIFE KEEPS DENYING HIM OF THAT PERFECT GIFT OF MARRIAGE FOR ONE WEEK, 2 WKS, 3WKS and, and, and, ?

PLEASE TELL ME.

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Yes, but it seems to be acceptable in our society though, so would that mean that we have an indiscipline society?

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So that made it right?

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@POSTER

VARIOUS REASONS:

1. SEX-STARVED/UNSATISFIED - HEADACHE/TIRED/BABY/DIDNT SLEEP/WORK WAHALA (90%)

2. NAGGING WIFE (95%)

3. LOVE HAS VANISHED FOR THE WIFE (5%)

4. HYPNOTISED BY ANOTHER WOMAN/JUJU (2%)

5. MARRIED TO WRONG PERSON (50%)

6. NEED FOR VARIETY & ADVENTURE (40%)

7. WIFE CANNOT PERFORM/LACK OF SKILLS (30%)

8. MEN ARE ANIMALS & CAN SLEEP WITH ANYTHING (40%)

9. SEDUCED BY BABES/THE MAN DIDNT HAVE IT IN MIND (40%)

AND LOTS MORE

[Figures here are a range, with a 5% error margin]

THE TRUTH IS THAT MOST MARRIED MEN WHO SLEEP WITH OTHER GIRLS STILL LOVE THEIR WIVES & DO NOT WANT THEIR WIVES TO KNOW. NO ONE CAN FAULT THIS!!!

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Married men chase young girs becos,as they use to say

"One person nor fit do the job"

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why it the fault of the way a girl dresses.  are men really that weakminded that they cannot control themselves.  yes there are whores out there who look for married men but the men are the keystone to the equation.  the man should have enough self control to simply say no and walk away.  noone is holding a gun to these mens heads and saying they must f*ck some LovePeddler, they CHOOSE TO! either the man is better then the woman as many of you preach (if so no woman can influence him to cheat) or men are weakminded and incapable of reasonable thought processes (the way a girl dresses makes him want to f*ck her)  one or the other.  cant have it both ways

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Common, u cant blame the actor without blaming the audience, if there are no girls to phuck the old men, there wont any old men looking for the young girls.

So it is a demand and supply situation

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married men, that chase after girls are HE-GOAT, while the girls are mumu

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they cld have gone to the gym if that was the reason

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If that is the case, how come some girls in western world are still dating married men?

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IMHO I think it's a matter of economics. The married men I guess are in a position financially that they are able to entice these young chics by flashing their money etc. If 9ja was better-off economically I can guarantee you that these married older guys wouldn't stand much chance cuz the younger chics would be in better position financially where they don't necessarily need some older/ married dude to spoil them.

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@ Poster

thatz wat the ladies had been long looking 4.

sugar Daddies (Grand-daddy)

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@poster,

            Lack of self control

This is what i call INDISCIPLINE

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that is definitely not a Nigerian proverb. i dont want my wife to be a LovePeddler ANYWHERE

what is there to figure? or are we to accept whatever is the English way of doing things?

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I am married but i have had young university girls, and even single girls wanting me

to screw them. Sure they may be interested in the financial gains, but all the same they

are looking at a married man.

The world has simply gone crazy.

RMD is married you sure can guess how many girls will die to be with him.

Your guess is as good as mine.

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No. An English proverb says a good wife should be a lady in public and a LovePeddler in the bedroom. Go figure.

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@post

simple, b/c they miss their bachelorhood

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IT BAFFLES ME TOO,

@ POSTER

YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS, IT'S BEEN THE CASE WITH ME AS WELL,

MORE RECENTLY ONE HAS EVEN BEEN STALKING ME WITHOUT SHAME, THE THING IS, YOU HAVE TO STAND YOUR GROUND AND KEEP TELLING THEM YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED AND WHEN THEY ARE TIRED, THEY'LL STOP. IT IS VERY WRONG TO TAKE SOMEONE'S HUSBAND, JUST STAY STRONG AND RESIST ANY TEMPTATION.

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It takes two to tango and nothing more. If the young girls are unwilling, there wont be any game. Some girls are in love with the so called married men and feel secured with them even knowing that they have a family. The hide and seek can be interesting and fun at times. What more, they tend to shower the girls with money and love whenever they are around just to get in between their legs.

The girl on the other hand cannot have access to the man at all times but spends sleepless nights at times hugging pillows to fill the emptiness she feels at times. Her reasonings are lost at times as she hopes for the "best" out of the r/ship which never comes. The man own is chop and go as he goes after another catch after satisfying his lust.

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That is the word! Selfishness. Come to think of it, how many of these guys/babes can stick to one when not married.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Run After Young Girls?

A little bit of adventure my dear

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lmao

Not in all cases

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they are blood tonic,and they make them feel young at heart and at the LOCAL GOVT AREA{u know wot i mean?}

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Because men are polygamous in nature and will continue to cheat no matter what, i will always say it the fact that a man cheats does'nt mean he loves his wife or girl friend less its just our propensity and we can't help it, its sad but the truth must be told.

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A man wants his wife to look like his wife and the mother of his children and his girlfriend like a LovePeddler

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Because they are Hot? Because they got used to double dating before getting married?

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So if we all look like you , our husbands will stay at home?? is that what you are telling me?

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So can u married men date young gurl?

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the reason could be looked at at both angles

firstly,what do you expect from a man when he is not fulfilled at home.the wife denies him sex and it is to everybody's knowledge that,men have a high libido for sex and it is being denied them from home,they seek it outside

secondly,their are some marriages that are not based on love.it is either pregnancy occurs,thereby leading to marriage or a forced one

truth must be told,it is the fault of the women.try to look good for your husband,love and adore him.let him have a reason to always be at home.

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I do not see anything wrong actually. What is the crime in the first place. Are we not agitating for freedom? What about young ladies who have thrown honour to the wind by embarking on sex escapades, poking every "gadem" guy that is willing to play along.

Don't forget, some of them might even seduce these married men via their provocative and half Unclad dressings. To me nothing spoil as long as this guys would not forget their wives at home

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One sad truth however is the married men prefer their wives to the gurls anytime.Dem jst wan hold body.Its nt a sincere relationship because the men will also be seeing other people.Everyone gat to shine deir eyez.

Young gurls pls stick with young guys n build a lasting home cos if u follow wat another woman has built den be rest assured dt someone will take d man/woman out of your hands someday.Do unto odas wat u want odas to do to you.Law of karma.

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It's possible that you enticed them or maybe you give them vibes to come after you or you are wearing some revealing clothes. If none of these things are true, then they are not getting what they want from thier spouse at home. We need to pray for our people oh.

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Kate,

did u hear diyobdw , cheap people will always find their reasons.

pls kate, prepare ur mind that you are not going to cheat, come rain come sun bcs if u are waiting for ur husband to force u to start, then u may end up doing so for a false believe.

nobdoy prays for a bad wife or bad husband but let us prepare our minds for the best and not the worst.

look through the lives of those ur friends in the cheating thread and see how far they are fairing with it. it is nothing but a bad wind that blows no man no good.

on the other hand, pls kate, i am applying directly through here, let us discuss one on one somewhere more privbate and the email address is, chidi2chris@yahoo.com.

i will be waiting to ready ur mail.

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because cheap people would everly find cheap ways to satisfy thier urges

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kate,

since ur friends are already in the cheating business and u still pally with them, it is obvious that birds of a feather,

all the same, i see it as the new development on the sides of women to cheat.

for the unmarried, no one is advising u to date married men but all we are saying is that is where gals of nowadays find their pleasure and who are we to stop them - moving trains.

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@ woleprof! yes oooooooooooooo

U gat it Katherinae!the world is changing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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