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Why Do Most Nigerian Men Treat Their Wives Like Maids?

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Treat Their Wives Like Maids?

« #17 on: May 18, 2009, 02:50 PM »

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Are they not naturally born as maids?

Who delievers the children?

Who bosoms feeds them?

Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?

At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?

Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . .

I know your kind, i guess your mum was a glorified house wife that is why you cannot think out of the box. Mchewwww

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@Poster

That's because that is how they saw their useless fathers treat their mothers. A child's first learning place is in the home. What they see their fathers do to their mothers is what they will do to their own wives. Beware of wild animals in human skin!

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Cause they paid some cheap money all in the name of "Bride Price"

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@Mamagee,

Not all pay bride prices and dat should not even be a criteria.

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yes they are fools, but i think the society needs to change a lot of things and it is time for some women to know where to draw the line btw respecting a man and being a dumb slave

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Honestly i feel 4 naija women. . .i don't know d best word 2 describe such men. . .simply put, they r fools.

if they actually have respect 4 their mothers,they will equally respect and appreciate their wives.

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some posts ive seen in this thread r really disturbing.

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If u treat your wife as a maid then you have very low self esteem , probably u weren't born by a woman possibly u evolved form wolves. then u must also have no sister,aunty n mother. , u might also not bother spending money to marry a decent lady. just go to where people get maids from n purchase one for a wife. !

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What's the difference between a woman that was married to do house chores and gets everything she ever ask from the husband and a maid who gets paid for what she does? Second question, the present maids we have around, are they not potential women? If they could work as maid for money, do you think it's bad to work as maid for love? Third question, in a home where its only the man that works while the woman stays at home full time, don't you think the man is also a slave while the woman remain the queen of the house? These are general questions that warrant no personal insults against anyone or against me being the poster.

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CHUCK BA$$ did u hear that?

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CHUCK BA$$,

By your rationalle,

Your mother was a maid. (assuming she married your father)

Your father's mother was a maid

Your Daughters will be full-time maids one day because right now they are training to be maids until they marry their boss

You are a maid service provider or potential one because you will have daughters one day perhaps

Any girlfriend you have who is of marriageable age and not yet a wife, is a prostitute because she is not living up to her real ambitions as a maid

You are therefore a love-vendor because you are using this woman, not as your maid as you should, but as someone who provides "services" to you without marriage and payment.

I hope your father paid his maid well,

I hope your sisters are well paid maids

I hope your daughter will be well paid too

I hope you will pay your future maid well

I hope you earn enough money to even "hire" a "maid"

I hope a "maid" somewhere will even consider you as an employer

I hope the rest of the maids in your father's household threat and are threating you well

I hope the "Double U"-H- O - R-E you are dating now, will open her eyes and leave you to become a legitimate maid

VIVA TO MAIDS, Because without MAIDS, people like Chuck Bass would never have seen the light of day after he was dumped by the roadside by the original maid who bore him.

Boss's like you make me sick

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Are they not naturally born as maids?

Who delievers the children?

Who bosoms feeds them?

Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?

At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?

Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . .

Boy it is no fault of yours. If only your mum had discarded u right from when u were in the womb, u wont be such a disgrace to her, and every other female in your life.

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Its our culture plus the scarcity of good husbands that make men treat women anyhow but if she's beautiful, has a 2009 car, a job of a salary over 6 figures, gives great head, etc, they would worship her.

ITS TIME FOR WOMEN TO TAKE A STAND!

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men could be the most sarcastic i av eve seen as some of them are out to bastardize everything under skirt, so their wives don't matter in any sense. they need som tutorials although

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we just like living in denial shaaaaaaa!!

okay not all of them but .  .   .  .

kimba

^^^ I think it stems from this, so many nigerian girls are like this- they have no personal goal apart from getting married!!!^^^

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I was only going to read thru and not say a word but just cudnt help it,

@chuck bass,

ain't got nothing to say to u. I dont think u are worth my time

To all the lovely ladies/dudes in da house,

Dont allow an slowpoke make u start a war of the sexes, he is just trying to sow a seed of discord and some goats in men's clothing are already buying into it. well, dats wat happens when u dont have a mind of ur own. I hope u dont start seeing women in this light cos a good number of my colleagues at work are cute, polished and hardworking women. As for me, i refuse to see my future wife as a maid no matter what any slowpoke says. it just wont count.

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not all nigerian guys treat there wives/gfs like maids,  thts total crap,  it depends on the man and the woman he is wit,  sum english guys do it too,  IT ALL on THE INDIVIDUALS!!!!!!! plus if all nigerian guys do it why r the women lettin thm innit,

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Dis goes to show dat u did not read dis thread at all

if u did u wld know dat Gasby was trying to quote wat sm1 had already posted

Please it is not compulsory to contribute to a thread

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gasby 2,

you seriously need a doctor or maybe a mechanic to fix up your brain wiring.

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Are they not naturally born as maids?

Who delievers the children?

Who bosoms feeds them?

Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?

At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?

Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . .

what a dedication to your Grand mother, mother,anties,sisters, and all your female cousins.

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@ silly Topic

Are they not naturally born as maids?

Who delievers the children?

Who bosoms feeds them?

Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?

At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?

Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . .

shut up!!! men like u are just good 4 nothin. [b][/b]

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chuck bass or wat do u say ur name is?

u R just seeking cheap attention, the orientation u have abt women explains ur level of intelligence, if it can be rated,

u just open ur mouth and tun it lke govt tap wit no control,

i pity ya wife,

women r glorified housemaids, at least we have dignity love keeping the house clean et al,

what do u do, unglorified gardner like u?

im sure u r wife works while u sit on ur fat Bottom day dreaming, silly gardener

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But come on women. Who has the definition of a maid and the way they should be treated? I think husbands see what their wives do the maids and mete out the same to them when provoked or ill-treated by their wives. Women/wives/daughters ill-treat their housemaids and they know it only when husbands/papas/men show them the same ill-treatment. Damn u Eve!

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chuck bass from gossip girls, thats the reason, hes a player and will never get married cos i don think he will want to be subjected to one maid for life wen he can have many maids at once, let me tell u chucky the fool.

i love being a woman and will be that again in my next life, its so fulfilling to be a woman, giving someone a life, i dont think there can be anything better than that,its not an easy abi no be woman born u or sorry its a maid that ur father impregnated maybe thats why. hahahahhaha.

women or houswives dey enjoy, they cruise around shopping and buying stuffs and even travelling around the world while the hubby is doin all the work, maybe u are a poor Bottom thats y u give ur wife money for garri only. my husband gives me money to enjoy my life and sit at home to take care of his gurl and boy and when he comes home i will give him sweet sex and sweet food so he doesnt go out to meet the real maids

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U call men dogs and you still sleep with them. Lure,steal from and Bleep them. Am not against women liberation(where they imprisoned?), but if you allow them a mile, they will assume 100. It is pathetic!

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cuz the silly woman only knows how to spend money and Bleep around, and forget their marital status and what being married is all about. i don't know why is it that when you ask a nigerian to do something politely he refuses, until you beat him or maltreat him.

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I know a pastor that does not allow his wife to ride in the front seat of his car in name of respect and obedience.I use to think it was outrageous,even as a christian then.

It is true,some nigerian wives are mere house girls,even in england.No equal partnership but when they see the light and rebel,all hell do break loose.

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Can u say that to the Muslim world and men? If u don't want to do the listed things, u stay away from marriage.

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well if for any reason one has to complain based on the inhuman and inconsiderate attitude of some men then the question shuould be what is the duties of the man vis-a-vis that of the woman.

secondly what will and should a woman do, also a man, same as when a woman is due to be married and not say in her late 30's and mid 40's you hear all sorts of expression and as such i think those of us whom have been blessed and favoured enough to have a man as our husband should try to commend the institution called marriage and stop complaining only about the bad side as also there are lots of good in it.'

if u argue ask your mother she'll tell you it wasn't easy but it was worth it

in all women are great species a wonderful one. i say dont give up to every woman in this forum. peace.

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Ahahaha! So when I saw chauvinist, since it's generally referred to men, that means all men are chauvinists? Dog: we call men dog, does that mean all men are dogs?

I don't know what you were thinking about when you came here to contribute to this topic because all I can see is a big disgrace to yourself. The topic aside, your comprehension and interpretation of English terms are appalling. You are an illiterate even though you can read and write which is even worse than having never been to school before. If I were you I'd be ashamed to have allowed my parents spend so much for my studies to later have a disfunctional sense of reasonsing and understanding like yours.

Wives are not housemaids they are wives. That's why we say husband and wife, not husband and maid. You are wrong, you know it and you are acting desperate to prove your point. Why don't you quit? You are not making sense.

Are wives employed? Where is the contract? I didn't know marriage was a maid affair.

Who is paying who? How does the husband pay? Through sex? So the wife is a maid while the husband is a prostitute, right?

At last we have come to the conclusion that your attempt to paint women in a bad picture has been revealed to be actually an insult to the male folk. In fact I am disgusted that a man would have sex with a mere maid, a worthless being.

He is even worse than a dog and according to your way of interpreting words, all men become dogs, right?

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For those who didnt have the pleasure to read my posts on it, here is a recap and full summary:

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Are they not naturally born as maids?

Who delievers the children?

Who bosoms feeds them?

Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?

At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?

Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . .  Angry

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Hope i have been able to convince you that wives are glorified house girls with a wedding ring!

Thanks and god bless Grin

listen to yourself or berra still read ur post again,

wives are glorified house girl with a  wedding ring

i so much feel sorry for your wife, and remember that statement also applies to all the women in  ur life

im sure  your women folks will be very much disappointed in  you for making such a silly STATEMENT, you RELIC OF A LOST AGE

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@Chuck Ba$$, what are u talking about? are u from planet earth?

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most nigerians do dis out of frustration and haggardness, not that they do intend subjecting their wives to sub-human conditions but it simply the fact that nigeria is a critical country and things are really bad a such people empty their misery unto their wives but all things being equal a nigerian husband is one of the best any woman can find, for late brenda fassier of southafrica to say that her regret is that she has not being loved and sexed by a nigerian, i think we are good husbands if not circumstance(s)

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wrong generalisatioN!!!!!!!

Any man worth his onions will treat his wife like a queen.

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say who? another generalization topic again? Not all Nigerian men treat their wives like maids if at all they do.

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Cos they are animals in human being clothing

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Probably the wives is treating her husband like a boss which will in turn make the man treat her like maid. She should try treat him like a king then she will be accord queenly treatment.

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doesnt really happen but if it does then it because the woman settles for it or proly cos she did something terrible

but its wrong sha

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My hapiness is that a good number of women who have responded to this post do not believe that MOST men treat their wives as slaves. The person who posted this should realise that one bad experience with a man does not mean that all men are bad.

@Chuck Bass, dont worry, with time, you'll become more mature.

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I will confess SOME men do treat their women like maids, but that is because they allow that. This should not be generalized as a trait that all Nigerian men exhibit but a silly few. Women are God's gift to man and should be treated like so.

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@Orikinla:

That was well said. I notice that nigerian men act differently with western women. They do certain things such as cooking, that they would never dream of doing if they were with a naija woman.

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@theblessed, u r indeed bleesed. Funny thing is that the same woman that goes about cryiny injustice is the same one that will treat her son like a king and d daughter like a maid.

@chuks, u r indeed a fool!

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because she allows him

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The Michael bay no be man ?? Heeeeee!!!.

What? na lie abeg

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My Dear I no know who be Michael Bay but make God help us save that man

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so wat did u do to him??

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I am Michael Bay! Yeahhhhhhhhh!

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