Right now I am so bitter and saddened about the fact that they'd rather pay better attention to what complete strangers have to say about their children and never bother to find out the truth from the direct interested.
Just this morning I got really pissed after I heard nonsense about someone very close to me: I even call her my cousin. This is someone who tells me everything about her. My mum happens to be her mum's friend and It is a shame that two adults are not sensible enough to sit a young lady down and demand what is happening. Rather they are fooled by what some jobless people have to say about their children.
I know for a fact that this deafness to their children's appeals is not taught in Church because I have been there several times and i have heard the pastors preach about communicating with their children. It is disgusting to see a mother propagating gossips she heard about her child around town and alimenting the negative view people have of them.