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Will You Marry Another Man's Former Wife?

Tade and Binta had been in relationship for 5yrs wit every passing day like paradise on earth. Tade works as a teacher in one private school with a meagre salary hoping to get a good job one day and propose marriage, while Binta works as secretary. Then the unfortunate happen when Binta called Tade and told him it was over why? Tade ask ' I am going for greener pasture. Tade unable to convince Binta fell sick and was taken to the hospital when his blood pressure was high. How can a man of 31yrs take love affair this serious was the question his family keep asking one another. Tade got out of d hospital putting evry thing behind him and move on wit his life. After few months Tade got a job with a big Consultancy company and his life changed. 2yrs later, one saturday morning Tade's phone rang hello a female voice said, who is am I speaking with pls? Tade asked this is Binta on the line how may I help u then Binta start to narate how she was forced to marry an American base who already has a wife abroad and the man beat her freqently making her lose two pregnancy and how she decided to end the marriage. Pls Binta dnt call this number again was all Tade could say to hurt Binta but knowing at the back of her mind dt he still has feelings for her and would love to her for a wife but the problem is Tade's friend and family telling him dt Binta is another man's remnant. Now to the guys in the house can you marry anoda man's remnant.

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There is nothing wrong in marrying another man's former wife,since they are divorced

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This guy should realize that her leaving him has been one of the keys that set him free. On the issue of forgiveness on the other hand, I would say forgive her and be friend with her, help if she needs your help when you can and nothing more. It is even forbidden in the scripture that if a woman is divorced and is married to another man then divorced that man or lost him by death, the former husband should not reamarry her. Personally I wouldn't take such woman back the reason stated earlier and secondly for trust factor.

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This question is wrong, This is notr a question of whose remnant, it is a matter of loyalty and unfaithfulness,

Point, blank, simple he married a LovePeddler, when he didnt have money, she left him, even if after she left she didnt get married to anybody, but the fact that she could stick it out with him in hard times, totally qualifies her as a slut and therefore not suitable for marriage,

On the issue of another mans former wife, Hells yeah i can, I'll marry beyonce, shakira, jennifer lopez, mariah carey, omotola anyday even if they have been married 10 times with 20kids, as long as she is lawfully divorced.

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Man or woman once ure not a virgin or a couple that disvirgined each other on their wedding night or marry each other afterwards then both the man and woman are "remnants". To the poster, if the guy doesnt wanna marry her let him do it because of the heartache she caused him or her greed and not for being a "remnant" when he also is one or is he a virgin?

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Remnant na leftover.

If someone don marry you chop you well well and I come marry you after, I don marry remnant be that becos na wetin remain for your body I go begin chop.

Afterall somebody don chop you before.

abi no be so?

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@ twinstaiye

You did not told us whether the girl has gotten a child for the other man or not? In all, I don't see the reason why the guy could not marry the girl if he still love her and if the girl also loved him. The truth is, she has learnt her lesson and she wont do so again. Sure, I can marry another man's remnant, and in any case, every woman is another man's remnant so long as she is not a virgin.

Did you read that rubbish you wrote before posting it?

Why are Nigerians so sexist! Those that mean non-virgins are not worth marrying because they are other men's remnat?

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I will only marry a divorcee if i am one myself.

As for your babe my dear the woman is a gold digger tell her youv forgotten about her and now you need someone special who will stand by you through thick and thin.Dont see her as another mans remnant there are lots of deccent women who walk out of violent or unhappy marriages they deserve another chance to take a shot at happy marriage and there is nothing wrong with them.But for a woman who will leave you when the going gets tough and now that she smells honey she wants in.Please give her the boot.

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Tokunboh! I'd rather not,

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When i saw that silly word. I almost hit the roof.

I am glad am not the only one that it annoys.

Well if you do not want to marry her , all the better for her , she is yet to find a more wothey man than You and the better inlaws to go with.

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@kgdmikek2

you probably landed on the wrong thread. You may wish to repost your message in the apporpriate thread cos i can see this is your first one.

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yeah, I really like sports

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love short replies right?!

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9ce some one has to test drive

kinda like dat

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someone has to test drive the ride LOL

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you're missing the point!

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@koko, why do you call that case another man's remnant? As a lady you should know better, love is all about caring for someone without any time limit, therefore, as a lady you should be able to sympathize to her saga.

Yes, she went abroad to marry someone for one reason or another but when she called him on the phone it was the love that both shared that makes her call and no matter how you people feel she couldn't help herself but to face her past her love. Also, do you know what it takes for her to call him and confront him with her problems? It took a lot of gut!

Yes, I will marry her because of what they feel for each other and if he still loves her then he has the best wishes any man can go through. Now back to your title "remnant," meaning used good or unwanted good; but who told you that she is a used good or unwanted lady?

Sorry, I just hate the way we use words for ladies because I have a sister and if she was in this situation I won't want anyone to call her a remnant, I hope I didn't offend anyone. Just my thoughts.

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na today.

na u sef go rock tokunbo.till death do you apart.

@ topic

let the chic go.she's ain't worth it

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Sorry about the missing letters lol I mean never mind d post of those dt called u a second hand. We guys will never get married if we are all looking 4 new chases.

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no way i cnnot take a second hand material

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Lauryn pls never there post mind u most of u will nt get married if we bent on not marrying another man's remnant.

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Guys am so sorry dt d sex column in my profile is showing female instead of male as dis has been causing problem in da house I will correct this very soon pls bear wit me because all my post where thru my phone. I have loads of work outside my office dt didnt give me d time to go to browsing centre.

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Hi naijafan, my bad i just cheked the spelling its actually spelt remnant,

and the definitions are as below according to my dictiona,

REMNANT

def.1 , Something left over; a remainder. -------- we are ladies or rather a lady not a remnet and definitely not something

def.2 , A piece of fabric remaining after the rest has been used or sold. , u definately agree with me we aint fabrics

def.3 , A surviving trace or vestige: a remnant of his past glory. , self explanantory

def, 4 A small surviving group of people. Often used in the plural.

AND SOME MORE DEFS, BELOW

rem‧nant  /ˈrɛmnənt/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[rem-nuhnt] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation

–noun 1. a remaining, usually small part, quantity, number, or the like.

2. a fragment or scrap.

3. a small, unsold or unused piece of cloth, lace, etc., as at the end of a bolt.

4. a trace; vestige: remnants of former greatness.

–adjective 5. remaining; leftover.

SO TO BUTRESS YOUR POINT THAT U ARE A REMANT CAN U PROVE IT TO ME, COS I HAVE PROVED AM NOT, THANKS

HOPE TO HEAR FROM U SOON

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@blacknbold

console yourself.

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there is nothing like another mans reminant, thanks

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@kokoletz: sometimes i get this weird feeling that you are a guy and not a babe as you have indicated on your profile

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I dnt blieve that, there are still virgins in our midst, though very few atleast I go try get one even if its going to take me 10yrs.

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Everyone is a remnant

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Twinstaiye really it did nt happen to me but if it did how do I find it in my mind to trust her again with her wit her not looking back on her action in the first place assuming I died would she had marry my dead body. Kai commot for there. gbam!

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I dont think she is coming back because of your money, she is coming back because you are the one she trusted. I tell you, she has tried another man, she is damn too sure your option is the best. Tell me you dont love her, and I will understand, but for any other reasons, it is not suffice for you not to take her back. Having said this however, the ball is in your court, you are the one who had been in love with her, share the same joy and sorrow in the past, knows her dos and donts, and what she can do and not do, you are the best person to take the decisions, but if you need my candid opinion, i will say take her back because if she mean so much to you so much that when she left you, it landed you in hospital, then it will be difficult to fill her space in your heart.

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Money dude ladies loves money

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she is just coming back cos of the money QED

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Really Binta had no child for her husband because she lost two pregnancy to the numerous beating she had as u can read from the story. Hmmmmm it wil take the grace of God for me to accept because wat gives me d impression dt she is not coming back because of my money.

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You did not told us whether the girl has gotten a child for the other man or not? In all, I dont see the reason why the guy could not marry the girl if he still love her and if the girl also loved him. The truth is, she has learnt her lesson and she wont do so again. Sure, I can marry another man's remnant, and in any case, every woman is another man's remnant so long as she is not a virgin.

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