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Would U Allow Your Brother To Stay With Your Newly Wedded Wife Whilst U Travel?

Just out of curiosity, A friend of mine is staying with his brother who is married to this beautiful lady (no children yet). The guy(husband) is about going abroad for a short course and won't be back for 2 weeks. I happen to know my friend very very well (woman wrapper) and boy'oboy, the guy is handsome and beautiful. He can't even be left with a chicken for 2 minutes, or a  dog without carrying out some experiment, let alone this young beautiful woman. I'm just so scared for this family.

Without any doubt, there's bound to be a world war III when his brother comes back!

Just wanna know what to do b4 this dude travels,

Help pls!!!

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Just pray and hope that nothing happens between that guy and his brother's wife because if it does, you will carry part of the responsibility!

You still do not appreciate the potency of thoughts, especially dirty ones. Christ said if you look lustfully at a woman, you have committed fornication with her. This should serve as a warning that your thoughts are not harmless.

Unknown to you, you have generated this thought and have directed at your friend and his sister-in-law. It will continue to harass them until they succumb, if they are not strong within. So you better pray, because if it happens, you will reap part of the consequences too!

"Keep the hearth of your thoughts pure, by so doing you will bring peace and be happy" so says One with Infinite Wisdom.

Peace.

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An old post, but still. . .

People have dirty minds? Look who's talking - I bet your dirty mind was buzzing like a beehive, when you started this thread. A typical dirty-minded individual who just wont mind his own business. You need to get hitched fast, so you have less time to stick your beak into your friend's matrimonial affairs. Or if you're hitched already, pay more attention to your wife / girlfriend.

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Most young girls are spoilt, they will tempt and make sure that they lure u to bed esp when when they dont get that sexual satisfaction 4rm their hubby. If d guy is weak,he might give in to d test. Visit d romance session to see d views of our youths esp d ladies, then u can then draw ur analysis on d topic. I suggest d guy relocate to a friends house or whatever. Blood they say is thicker than water. Its an unsafe act to stay in dsame roof with d chic knowing how their mindsets works. Dnt betray ur bros. So give no room 4 temptation. Stay safe and act safely.

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The brother don travel o, Just waiting 'for what yawa to gas, lol

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@Topic,nothing wrong or bad abt staying with your BIL whilist hubby is not around but i wud personally prefer staying with my SIL's or MIL esp. if the marriage is still very young and the BIL has a record of misbehaving.

Back to ur scene,the hubby or wife cud get one of their sisters or mothers ard,to keep the wife company.

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The travelling is still going ahead but for now postponed.

Still want you guys to tell me what to do.

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I am not, period!!! I'm their family friend. Just love this family and wouldn't want anything ugly to happen.

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Ahh, people sha! You people really have dirty minds. No be me be the brother o, Enuff of the assumptions b4 una spoil my profile.

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I would not try to leave him with my wife if i was that guy.

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Why not, he's her brother-in-law. Your imaginations is running wild, are you the guy in question?.

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hmmmmmmmm

@poster,are you sure you are not the brother?

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What to do?

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS

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nobody should care about what a womanizer the brother is as long as the husband trust his wife and knows that she wont go that way. if a man dont even trust his wife then he has NO BUSINESS being married to her.

in what world are you living if you can even leave your wife with family? or if your wife cant even control herself for 2 weeks?

shhhhhhhhit, i would leave her even a year with my brother, i know FOR A FACT that he wont lay a hand on her or have misplaced ideas. . . . . . . .  . . but would she wait that long?! thats an other issue!

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Then she is not wife-worthy.

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Is your friend that irresponsible, Yes? Then he is a intimacy rehab candidate, if not he will molest a monkey someday.

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ah. don't even mention discipline and being responsible, I bet you the wife would also find him irresistible. Don't wanna be too negative, you get burnt when you get too close to a fire.

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Do u mean this guy is so weak and undisciplined, He might not be that bad, would the lady too get carried away? Anyway manythings happen these days, it could be risky, U could just advice ur friend to be disciplined and principled so as not to break familyties. Even if the brother is around, they stil can do whatever they like.

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