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Would You Advise Marriage?

Hi all,

Am a 23yr old guy (by June, 2010), I am working as an Engineer on a basic salary of about 100K+, av worked foe 1yr+ now, I can boast of some landed property, n a ride. And still take care of ma family needs, would you advise that I get married now, or would u do that if you are in ma shoes?,

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if u re ready for marriage in all way round and not marry today divorce tomorrow then think twice b4 taking that step

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yes, you have met all those financial requirements but are you psychologically/mentally ready for marriage? if you think you are, then your age isnt really a "rush" IMHO.

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If you feel you are ready and you have what it takes, go for it. Better to make your mistakes now than to be an old agbaya making them in your old age. If your parents were never married or they are divorced, please don't get married.

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Thanks y'all, I really appreciate your responses and will take them to heart, and its nice really sharing my worries here, now I know what am in for, and what I need to do. Thanks y'all again

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Hi I ain't rushing, and I gat my investments, I have landed properties, I have a fishry business, and I tot women were to make u more fruitful, not wreck u, I just hope to make it early so I dnt get to be that old wen ma kids are growing, u know, and the more u wait the more u have tendencies of fornicating

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U are so fast, have you been in 9ja all ths while?

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nice accomplishments for your age. but you don't have to rush into marriage if you don't have anyone you're seriously involved with.

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Why the rush?

Do you have any investment? Salary of N100K will not scratch a family life if you wanna give your children the best education and live comfortably with your wife.

Upgrade! If you have a woman it may be more difficult to save and invest!

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Guy, marriage is another ball game, when u're 30, get married

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