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Would You Dump Your Child For Marriage If Your Spouse Insists?

He/she wants to marry you but does not want your child.

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Only a selfish, self-centred and inherently wicked spouse would make such a request.

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If the person really loves you, he or she will loves all that concerns YOU.

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agreed - can u imagine me dumping my precious child for a MAN - God will never create the man that can make me do that. A child will remain with you for life man/woman can come and go like that, I can't even believe people do this.

its so annoying when i read how kids are being abused and the mother just allows it - that is just f**ked up (excuse my language)

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Sorry the children need to decide whether he/she is good enough for the family.

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@ chisunday, did u really mean what u said? Let me believe you didn't understand the poster before you replied, the poster asked, 'can you dump your child because your spouse-to-be does not want him/her?

And my answer is NO, i will never trade my child for anything!

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Whatsoever God has joined together let not man put asunder.even in a marriage husband and wife comes first b4 children.the child can be catered for but shouldnt be a hinderance

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love me, love my dog!!

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never if he wants mi then he should want what comes with mi or forget it

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For wia, lai lai its impossicant.The man can go bury himself in a pit .Give up my child no way.

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Some foolish and irresponsible ladies that has no respect and love for human life will say ' if it is my child that will be a barrier for me to get married, I have no option but to drop him/her anywhere - so far as I drop money for his/her up-keep.

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Dump the guy straight! If you love me, you have to accept all my baggage cos am ready to accept yours. Though yours may not be your child, could be your mother or sisters or relatives. Infact, that doesnt even arise. If you cant accept my kid, bye bye!

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i dont its the best option he must love the child too

that must be the condition

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Any woman that would even consider that does not deserve to have children. That means you don't even care about your child. That means if he mistreats the child, you would not even step in to correct the injustice.

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