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Would You Marry Someone On A Wheelchair?

Ladies, Gents, would u be willing 2 tie d nuptial knot wid a guy/girl on wheelchair?

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YES !! I can marry a lady on wheel chair, what count most is the love not the WHEEL CHAIR!

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YES !! I can marry a lady on wheel chair, what count most is the love not the WHEEL CHAIR!

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Lol dinner, well if God say yes u hv no option tho!

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if God says so

if love says so,

if i agree,its left for me

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Chelsea4su,

If na you dey wheel chair nko?

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Makes no difference.  For those who are thinking "I couldn't marry a man who is in a chair cuz he couldn't give me children or pleasure as a woman", you could be mistaken.  Many men who happen to be in wheelchairs still have working male apparatus, besides, the brain is the most important sexual organ anyways.  Nevermind that the lower apperatus is not the only thing used in physical intimacy.  As for a previous post that tells the story of the pastor and his woman who is in a chair attests, that works for women also, and they can have children as well.  It is also true that medical science, in all it's wisdom and knowledge, may make the determination that a person can never get out of the wheelchair again ~ and they can be wrong!  I can personally attest to that!  In the fullest context of a quality relationship that includes love, standing upright is of little consequence.  Our bodies will decline in beauty and ability as we age anyway, but the heart, remains growing strong in love, that is where the beauty lay.

~Desiree'

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NO & YES

COS IT DEPENDS ON SO MANY THINGS

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if it is before wedding that it happened l can go ahead with the wedding plans and take it as God's plan.

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Y be say na woman respond to dis thread pass man. Na wa ooooooh. Well, if u ask me, as per d question it "would depend".

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, it a big one bt like they say when u love someone u can do anything.

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Everybody wants to go to heaven, no body wants to die.

Look into your family, there's always someone on a wheel chair, with a cane, earring aid etc. If you had a brother on a wheel chair would you be fair to make a case for him when you know deep down that you would prevent falling in love with someone on wheels?

After losing his wife, a Pastor who was besieged by a number of women decided to marry a woman on wheels. In his opinion, he just wanted to do her a favor; since he didn't need more children he felt it was a good option. But God is wise! This woman not only warmed his heart, she brought forth and is still bringing forth children that will help him keep active for more years.

Don't deny love a place because the guy/gal is in wheels; the only person you hurt is you.

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if I luv the guy why not.

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hnmmmm, depends, if we r together b4 it happens. GOD FORBID THOUGH, LOL.

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I think it's better to avoid marriage altogether.

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, what happens when the one you marry become bound to a wheel chair!

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It will be hard for a disabled guy to make you feel that love you're talking about. It's easy to love when all is well.

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if the guy is dooooooooooownnn! i would marry his Bottom. i'm a sucker for love irrespective of the state of the limbs.

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hmmmm you may have a point

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The broken leg is part of the total package that you are marrying. If you can't fully accept a potential lover's disability, it's better not to waste his/her time. "Love" cannot over-ride reality.

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I wouldn't want to but Love counts, if you Love the person then nothing should hinder marriage.

Love doesn't see the broken leg

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Honestly, if i love the person i would, but i would have to be veeery sure i wdnt resent the person later or anything else like that. it must be for love, never out of pity. if not it can't last.

Love or no love it will always be a tough decision.

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I honestly would marry someone that I really love that does happen to have a disability.

There's absolutely, i repeat, ABSOLUTELY, nothin wrong with that, as long the person doesnt have dementia, I would marry him, not out of pity, but for the sake of LOVE.

What is this world turning into?

Humans are so unbelievable! God!

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I had a Boyfriend that once fall from a tree( what a joke then he is a hobby para glider) and broke his back.

he was in the hospital for 3 months and could have ended in a wheel chair.

I did not mind that but he did not want me to come to the Hospital.

It can always be the other way round.

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if it's gonn be temporary and i've loved him for years i'll do

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i will marry him, if i was on a date with him before the unpleasant incident occurred . i wont neglect him because that is when he will need me most .

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well i guess i wld dat is if i had already bn seeing him b4 he got in da wheelchair

i wldnt abandon him jst bec he's in a wheelchair bt

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It would depend on a lot more than his being in a wheelchair, why is he in a wheel chair? Does he have other medical conditions that would require a lot of care?

I guess my answer would be "it depends"

For those who say "never" does that mean if you married someone today and he/she had the misfortune to end up in a wheelchair you'd dump them?

Rememebr that there are worse handicaps than the obvious ones.

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of course i would, if we have a connection, and if she's very beautiful

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IT ALL DEPENDS.IF I AM DATING THIS PERSON B4 HE BECOMES WHEEL CHAIR BOUND THEN NO PROBLEM.BUT IF THIS IS THE OTHER WAY ROUND I DONT THINK SO CUS IT WONT BE THA EASY TO COPE.INFACT MAKE WE NO PRAY 4 BAD THING.

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i dont mind marrrying the guy if i luv him but it will be a lot of stress tho lol so i hope it doesn't happen to me

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If u Love that guy/girl,u can marry him/her.I can marry that person,that's if i really love the person.U dont know 2moro,there may be a miracle,and u'll see that the person will appreciate.Remember,as humans,it not only sweet things we'll be tasting but we have to taste bitter things.

But we dont pray for such things.

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He might be able to compete with those with legs who are also vying for your attention.

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