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Would You Prefer A Functional Wife Or An Attractive One ?

Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

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2 me biuty is notin but xter is needed.If she's not atractve as u want,y dont u spend on her & upgrade her 2 ur taste insted of an atractve 1 dat wont takia of u talkles of ur children & ur home in genera.Bsdes,dia's no lady who's not beautifl/atractve.D most biutifl/atractve lady 2 u may not be 2 anoda person & d most biutifl ladies ar dose who ar naturaly biutifl wdout d use of adornmnt(earings,necklaces, )

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For me hmm a wife material must be functional and very attractive cos an attractive woman makes anything she does/touches attractive.

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2 me biuty is notin but xter is needed.If she's not atractve as u want,y dont u spend on her & upgrade her 2 ur taste insted of an atractve 1 dat wont takia of u talkles of ur children & ur home in genera.Bsdes,dia's no lady who's not beautifl/atractve.D most biutifl/atractve lady 2 u may not be 2 anoda person & d most biutifl ladies ar dose who ar naturaly biutifl wdout d use of adornmnt(earings,necklaces, )

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im sure most men will go for functional, being afraid dat there will be a possiblity of her cheatin if she was attractive.

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I have them both in one woman and I say its possible. Focus on the kinda heart you want in a woman and be the kinda heart too and u will get just that. There are great looking women who have got great character too and are very functional.

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Do you object to new people participating in forums? Did the poster complain about my post?

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well, i thought the poster already got the replies he wanted so why overflogging the issue?

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George D, are we not allowed to post on it?

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What can I say, my husband's a lucky man,

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don't be absurd, bros.

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So send her to school of marriageoloy

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Who says a functional wife can't be good in bed? All it takes is enough pampering and a good makeover to turn a functional wife into an attractive one (watch any Tyra Banks show and you'll see what I mean). So go for the functional wife, your love will turn the attractiveness inside to the outside.

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what makes a woman to be referred to as functional? many things are involved, there is the place for learning the rudiments of a successful marriage

visit www.gethimbacktips.blogspot.com for more info

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education changes people. you would not be here today but for education.

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That is great, however, dont marry someone based on the thot that you might be able to change her/him from the old ways to how you think is better.

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through education and training.

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true but usually most pick one over the other. it's quite difficult to balance both. It is doable of course but a lot of work! so most usually don't try it.

I watch this show on tv about a lady who has 6 kids but never wear sweatpants. she always wears fashionable clothes and takes care of herself and I wondered how in the world she was able to do this!! turns out she has a nanny for the kids! and her house is huuuge. she does the attractive part and a maid takes care of the house functions. lol

yea i agree with u that function has different definitions but this is the op's definition -->

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Functional dont have to be just in kitchen and domesticated duties, could even be how the woman acts towards life.

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a wealthier man will prefer attractive. a maid or househelp can take care of the house functions

while a poor man will prefer a homely/ functional wife.

paris hilton vs martha stewart topic much?

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Truth be told. Fellows be real,

Frankly i am not surprised at the majority choice of the "functional woman",  its so sad most of you view your wives as hoovers or washing machines.

In Livis Pasione. There is Passion in Life.

Life is also short.

Why, o why, would i not want a scandalously beautiful woman, tall, dark, elegant, with a wild unk of sexuality, and a love of high heels and waist chains,  anklets too,

It would make my head spin, my pulse race, and my blood feel alive,

The ridiculous assumption is being made that such a woman cannot also be intelligent or hardworking. Of course there are lots like that. All my ex girlfriends are like that.

If i need a cook, i'll hire one, if i need a house-tender, i'll pay your functional wife to come do the chores for me, while i reflect upstairs on what next i will be doing to please my Aphrodite, my Venus, my sexy dark queen,  yes, with those blood-red nails of hers and her, o dear, its getting to me now,

Postscript: Plain truth fellas, is alot of naija guys dont have the nerve to talk to, date or marry a stunning woman. That's crap.

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This explains why a man will cheat.

Cos one day you will find a woman that is so gorgeous and you will lust after her.

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Well from my own side i always prefer a beautiful and attractive type but should in case the character is not there what do i do?i have to go for functional but if i can get attractive with good character i will love,

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is this a vote of thanks? meaning you're closing the thread now or what?

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b4 u all decide or even re-decide ur choice, read all it takes to keep a date and marriage alive at http://romance-gists.blogspot.com

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Isnt Mom Lisa the babe that acts in nigerian movies?

i thot i heard she is very smart and industrious?

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Have u guys heard of mona lisa?

Empty brain in a beautiful (sorry attractive body) is non sense.

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hahahahahaha.

I am sure there are functionally cute women jare, so we will be fine

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many thanks for all your contributions

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Funtional Wife can become a beautiful women if dere's rest of mind in her matrimonial home. even though they a managing.

A Funtional is better with B+ on the bed rather F9.

Happiness of the house, it matter a lot like:

Should always be cheerful and clever at household affairs

She should keep her utensils well polished and not have to free a hand in spending

She should obey the man and not violate.

An Attractive One

Can turn the house offset down

careless take care of the child etc

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no reply is childish, my brother. and yes. the poster is right. you certainly can have both

in one woman.

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flirting has not thing to do with having attractive or ugly wife, b/cos men with very beautiful wives still flirt around.

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@ Poster,

You should have put in a Poll that will have been more interesting

As for me on my choice of woman, I would prefer an Attractive one as long as She can make me go Mad on Bed, as for the Functions: we'll hire a Cook and house help to do that

Thanks

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Cos they marry functional woman and not attractive, so they wanna flirt with attractive young babes

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Na lie.

When you marry an ugly woman, u might start having some away swinging.

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Let the Functional Wife be the most Ugliest, I still prefer her to the Vanity Beauty.

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I like am (Ugly functional Wife) like that

Sirbrw

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i have one question for all of you on this thread:

the vote for functionality is evidently higher here, so i ask, why is it that men married to functional wives still go outside to have affairs with other women, some even descend so low as to flirt with small girls still in school, why?. is this not gross hypocrisy.

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most Functional wives are beautiful.

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I will without any reservation go for a functional wife for beauty is vanity so says the Bible.

Sirbrw

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Most of the replies are chidish I must say.

I'll choose (sorry, I've chosen) a functional lady 'cos you can make anybody "attractive" so long the basics are present!

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Hey!!! look, this is not a matter of preference, you just have to be functional if you want to be a good wife,

cherished by all and sundry.

So portray yourself in a good manner and leave the issue of attraction to God who has formed you in His own image.

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no fence sitting. choose one my friend

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i think i'll prefer to be both. cos it's sexy to be functional and at the same time attractive, abi how una c yam?

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