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Would You Prefer A Nigerian Lady For Marriage?

I've heard many married men saying one their biggest mistake is marrying a Nigerian lady, 'specifically from the south, west and eastern part of Nigeria. These guys complains for lack of true love and respect in the marriage even though they respect their wives.

[li]Some of these men even complain that the moment the wedding ceremony is over the whole idea of "who is the head of home" changes and that the wife wants to do all the controlling, (why).

Some even say they found out that these ladies tend to love their mum the more and to the fact that there's no more hidden secret in their home.

Some goes on to say their wives have overturn their destiny to theirs (can this be true) that the moment they got married to their wife everything crumbled in their life.

Are all these true among the Nigerian ladies, pls cast your opinion and personal experience.

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personally i would prefer a Nigerian lady,

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Those men are weaklings.Blaming others for their failure.

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If found one, great, but it is not a do or die thing

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yes, from same ethnic grp, domesticated, charcoal black, natural hair and very traditional.

a true empress.

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As for me, That one na confirm!!!!

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dont really know much about italian women. But yeah, love the bad naija babes more than the good italian. Me have a soft spot for em and I can forgive them easily.[quote][/quote]

Guy, you neva Jam O! I don't think you also know little about the BAD Naija babes. But don't get me wrong please, there are a lot of GOOD and very sweet naija babes- Some, lifesavers infact! Get any one of these as your partner, U'r good 4 life.

A GOOD person as a partner, no matter the race or country or tribe, brings the best out of both parties, but a BAD one, no matter how good the other partner is, only ends up in misery.

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y will i not marry a nigerian girl? It's jst dat u pray 2 meet d bone of ur bone or else, "preparing 2 meet ur DOOM

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[b][/b][quote][/quote]marriage is of the lord and also of choice, but stay wit a devil at 9t is beta than an ANGEL in the morning time.

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dont really know much about italian women. But yeah, love the bad naija babes more than the good italian. Me have a soft spot for em and I can forgive them easily.

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I don't know whether a Nigeria Woman is better or not.

What I know is that I am looking for a white babe.

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There will be challenges in any marriage. However, the ability to deal with any challenge is a virtue to be cherished.

Divorce, as in many developed countries, is not the best virtue to be cherished.

Each challenge does to equate to an opportunity to seek divorce.

It takes a well-cultured Nigerian woman who values their upbringing and family life to make a difference when challenges come.

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The standard of a true Nigerian woman is very high and cherished. I learnt about a true Nigerian woman from my own mother - a true Nigerian woman indeed.

For example, in Nigeria, DIVORCE was a vocabulary found in big dictionary until recently. That shows that the standard of marriage is turning sour.

The fact remains that all over the world, a true, uncompromised and unadulterated Nigerian woman is the best choice to choose from.

A true Nigerian woman is born and brought up in the culture of Nigeria with all the characteristics of the Nigerian society.

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gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Marry who you love, shikena!!!

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Regardless of who you marry, there will be challenges.

So enjoy what you have.

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I am married to a Nigerian woman from the same tribe as myself which is always what I wanted anyway and so far I am happy with my marriage but not to say there has not being some challenging times. As much as I would not want to judge anyone if they choose to marry outside Nigeria or even their tribes but it does help to marry someone you share similarities of culture. The differences between two individuals in a marriage all too often throw up clashes of interest - cultural differences may throw up more. Having said that, there are succesful marriages with non-Nigerian women but the man should be able to have a different expectation than he would with a Nigerian woman

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No need for stereotypes

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Uhhh, why do you have to generalize things like that =\

I mean all are humans so we should not separate them into classes like that =\

Different person, different characteristics i guess =\

If you are talking about culture than that is a different thing,

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Out of every 12 women in the world, there is a judas, regardless of their race or nationality

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There is no woman like a naija woman. Even oyinbo women dey envy naija women and because of the envy, they always try to denigrate naija women by saying that they allow themselves to be trampled upon and bla bla bla.

Naija women are the best kind of women in the world.

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waoh, you are blessed and i pray that God continue to bless your home.

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9ja women are d bomb. marry a well cultured and trained, homely and caring, matured and gifted woman, ur life will never be d same again. i'm lucky 2 av married one. she was my prayer answered.

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i believe all this control chicks can be checked during the selection processe

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honestly everthing you wrote is fictional

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Women are women everywhere, however if I want to get married, I have to marry an african girl, period, naija, ghana, kenya, caribbean, blk american, e no matter, though I prefer naija and ghana,

People wey dey yarn about oyibo girls, na ppl wey never leave naija, or jjcs, trust me I don dey this obodo for 5yrs now, and I come in contact with a lot of white ppl young and old,

The thing I will add to what ppl have said abt oyibo(that is divorce take your money and so on is, ) is that oyibo girls enter rapid rate of deterioration after 30yrs of age, by 38 most of them look like they are approaching 50, 4get wetin u see for hollywood, na film trick, also sun na wahala for them, it dmages their skin, so na sun screen 24 during summer, that one mean say moving to naija is out of the question fort them, plus white chicks are fickle, todau they love u so much, the next day dem fit begin sleep wit your bestman, especially the ones that chase blk guys with accent,

I love naija or african girl, that u can relate to, if its naiaj girl speak your language together, speak your language to your kids, plus nigerians do have the most beautiful acccent, of all africans, trust me I didn't even know that, till chicks started to open their leg once I talk to them for one nite 4 club, ol boy naija girls una no get nothing to worry abt, just have some goals, be educated have a good heart(plus e no go bad if she get ikebe also), and I will treat u like my queen

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I prefer a naija girl. (some naija girls are really nice but just very hard to find)

Infact if all these 'other' girls were naija, i'll be married by now (and they know).

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well its also d recession, jobs r harder to find,

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from naija men, kogi state to be precise. say in the US for now

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If i were a guy, y not.

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where are all y'all from newayz

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cant wait to visit niger for xmass

i heardlota things have changed

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oya bere oro e. we're all ears. lol

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men SAmparaian, i get done wit sch in december, cant wait to go back home. people ask why? i tell dem its easier to be broke at home than it is here. besides theres no place like home. finally i miss my baby so much, thats a strong incentive to come back if all fails.lol. but really cant wait to go back to naija

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I dont mind if my wife makes more money than i do as long as we both find time for the family and understand ourselves well.

Naija men these days no want house wife

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U r welcome. As Miss EZ said everyone is entitled to their opinions and we should respect each other's but this conclusion you made is wrong. Think about it again.

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oyinda ki lo nse e gan

jeki nsoro lol

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thanx every1 stil

love y'all

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miss EZ maybe you are among the few but stil it happens

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yes o. honeyguy we no de attack u o, we r just tryn to make u understand that things r way different from the way u c it. no beef man. we may disagree wit ur opinions, doesnt mean we dnt respect u as a person.

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such a sensitive issue attracts great attention

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Diva1 c we don enter 5 pages, lol, wen i saw this post yesterday, i dint believe it would go this far

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Alright people, i gotta call it a nite.

@Samparian : Laters man

@Honeyguy : Dream on.It's inexpensive

@NL Chicks : Stay beautiful.Una be the best.No let some "Been tos" tell you different.

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@Diva1

Honeyguy goes after prostitutes NOT normal girls.That's why all these things keep happening to him.

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Honeyguy goes after prostitutes NOT normal girls.That's all these things keep happening to him.

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Is that so?White women dont get divorced due to financial reasons?Okay, can you then tell me why these women go to great lengths to make sure the guy remains penniless after the divorce?

I mean a divorce is supposed to be a dissolutuion of marriage and everyone goes seperate but these women really want you to suffer for a long long long time and their a laws in the constitution that are 100% feminist inclined.The lady always WINS.If women aren't interested in money, why did women fight so hard to have more constitutional rights than men when it comes to divorce?Ehh?Like i said earlier, you are in a dream world.Sooner or later, you eyes will clear up and you'll see how your "non-money loving" honeys treat you.

Guy stop dancing around, marry a whitey and come and spend sometime at home.I tell you, if NEPA no bring light for 3 days, she go put bullet in the middle of your "white- girl- loving- Bottom"!

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