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Your 45 Year Old Friend Is Sleeping with Your 25 Year Old Son. Whose Side Will U Be?

Ladies - whose side will you be? You just found out your son as been fu cking your 45 year old friend, whose side will you take? Your son or your friend? Or you will just tell them to carry go, nothing do una.

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"are you saying that if your 45yr old friend goes after your man, it would be better in your eyes than your kid?

and also if the 45yr old happen to be NOT over sexed ("virgin" and never married) would it make it better?"

All i meant I can understand her jealousy and envy tendencies but dating my son is completely out of the way,

Whether over sexed, virgin or never married, is way out of line, 45yrs is 45yrs,

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are you saying that if your 45yr old friend goes after your man, it would be better in your eyes than your kid?

and also if the 45yr old happen to be NOT over sexed ("virgin" and never married) would it make it better?

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African or un african, I will skin him alive oh, Is that he didnt see the sweet succulent angels around who are his mates to date or what? Or is it my 45 old enough friend to mess up with, ?

As for my friend, it will be a personal matter between my family and hers, Dats the highest point of betrayal of friendship, if its my hubby she set her sights on, i will understand but my son? incredible, maybe she's doing it to get to me or what, Or is she jealous of my family & wants to disrupt my peace? I will definitely come after her with a rusty rake,

Young adults should be allowed to face peer pressures, have fun with their age mates & live life to the fullest without the overbearing attitude of over sexed adults,

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Nothing spoil as long as they are happy together and the feeling is real and not adulterous. It must be open and done right to get my support.

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I think it's awful for a 45y old to date a 25y boy. According to Cleveland on Family Guy. . ."oh that's just nasty". The guy should be older than the girl, it's the best way

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That should not be happening. I would not stand for it.

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Every act,if things happened it will not change obvious fact behind the issue,the fact here is that its UN-AFRICAN, So UR comment answered ?

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ABSURDITY, YOU DID NOT TELL WHERE THIS IS HAPPENING,TO ME ITS UN-AFRICAN

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Tudor,u know u wont do that,how many wud u be killing?we just hope such shits dont happen cos if it do happen,sadly,there NOTHING anyone can do to STOP it.

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there is nothing you can do about it with love all is possible

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at least you are honest about your views.

so are you saying that you will ask your child to choose between you and your friend? and what about if that child chooses your friend? since that child would be an adult and probably not live under your roof, she/he would just turn around and tell you goodbye.

also, i never said i was happy and celebrating the news with popping champagnes, i said i would stand by that child's choice and not be against their wishes.

as much as a parent will try to instill the best in his children, one day that child will have to walk alone and make their own mind and possibly mistakes. it doesnt mean that we dump them or dont care anymore, it mean we respect their choices as they are adults.

a parent who forces a child to do what he(the parent) wants and not what this child pleases IS the one who doesnt care. this parent doesnt care of the child's choices and only care about his. people are different in life and i hate to see what will happen the day, god forbids, any of your children turn out gay/lesbian or anything you are against.

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At 25 i was already a graduate and living alone and yes, i've dated older single women.

If your friend is a widow or divorced/single, then your son hasnt commited any grievious offence. But if your friend is married, then that is totally wrong.

My current girlfriend is 45 and a single mum of 3 (though i dont live in naija) her kids know we're dating and are okay with it.

and like you asked, a 45 year old man sleeping with a 25 year old girl is totally different.

My advice to you is not to confront your son. just talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about it. you two will sort it out as mature women. Dont barge in and assualt/quarrell with her. do that and you're in trouble, cos your son may turn against you.

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nna see people o . . . wait until you actually have children then tell us "you dont care" who they sleep with.

To start with male or female child i'd be awfully disappointed because i must have trained them to the best of my God-given ability.

The relationship must end . . . that child will have to choose between me or my friend. Forget age . . . a child will always be my child even if he is 50. Will you see your 35yr old son walking into fire and say you dont care? My friends you better care o.

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Tudor,

How can you tell your 25 (grown Bottom woman) who she can and can not fkuc?

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Funny topic, the child will be 25 yrs abi? Nothing you do (hala, beat(if you can at that age), beefing etc) will have any effect, other than give you headache. You can probably advice the child but that's all. If the child was under 21 or under 18 then you would have something to say.

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either way, I DONT CARE, as long as they are happy and that they are old enough to stand by their mistakes then they should do what they wish.

at 25, i would have instilled in my daughter the best values i know and if she decides that she want to be with my 45yr old friend , so be it.

going against her will be the complete opposite of what i would have taught her all these years. as long as its nothing criminal, i would always stand by my kids.

i might not agree with everything, but i will always stand by them.

when do you think that your child should make her own mind and live her own life?! 

is being against them gonna make any difference? shall i beat her into submission? shall i knock my friend out into dumping her?

what kind of immature mind is that?

the first thing you should know about life is: that you like it or not, that you stop it or not, that you stand by it or not, they will do it if they really want to.

if YOU dont like it then step out of their lives but trying to stop it is not going to solve ANY damn problem (as if there was any).

if your daughter sleeps with your best friend then i suggest you blame yourself before any other.

i dont know about "all the guys" but thats what I AM SAYING.

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Walakolobo my 45 y.o female friend bleeping my 25year old son is quite different from my 45 year old male friend fuc.king my 25 year old daughter. For the latter it's a big NO!

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What a dumb answer.

so you are all saying there is nothing wrong in your son sleeping with your best friend older than him? who is talking about marriage?

Some guys can talk double, so, all the guys can agre to their friend who is 45 to be fu cking their daughter who is 25? Is this what all the guys are saying?

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what a dumb question. if they are together and you just find that out then taking anyone's side is not going to make any difference.

- take your son side and they live happily ever after

- take your friend side and they live happily ever after

******scratching my head******** please enlighten me and tell me what is the difference if taking in consideration what the %^$* anyone thinks?!

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fortunately that will never happend to me

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