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Ladies: Can You Dress Up In The Presence Of A Man?

how many ladies on NL dress up, or would dress up, in the presence of their brother, cousin, nephew e.t.c.?

how many mothers on NL actually dress up in the presence of their sons? this is a common trend in nigeria you know!

even heard some fathers dress up in the presence of their children, but i guess thats when they are still young sha!

just wanna know! no prejudice, no hard feelings!

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My sisters hardly see me when I'm only putting on the last layer of clothing, talkless of a male. It could only be my husband and my kids- not even toddlers, infant babies.

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It dpends,i dnt c y my grlfrnd wunt dres in my present,wats dear 2 hide;-D i've already seen nd touch evrytin, so wats dear 2 hide if it already mine

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pls tope,just stop it, ko

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I Can never dress up before my brothers, siblings etc. I hadly even do it before my mum but infront of my hubby,, Definetely

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Infront of my brother, is not a big problem, sometimes he even goes like "i'm seeing things that m not suppose to c" but i just go ahead, even sometimes walk from the bathroom to my room Unclad, hehehe.

And infront of my nephews and other ppl is a total NO NO, my son i dont mind and ofcourse my man, i dont mind aswell.

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I think this depends on how comfortable you are with your unclothedness. I have only sisters and so its not that big a deal if they see me or my mom sees me Unclad. My dad seeing me undressed is a no no. At school I live in a triple and sometimes when the closet gets clogged up with dirty clothes I put my undies on in the closet and then lotion and get dressed out in the main room. I also played sports and most times there were girls who didn't care about walking around commando in the locker rooms whether they were bald eagles or amazon princesses.

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in the presence of my man u mean, yep, infact i'll even ask him on his opinion of how i look, but any other dude, oh double hell no

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To tell u d truth, can't remember when was d last time i undressed b4 a close relation. cos av got my own bathroom and toilet and my own room. and personally, i like putting on my boxers when i come out from d bath. but i think i will feel embarrassed to c a close relationship of mine c me stark Unclad.

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In front of ma hubby when we're married- yes.

prior to that- no way.

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I used to dress up in d presence of my BF, but stopped immedaitely we broke up.

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of course. i feel u ojare

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there r some ladies who do d i knw send ting, u knw wat i mean bt i tink it matters

bt wnt mind if u do it in my presence

did i contribute to dis thread, i must av said dat y passin thru it

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@ snugle

can i join ur family so that d kissy- hugging- freeworld cycle will continue.

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@ almondjoy

r u calling me moody?

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Well i dont even let my mother see me Unclad. i'm fine physically but just too self-conscious

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am conscious of my body

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@yemivictor

hahahaha. i don't have one yet yet. but soon.

friendship is always welcome.

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@ yemivictor

hahahaha. u asked about YIM.

I said I don't have one, but soon. LOL

@ almondjoy

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@yemivictor

LOL. Yeah, go ahead, act like you have no idea what I mean.

I am beautifully made and realise that I have to take care of this body that the good Lord has blessed me with. (interpret that however u wish to)

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My stance? Well, while i subscribe to how being comfortable in your body is directly proportional to how much skin you might want to show. You know, "flaunting it if you've got it", so to speak (and like ify said).

I certainly will not condone you going stark Unclad before . . . your brother, for example! However, it might shock you to know that some babes may actually be indulging in this already, without any strings attached! It all depends on how we were raised!

NB: Could you please expantiate on your last statement above which i have put in bold letters?

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@ yemivictor.

I don't quite understand your stance. Pls explain.

@Ifyalways

It's not necessarily "if you've got it, flaunt it"

There are those who are comfortable in their own skin but can be considered a nuisance to society if they become bold enough to flaunt it in public.

luckily I don't have that problem.

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It really does depend on the type of relationship and how comfortable you are with your body.

I attended boarding school so it really isn't a big deal for me to dress up in front of females.

I have what you have, you've seen it before. If you're a lesbian just don't approach me and we're cool.

I also don't have a problem dressing up in front of some of my male friends, but ofcourse this is after I have on my undies. I trust them.

As for my family, well in front of my sisters, aunts, female cousins, mum, absolutely no problem.

In front of my brother, uncles, bra and panties.

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Re: Ladies: Can You Dress Up In The Presence Of A Man?

NO!!!

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i cant dress up/UnCloth in front of any one but MY HUSBAND.

maybe if i had a sister,it wud have been different.

my mum though undresses/dress up in my presence

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Never my male siblings or other male relations. With my sisters, it's ok. With female cousins and female friends, partially; Mean with pant and bra, but never stack nacked.

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ehie007.U just lied.

Even when Adam and eve discovered they were Unclad in the garden,they used their hands 2 cover their tins.Y should u nw expose urs? As mi,yes in front of ma sistas but mum won't even let u UnCloth in her presennce.She will chase u out.

As 4 ma bros,once u start dressing or undressing he gently walks away or if there is discusssion on ground as @ dat time,He simply moves 2 anoda end of the room but 4 ma kid broda,[2yrs+]dat one will want 2 peep and cee d sccyebles.

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I may be partly Unclad in front of my daughter but not totally Unclad.

If i had son, i would never do it once he starts growing (like 2yr old).

I feel its wrong cause then the children will feel its a norm and go looking at other Unclad people.

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i think it depends on the kinda or the strength of the bond that holds the family together. in myfamily, we have mouth to mouth kisses,like pecks from father to daughters,brothers and sisters and even my grandmum(PHEW).My brothers can change in front of me,cuz i do same with them,even cousins,but we know where to draw the limit cuz sum1 eventually ends up walkin outta the room

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sweetNsoflyy,

Thanks for ur contribution n sorry for the delay. u see, the reason i posted that thread was because way back secondary school, there was this chap who claimed he used to dress up in the presence of his sisters, he was an only boy i guess.

And even more interesting is that the guy said his sisters used to play with his thing, and the guy was well endowed. I went to a full-boarding-boys-only, and we bathed out-doors, so every body knew what everybody had. Even many of our female corper teachers liked to walk past while we bathed.

But back to the point, while i know that incestuous relationships are very rampant these days, and i certainly did not expect any NLer to own up to one. On a lower scale, i just wanted to know what goes on in different homes, as it relates to the subject of this topic, later!

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A lot of families are stuffed into one room. There's no privacy anymore.

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Bra and panties sure but Unclad only my sis

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my sis only

no other person is allowed in the room when I'm doing ma buziness

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I UnCloth in front of my kids when they are young. When they get older it varies. I do not UnCloth in front of the boys but they can see me Coverless, with a bra on. I could UnCloth in front of the girs but also not totally Unclad. Well the girls get to see more than the boys.

I also do not stumble in on my kids when they are Unclad as soon oa they get to the age that it embarasses them.

I guess we are not free on such things in my fymily. My husband is even more conservative and makes no exceptions.

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My 2 female cousines used to do that intill they went amarrying.

Don't know whether I enjoyed those scenes though.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]

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It was common in my home when a child is young, because they're sometimes always in the room, but as they get older around 6 o r 7 years old that should not continue. I think its especially questionable when a sister/brother/ etc dress and UnCloth in front of one another. I most certainly wouldnt want my future husband undressing in front of his sisiters, and if i had a brother, im certain that he would be uncomfortable with me undressing in front of him.

Its a good question, that never crossed my mind, so,, Why did u ask this. Is it common for Nigerian men to dress and UnCloth in front of his sisters/mother/cousins, and Nigerian women as well? I would like to know, dont think I would want to deal with that.

love & light,

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