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Why Are Our Ladies Not Dressing Decently?

Well, to my own understanding, i believe girlz like dt do it for show offs, some do it cos they r been influenced by frds, some do it cos others r doin it while some do it all in d name of fashion.But d one i hate most r girlz dt do it for attraction, notice me, i dey here no forget me ,i sabi am come meet me n so on.

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I think if the way you dress affect other people life, then you alone don't make all the decisions.

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wats ur business i dey dress indicent

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well, its kind of personal, if u feel free in wat ever you wear,who gives a f, if u dnt then there's sumtin wrong wid it, i guess u dnt need a soothsayer to tell u what yr wearin is indecent.

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none sense and ingrident

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Hot angel your too much. as for me anywoman who doesn't wear anything that show part of her God giving beauty is a village girl,how can men get attracted to her for anything?[color=#006600][/color]

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wen a woman looks gud, she feels gud n hs more confidence n self esteem

but a lot dnt get dis point, 4 dem it's to seek attention n so give dose wntn 2 look n feel gud look like attention seekers

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yeah like using a belt if u knw we're gonna see ur thongs n panties

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Lol. Y'all making me laugh. No one's saying jeans is bad! As a matter of fact i wear them! Oh lawdy lawd! But you don't have to wear them indecently!

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Ask me please.

even jeans is bad now.

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why cnt a woman dress n feel sexy wivout people pinting their fingers and running their mouths?

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Ps

what is a whole pant compared to a little bit of string.

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I see nothing wrong in a waist jeans.

A girl with confidence will not even bother pulling it up.

But someone here has said it b4 what about boys that wear there own on the legs showing the whole pant boxers what ever are they not worse.

I mean they do not even have to sit or bend for me to see their pant

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The truth is that deep down everyone knows what is decent! But a lot of people hide under the cover of 'as long as i'm comfortable'. Low waist jeans or not, why must a girl wear it and yet keep pulling it up every 5 minutes or so.

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It's a issue I understand about big girls looking for the correct fit (why don't they go for nice skirts) but I do see dis with slim girls too o. Apart from that, sometimes we just have to make sacrifices to protect what we believe in. Because everyone is wearing waist jeans does not mean a decent girl should go that way. It's always painful not to follow the crowd, I know that cos everyday I experience one form of insult or the other based on that, but i believe it's worth it. God help us all.

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Big girls have a problem getting good fits anyway, we should not make it more difficult for them, they are limited enough.

They do make the clothes smaller. I have 3 daughters i know what am talking about.

Its a hard wold out there speically in school,you have to fit in.And you cannot fit in with a baggy when everyone is wearing leggings if you know what i mean.

A lady jeans is not just a jeans, its the cut that matters, at the moment its the waist jeans and not man girls have that tiny waist they are made for.

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It's not that d cloths industry keeps making it smaller, its just that big girls see sumthin nice and squeeze themselves into it. I did not say cos her pant is showin she's an harlot, i said i have an issue with that. i dont have to bend to see dat, my favorite position is the back in a bus so I can think well and if someone wants to get out, I naturally would raise my head to see sum1 wit her pants sticking out. Nuttin decent about that.

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Then do not look.

Girls here wear only jeans.

The cloths indstry keep making the cloths smaller and smaller .Its hard for big girls to get good sitting jeans.

Most girls look that the jean sits well . You are talking of the waist jeans.

So just because the string sticks out when she sits down.the Girl looks like a Harlot?

I do not think so.

A Girl sitting is nomore on your eye level that means you bend your head to look.

By the way a harlot is also on,y doing her job

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Abegi Mamaput, If you dress in such a way that if they put u and a harlot side by side there would be no difference, I dont think u see anything wrong in that? Your dressing gives whoever the first impression about you. It's not a matter of men who can't control themselves, its the girls who are not smart enough to know that they are giving the world a wrong message. I have nothin against girls wearing jeans but I have something against girls who wear jeans that are not their size and when they enter a bus, u can't help but notice their underwear.

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well maybe because they love their body and they are not tryna hide what they got they tryna show what d lord God gave them if u love what God gave u u ain't got to hide it show errone that God is Creative

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Its jealous women and men that see something in the way a woman dresses.

Some men cannot control themselves and know that ladz is never for them.

Some women know that their Husbands or boyfriends can go for that girl dressed as they call it indecent.

As long as it fits. now what is indecent for me is a fat person in a mega mini and belly free top

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yeah gem i can go out wearing a t shirt and a free jean trousers dats a decent dressing to me and not a see through top with a skimpy skirt.exposing all the vital parts of your body

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Hmmmm one man's garbage is another man's treasure

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i think dressing depends on the occasion

u cnt wear a t-shirt and really free trousers to d club can you?

or wear a short sleeved straight cut dress - styleless u knw like d day wears we hv 2 wear in boarding schl to a party

i mean u cnt expect me not 2 wear somn skimpy on a hot summer day cuz i only get 3 mnths a yr 2 flash my skin, cum on hv mercy

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to me decently maybe in two ways;some may be dressing and covering all your body like a typical muslim or an arabic.or is either you dress casually without exposing your body.or wat do u think gem?

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for a lady not to dress well depends on her mentality and it differs on every body perspective of not dressing decently.so wether u dress well or not depends on you personally

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u do huh? and wht's keepin u frm doin wht u shlda done since?

hvnt seen any nice 1s?

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dunno. but i do enjoy the fine ones though.

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i think anybody can dress anyway they want to as long as they feel confortable in it without gettin judged by nobody its their body and they culd do anythin they want to it as long as it doesn't affect nobody

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decency is almost non-existent it all depends on location, simple n short!!!

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Take a löök at the clothes the catalog, they all look good on the models.

But try wearing them :

They was a time these Apron dresses were in fasion (these check dresses with bottons down the front) some thing a house wife will wear to do her house work . But on a model it looked different.

Hot pants are not hot pants.On every one

A wrapper on a white skinny woman is also not the best i mean tying wrapper is alos Arts, not just tying.

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This thread tells you more :

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-10520.0.html

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However do you think that there are some clothes out there that look aweful regardless of who is wearing it

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Its not about what you ware . But how it looks on you.

my daughter and her best friend wore the same top.

No one said anything to my daughter but to her friend because she has big bubbs. and they were almost falling out.

I ware what i like some times nice some times bush some times mini yes at my age.

My kids have hidden some of my bush things mostly shoes.

In am slim and i have fine legs so i can show them.

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I agree, the definition of decent is so subjective that we cannot debate on what decent dressing if until we can have an agreement on what decent means

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Our ladies are dressing comfortably. We can't answer the question "why are they dressing indecently" for as long as we don't have a common agreement/definition of what decent or indecent dressing is. DO WE?

That is Seun's point, which I agree with wholeheartedly "Decent dressing is a matter of interpretation" and I think we should leave it as that.

In some families in Naija and all over, even wearing any type of trousers by a woman is considered indecent, no matter how baggy it is.

The mantra of this generation is "As long as it is comfortable for you, O GA GOES!!!" And I think that makes more sense than us spending precious time that can be spent or more prouctive activities arguing what is decent dressing and what isn't,

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the thing is dat in dis generation decency does not exist, wht is decent in the western world is aborminable in africa. wear bikini to the beach in the u.s it's decent even the thongs are acceptable even posin Unclad in magazines is becomin normal the world is changing. but if u put on a one piece bathing suit in naija u'll c 4 urself so i'll say style depends on the person and their location,

as for me miami or mallorca i ain't wearing no bikini my body is not 4 public attraction.

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What exactly did I say to deserve that statement?

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U r right o jare my sis.,never mind seun.He seems so adamant.

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The issue of what kind of person is decent and what kind is indecent varies from culture to culture, and person to person.

Which of the following do you see as being indecent when worn by lady?

- Men's trouser.

- Body-hugging trouser.

- See-through body-hugging trouser.

- Sleeveless blouse.

- Body-hugging blouse with a bra.

- Body-hugging blouse with an undershirt/singlet.

- Body-hugging blouse without a bra.

- See-through blouse with a bra

- See through blouse with an undershirt/singlet.

- See-through blouse without a bra.

- Mini-skirt.

- Blouse showing your bely-button

- Skirt with a long slit that shows your knees.

- Blouse that shows the tip of your cleavage.

Which of the above would you clasify as being indecent? Can we be a little bit more imprecise? Because you might be complaining that some other girls are dressing indecently, meanwhile others are looking at you thinking, "why can't christyne dress more decently?"

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U dont have to be like an Arab woman as said by seun b4 one can dress decently.Putting on a simple dress without any show off is a decent dressing.U cant compare a lady putting on a nice tube top with short with d one puttin on a simple trousers/skirt with a nice top,ok?

Abeg my frd, dressing different frm dressing,ok?

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well idont tink a lady would dress indescent due to one tin or the other to me its the level of the girl/womans mentality[color=#990000][/color]

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How would you define 'decent' dressing? Do you mean covering your whole body including your face like the Arab women?

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