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Would/ Do You Share Your Outfits/ Shoes With Friends?

Y'all know the drill. Once we are room mates, we share everything. She can wear my shoes, and i can use her pad. Girls... bunch of weirdos. I'm a girl, but i don't really buy the Idea of me and my friends sharing stuffs. I have no room mates.. but i don't think i'll share my stuff with her if i happen to get into uni and get a room mate. I don't know tho, it depends.

I think the topic is clear enough, Would you share your outfits/shoes/glasses or any of those stuffs with your roomate/friend?

Guys are welcome to answer this, because i heard that guys normally share each other's "black pants". Is it true that, There's no diff if Mr.A wears it, and then Mr.B wears it?

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Actually, I can't share my outfits\shoes with friends because it will make me to loss interest for my shoes/outfits and the way I manage and take care of my outfits will not be the same with the way my friends will do. Sharing of things is not encouraging due to the spread of disease and infections.

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No. Only with my daughter.

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Used to do dat when i was in school but now, NO

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Why should I share when I’ve got lots, if u want some I give it out

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aunty claire, they also say friends kill too.

abeg if u wanna share u share, i dont believe in it,some people have permanent infections, go and share their things and come and tell me the results.

ajiri, u talk true jare, b contended wit wat u ave

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its funny that this topic came up. i attended a red carpet event two days ago and after coming up with my "fun won tan" outfit i remembered (yet again) that i still don't have a black clutch. i knew that a clutch was what i needed to put my outfit on point. for the first time since my mother gave birth to me i thought of asking any one of my fashionista friends for one. and then i remembered the daughter of whom i am, realizing my mother would turn in her grave because she considered such things desperate. i was brought up to make do with whatever i can afford. wearing other people's clothes is a sign of a fake lifestyle. period. don't put your eyes in another woman's property.

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why have a friend if you cant share things with her? it is very obvious with your replies that most of you girls either dont have friends or are clearly lying about not sharing. this is the simple reason why i like guys, they are so truthful nd that is why i totally agree with what dagaro said. it is noy just someone you gist with.it is your FRIEND we are talking about here

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for people like me., its not like we go out of our way to share stuff. picture this, my friends and i are going for a bash, am about wearing my top and suddenly, pra pa pa , it tears, would you because of that bone the bash, hell no, omo you gat to hustle.recently, sometin hapnd and my friend and i wanted to wear somthn similar, i had this mini skirt, jeans, with a red band at both sides( really cute) the reasonable thing to wear is a red top she, ges what, the one i had didnt look nice with the skirt. okay let me wear blue, iro, ko lo. my friend had an extra red top that fit perfectly, now tell me i shouldnt take it. at the end of the day, i looked superb!

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nope. i prefer to give it out forver.

i hate to share with my sis or friend, whn u finish wearing then i also wear it!

hell no! i love to give it out not to share.

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i cant, i dont even share anything with my sister

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try using ur "e" button instead of 3, and using captitals mean u're shouting

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i DON'T SHAR3 MY CLOTH3Z WiTH MY FRi3NDZ, WHiCH iZ MY OWN D3CiSiON, B3CAUS3 YOU KNO SOM3 P3OPL3 SM3LL, AND OTH3R P3OPL3 DON'T WASH AND OTH3RZ SW3AT 3XC3SSiV3LY(SP?) SO FOR M3 NO, i DON'T SHAR3 CLOTH3S iTH FRi3NDZ

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definitely, i share my stuff wiv my falt mate (only d clean one )

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yeah,

@iice,

i kinda luv feelin some1 else's heat nxt 2 me at nite

is dat weird?

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Sometimes i wear my kids cloths they are more up to date than i am.

But am a bit fater than them something like the waste jeans will be a problem.

So mostly tops. Tops have a more standard size .But my 12 year old has very lage bosom so we do not allow her to take every thing from us she will expand them and render them useless to us.

But all my kids have their own beds they never sleep together, only if we have visitors.

My last girl has packed into my room and refused to packout. Till i buy her a new steroset.

She likes falling asleep with musik, But the other girl not so they were always fighting. Now she is in my room stricking till she gets her new set with headset and mp3 so that she can load new musik or stories.

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There are some people with body odor i will not like to share with them.

Or if they are fatter than me. They will only expand the cloths.

My kids sometimes take my shoes,

When my 12 year old daughter wears them .(still learning how to walk in lady shoes) she changes the leg/step women know what am talking about. I do not like that.

But i cannot tell her to stop because i even encourage them sharing among themselves.

But what i hate is when they wear my things to a friends house , change there again and forget my what ever there.

Or sometimes when i want to wear a particular jacket and one of them has woren it and gone to school.

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duh obviously, i mean who wld share panties and undies? lol

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share dresses , yea with some friends i went to a boarding school and one person is always asking for houseware or something like that, so i do share my dresses but puhleeasee not undies.

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Life is only hard if u wish it. If my friend likes anything i have, i'd rather give it out than have it rock back n forth like a ping ball- even if its a new item! Dont believe in lending other's things though cos i'd feel uncomfortable thru out d day, like expecting s'one 2 pop out anytime n say"ISN'T THAT , 'S SHIRT!" n all that stuff. But 2 be fair though, there may be some xceptinal cases like if u had to stay over at somewhere dat u dint plan for.

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I will never share anything with my sister not talking of my friend.

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@mamaput

i think u're a gud mom

i wear my mom's shoes sumtimes too, lol

i always wish i had a sister though, gets boring sleepin by myself everynite on a big bed

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like someone said what is the true meaning of friendship?

anywayz i would share my clothing and shoes with room mates or non roommates if you dig my dress sense. when i was in College back home i did share clothes with my friends but now i can't wear a friend's outfit (just think i'm not into that anymore) but my friend could go ahead and wear mine just take care of it.

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With my sis, no probs, i use theirs too.

But with rummates? Hell no! I can share my slip-on, shoe(if we're same size, don't need no enlargements!), perfume(no roll on sharing), combs, but tops and wears? Mba! I'd rather give it to u, or politely refuse.

With friends? Sure, but depends too.

I really don't like using things with people, i like having my own things, but that don't mean i avnt used a friend's slippers before, but wears? Naw.

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I havent shared cloths with someone before, but if they really wanted to wear something of mind, sure.

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i will only share shoes with friends not my outfits

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okay i no this is totally out of topic but i want to askn hot angel something. where do u live hot angel.i mean just the country

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Then its all friend for mouth.

If anyone has a real good friend why not .

Am not talking about room mates.

But there is one thing i teach my kids. Not toothbrush pant or roll on deo.

I used to do it and my kids do it too .They exchange cloths with friends for some time.

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sharing is good because we all going to go six feet under and leave the clothes and shoes here but we share wisely, u dont ewear the shirt i wore yesterday today. u time it with at least a weeks gap if it is a clothing but other essential items like make up n girl stuff . sharing is gud

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how do u get HIV from sharing clothes? thats new...

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Share wetin? In this era of infections and HIV. I have never done that and not planning to. be content with what u have. Thats d spirit.

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What was I saying oh okay. I shared uniforms in boarding school (Nigeria), hey but that was then and the condition made it comfortable as well. Well, like i said, it was back in the days but right now, here in US, that ain't happening.

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I can only share it with a very close frd with a good health and not a casual frd.

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w/friends, y not? roomates? maybe depending on her health. if she get kro kro hell nah... just kidding. It all depends on how close i am with d room mate.

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I share with my sisters and if they wear it too much, I'll rap it and give it to them. I can remember once a cousin borrowed my shirt for something and never gave it back but I won't even take anyways ( I bet she figured me out). I guess I'm not comfortable sharing once it's not my immediate family.

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@hot-angel

Chapter closed.

Thanks.

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It's a bad idea to be sharing things like that with someone, buy you own and you will be free

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I made the topic hunnie.. why would i change it?

Listen, we r all guilty at one point or the other, as in when we wear our friend's stuff because of some 'conditions'. I'm not going to say i haven't worn anything that belongs to my friend before..cos that'll just be a big fat lie.

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yeah, if we wear the same size.

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@hot-angel

...But what im asking is that, do U share everything with friends.

Are u trying to chage the topic?

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jen, it all depends on the friend not just any kind friend . you know what am saying.

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Well, it all depends on who the friend is and how close to the person, even your siblings.....and how open you are when growing up.

I have shared before, but only with my only brother, and my closest pal..if anybody else wears my stuff, then bye to that apparel.

I share with those two cuz they are more like me..if u'all get the jist.

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sure why not, that is the fun of staying together. But i am not saying i will share everything, there are some things i won't be able to share with her.

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Well that's one question me thinks we should all answer.

Well, i won't lie and say i have never worn anything that belongs to my friend. I have one time or the other worn something that belongs to my friend. I just don't do it like alot or like something that's part of me. I only wear what belongs to my friends when im in their house, and don't have my own thing with me. But what im asking is that, do U share everything with friends.

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oh no i cant share my things with any other person apart 4rm mii close friend i cant even share my personal things like undies,deodorant towel,sponge name it only my clothes not even all my clothes the ones i know i dont really like or is no longer in vogue dagara asked a questiuon dat every body refused to reply even me dont worry i will reply...........................................................................................................i feel you hotangel

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