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Is the Way to a Man's Heart His Stomach?

Is it really his stomach? Because I have known some chick to cook up a meal for some dude and yet all he says is "thank you".

What's up with this saying? Has it changed since our forefathers? Is the way to a man's heart through his stomach? Will correct tasty flavoured food capture his heart?

What of the guys that can cook now? What will a sistah have to do to win that type of a man?

Is the saying just that now, a lame saying?

yarns abeg

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@topic, biologically speakin mayb, bt in a real sense is actually. Man has bn associated to d facts of lovin n eatin food wella, so dt z wia dt adage/statement got its meaning 4rm.

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Maybe only when hi is hungry[url][/url]!

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that is a lie from the pit of hell, the way to my heart is the good behavior of a great woman

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Only girls that don't know how to cook will support this tread. Because they are failures in their God Giving destined Office THE KITCHEN

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yes and no. yes 4 a guy who wants to go beyond a serious relationship with u and no for a guy who just wants to be eating your food and has some other serious girl. well, it's no criteria to win a man's heart.

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IT is largely true even

Also agree with @omogenaija

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If that is true, then I guess I'm going to be paying a fortune to chefs in Lagos!

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Actually, it’s been turned around now. The way to a woman’s heart is her stomach. Trust me.

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That phenomenon does not occur anymore. Its now very rare to see men talk about that. The way to a man's heart is not his stomach.

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The way to a man's heart thru his stomach? Of course - with cholesterol-laden food leading to myocardial infarction (heart attack).

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men r oni jekoje --- J/K i have to love men anayways

so the way to a man's heart is either through his stomach , your bank account , or u on top or the bottom of him

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Very correct, Disney.

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Well, in my village for Onitsha yes, but in lagos and abuja of today and in yankee "Hell No". This days, men want more than food. U feeling me, food does not work maggic today unlike in our mothers days. Now most men really want trust, respect and someone who would be there for them in good and also in bad times. Times have changed .

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I want to let every body know that this man-food-stomach-heart theory only holds 100% within the confines of Matrimony!!!.

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i would luv to think that it ain't true,lmao!

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So what, you' will spend all day having sex. Don't you have nothing alse to do? You sound boring man.

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i will cross the bridge when i get there.

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Maybe not, but it is still small compared to the rest of the day.

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That's the way to your heart? Well can be ok for some time but you got to live with her all days long not just couple of minutes during sex.

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any babe that thinks the way to my heart is thru my stomach missed a little too high. go down a bit...

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Me? What issues have I got. It was them who had pshychotic delusions, not me.

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poor you!!!you have got issues!!!

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Let me give you an example of my experience and what I learned from uni.

When I was in Jr. High, all I wanted was a girl with big bosoms.

In high school, I dated a girl with big bosoms, but there was no passion. So I decided I needed a passionate girl.

In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency, she cried all the time. So I decided I needed a girl with some stability.

I found a very stable girl, but she was boring. She never got excited about anything. So I decided I needed a girl with some excitement.

I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She was without direction. So I decided to find a girl with some ambition.

After college, I found an ambitious girl and married her. She was so ambitious, she divorced me and took everything I owned.

Now all I want is a girl with big bosoms!!

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So you never learned anything from uni then

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Scorpio, that it just the truth. A friend told me that my first year in the University and years later I believed him.

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We are getting to the surreal here.

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@Kenflavour...Oh lawd, pls don't tell me u'll fall for that crap too

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Once a lady is good on bed, she is definitely going to be good in every other thing (all rounder). Experience they say is the best teacher. Once she knows how to make u feel like a man, automatically she will be good at cooking, washing and finally, be a good wife. She knows how to make u happy in all ramification of life.

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lawd have mercy!!!at least she has to be good at something!!!

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But suppose a lady cannot cook, cannot dress, cannot put her own makeup, cannot satisfy her husband in bed. I mean that is not good either, yes?

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Men abeg, let no body slap me.

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you know,men like food very well,(over well).

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if i love her so much, i'll give her time to learn how to cook. if she cant learn it then goodbye to her. i have no business marrying a woman that cant cook.

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mamber if u love a girl and she can't cook, will ur relationship then end?

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as for me, if a girl doesn't cook good, i'm sure the relationship wont last.. i love me a girl that's creative in the kitchen & dining room. a kitchen is present in every home, just like the bedroom & both belong to the woman, she just has to be capable of managing these 2 rooms very well before i can consider her worthy of occupying them. the kitchen is a strong room that shouldn't be ignored.

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I really do not think it always is. But i think it depends on the individual involved and what he likes.

Good for u bro

Spoken like a typical male .

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don't worry girl, u'll be aiight.

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well i can't cook so if this is the quickest way to my man's heart i dun know i'll do in future.

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Food does not even play any part as far as my heart is concerned. Don't know about other guys, but I cook very well for a man anyways, so she'll have to find something other than food if she's interested.

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There are many ways to a man's heart.

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I believe there are different ways to a guys' heart. Thru food, great attitude, emotional support, etc. the list goes on. But the question at hand is if the old saying still hold. I don't think it still holds like it used to during our forefathers time. Bcuz for one, a guy can't appreciate a good woman when he sees one. The world is changing and the guys are terribly changing along with it.

I feel we need to be specific about what kind of guys' we talking about nigerian guys or guys in general? If it's nigerian guys in america then just forget about it. If it's nigerian guys in nigerian, gezz maybe I don't know since I haven't been home since I was 12. Now if it's guys in general, then you just don't know. I believe it begins with love and of course one loves because of the good he sees.

Best regards.

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well a man's heart is unpredictable

at a time food might be his priority

while at other times he may be serious

so u just cant tell.

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