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What Is A Real Test Of A Woman Virginty?

Please can landers out there tell us the real test off a girl's virginity?

I read in an article by a doctor that the "hymen" is not the best way to test a girl virginity as it can easily be torn by other activities(which is not sex oo or not messing around),without the girl's knowledge.

Please this is urgent,someone lost hers(my very good friend,i have known her for 11yrs) and she never messed around all her life,church going etc and she is really depressed because after 27yrs,she suddenly realised she lost it without knowing how. (she said she has never gone to a guys house before talkless of getting drugged by one or go clubbing or partying).she even said she was never "attacked" before.i was baffled and went on this reasearch and i found this;

"Hymen

Kalpana asks,

What is Hymen? Is bleeding during the first intercourse a sign of the girl's virginity?

Dear Kalpana,

The hymen is a thin membrane that covers the womanliness. It may get torn without the girl's knowledge while doing certain sports activities. It may also get torn due to self-service or use of tampons. Sometimes it is absent since birth or just folds naturally along the walls of womanliness. If it is unbroken, a little bleeding may takes place at the first intercourse, however it CANNOT be regarded as a test of the girl's virginity."

for more on this(my research above),check out the link below

http://blog.fropper.com/times/2005/07/how_safe_is_the.html

NB:This is a serious and urgent matter(she has stopped eating and she is getting lean),experts' and knowlegdeable people's views will really be appreciated too.

Thanks!!!

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what kind of testing did this guy do?

This is really sick. I think this girl should leave the man because it would only get worse later on if they get married. After the marriage he would also be doing his tests to see if the woman cheated on him.

It is apparent that she would not be able to bear the psychological stress of such pressure.

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just take her to okija shrine to swear, thats the only place or any other powerful shrines that can get the real truth of a woman virginity.

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The friend is now married with 3kids

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hello, i think i have a similar experience to share. it happened to me as well, and i was like , you've been decieving me. to be sincere there is no big deal about bn a virgin or not. WHO BROKE IT OR NOT. i had to confirm from a gynaecologist friend who told me point blank: "a woman can lose her virginity without knowing it, more over, it is NOT in all cases there would be blood flow. SO MY MAN, SHE COULD BE A VIRGIN. SO tell your friend all is OK.

cheerio

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@ ALL

i am not so concerned abt the mischievious identity, unnecessary heartache bla bla bla

@ My concern is simple. How did the GUY TEST?

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@poster

Much ado about nothing, please tell your friend to relax jare, if she tells her fiance that she is and he doesnt believe her then its obvious she is not the man for her, what was the guy doing testing in the first place? Hypocrite!! he wants to test yet he wants to marry a virgin, the same guy wanted sex with her earlier on yet is upset she may npt be a virgin what a clown"

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your hymen and virginity are two entirely diffent things. when are people in this country going to learn this? marring a vigin does not make her a good person, marring a virgin doea not make her less likly to cheat - some people say more likley. you loose your virginity ONLY when a pe.nis is inserted into your va.gina! not when you use a tampon, Romance-Machine, do gymnastics or whatever. if your "friend" did loose her virginity and cant remeber then she needs serious help for she has poor memory or drinks to much. if she is a virgin but does not have an intact hymen then she needs to read a damn book. if some guy gives her an issue for it then he isnt worth it since he obviouly is unable to educate himself.

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This is a very crazy topic, i saw it a few weeks ago on http://hypernigeria.com/index.php?topic=34.msg434#new

and concluded that in this world when medicals doctors can replace the thing and make a lady become a virgin after having children virginity might have been redefined.

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BRO DONT MIND SOME PPLE WEY MAKE NOISE HERE SOME NEVER C VIRGIN BEFORE AND U TOO WHY CANT U OPEN UP AND TELL US THAT U ARE THE REAL BOYFRIEND.LOVE IS THE MAIN THING IN ANY RELATIONSHIP SO FORGET ABOUT VIRGIN OR NO VIRGIN ALTHOUGH TO SOME EXTENT IT COUNTS BUT THIS IS SOMETHING THAT WAS NOT INTENTIONAL SO WHY THE HEADACHE FORGET ABOUT ALL THIS AND MOVE UP.

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There is no real test.

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The fact that you cannot tell that I am being sarcastic just makes me want to hit my head on the floor. Your friend is not very smart, her boyfriend is an Bottom and you ---- I am not sure what to say about you yet

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well, i cant say if they still want to go on with their wedding plans(nxt yr).believe me i wont want to mention that to her not to bring in sad memories(cos she is happier now).

Thanks!!!

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So now that her boyfriend has decided to manage her despite the fact that she has never had sex with anyone before him is she happy and does he plan on marrying her

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@ R1st84

thanks,she saw all the replies,wanted to see her smile and she did with the replies and the fact that i wanted a solution for her.(she came over to my place dis weekend).

@Outstrip

well,i understand my friend perfectly well(maybe cos she is my friend).she has never been wayward all her life,i repeat,never.i have never seen her with anyone until this guy,for real.(she is my bestest friend so i know).so just imagine the shock.but she's better now,moving on.The guy is still around,but not so cool with it(d virgin stuff).but they r still on.

Thanks guys.

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Ok I am finding it hard to feel sorry for her, infact it is funny. What nonsense. So she is going to starve herself because, ? She does not have any problems so she decided to make one for herself. That's my take.

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@Poster

If u r not the one in question may be u should copy all these responses and email them to your friend's boyfriend or perhaps your friend should look for another man who is matured and ready for relationship based on pure love virgin or no virgin irrespective.

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Pls ladies(or doctors,people) out there who have experienced or know more on this topic,SHOULD PLS HELP OUT!!!

u might touch a life by doing so.

Thanks i advance.

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Poster,

I think u r the guy, and u probably got what u deserved. How in the world u r looking for something u ur sef can't offer?. What is the problem with most of our guys asking for a virgin to marry and they r the ones sleeping with every Lisa and Nikky all over the place?. Get a grip brother and marry the woman if u truly love her. You placed ur sef in a position to be lied to in the first place, cos u have made the woman think she has to be a virgin to be decent woman or a marriage material. Drop all these ur childish questions and concentrate on other good things she offers.

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@ mellow

Wat dont u get pls??

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@ kulashaker

my sister abi o

But i just can fanthom wat really happened with my friend.Is anyone out there with similar story?or my friend is the 1st ever??

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I honestly don't understand your last post. Please, explin better.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

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@ mellow and sky-walker

Thanks alot!!! u just touched a life.

As for how she knew she lost it: She just met a cool guy( this the first time i can tell u that my friend is really in love).though the guy aint that perfect but i think they but deserve each other.

They had dated for like 7 months.i think in the course of knowing each other better she hinted the guy that she was a virgin and would want to be one till her wedding day.the guy wanted sex and she explained that she cant do it and that she kept it all this while and not want to lose it some months b4 her wedding(they planned getting married soon).he agreed because he loved her.

Only for the guy to later do a kind of "testing" and he told my friend point blank that she deceived him all these months.Hope u now get the picture?

It is really painful,really.

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For starters, How did the girls know she has lost

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