Please can landers out there tell us the real test off a girl's virginity?
I read in an article by a doctor that the "hymen" is not the best way to test a girl virginity as it can easily be torn by other activities(which is not sex oo or not messing around),without the girl's knowledge.
Please this is urgent,someone lost hers(my very good friend,i have known her for 11yrs) and she never messed around all her life,church going etc and she is really depressed because after 27yrs,she suddenly realised she lost it without knowing how. (she said she has never gone to a guys house before talkless of getting drugged by one or go clubbing or partying).she even said she was never "attacked" before.i was baffled and went on this reasearch and i found this;
What is Hymen? Is bleeding during the first intercourse a sign of the girl's virginity?
The hymen is a thin membrane that covers the womanliness. It may get torn without the girl's knowledge while doing certain sports activities. It may also get torn due to self-service or use of tampons. Sometimes it is absent since birth or just folds naturally along the walls of womanliness. If it is unbroken, a little bleeding may takes place at the first intercourse, however it CANNOT be regarded as a test of the girl's virginity."
for more on this(my research above),check out the link below
NB:This is a serious and urgent matter(she has stopped eating and she is getting lean),experts' and knowlegdeable people's views will really be appreciated too.