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Do U Really Forget If You Forgive?

This has been an issue with me for years now. I don't forget what you do if u really offended me.

Now,the question is 'do u really forget when u forgive(or think u've forgiven)? '

Happy nu year to y'all as this is my first post this year.

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I doubt if its possible for forgive and and forget. As for me i forgive but dont forget

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I can forgive but never forget

Cos its a fool that forgive n forget

while a wise forgive and never forget

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I don't think one can actually forget. I mean for one to be ready 2 forgive, u must have been wronged.

So, to forgive can be somewhat easy but i don't think one can forget.

it's possible after a while, though.

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It doesn't matter how much you have forgiven the person,

You will always have it in the back of your mind what he/she did to you

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How can u forget when u are not suffering from amnesia, the issue is that when u have forgiven,u will still remember but it doesn't bring hurt feelings to u anymore, AMNESIA IS THE ONLY THING THAT CAN MAKE U FORGET

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To be sincere with you, yes I do atimes but not always. When someone is forgiven, you remember in order to forge ahead.

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You forgive in order to move on from whatever that person did to you, but one cannot forget what happened.

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Happy New Year to you also

iice y u too dey lie like this

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Happy New Year to you too.

For me, it depends on the enormity of the offense.

If it's minor i totally forget, if it's major it's more of a forgive and forget as the person ceases to exist for me hence i forget and then i push it back into my memories so that i don't remember until something jogs it (even then it has to be something monumental to bring back up).

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