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I av problems in trusting people and this i know affects my relationship with my girl despite her faithfulness with me. Pls what should i do?

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@ poster,

trust died a long time ago and has since been buried

with all due accord.

if anybody tells u abt trust then dont fall for it.

my word is caution and be wise in all ur doings.

if u go mumu urslf say u dey trust anybody or anything,

u'll surely be disappointed

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Trust is more than love. If i can trust someone dat means i am commiting my life to the person. Therefore love is a necessary condition but not sufficient in a relationship/marriage. But TRUST!!

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Trust is more than love. If i can trust someone dat means i am commiting my life to the person. Therefore love is a necessary condition but not sufficient in a relationship/marriage. But TRUST!!

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Trusting might seem difficult, but you have to learn to trust anyway. There is no way you can be truely happy in life if you cannot trust. In any case you need to take a look at yourself, a theif thinks everyone is trying to steal from him. Are you dubious and untrustworthy? that s the best place to start.

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Yes they do work together, but not at this stage of where there is no committment. There is a time to love, there is a time to trust, and there is a time to trust and love together. Most people that get hurt in a relationship is not because of the love they expended, it is because of the trust they gave away!

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LOL -  even if u say you exchange ring 10 times you can still get hurt BIG time, go and check out the main reason why married couples end with divorce- 'Adultery' or 'Unreasonable behaviour(and i think Adultery can also be linked to this)'

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I do, u gotta say it someday.

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I dare not trust! Not until when we have exchanged rings, and I hear the word I do.

Until then, I/We play it safe.

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@Sly

There's no truth in whattya saying, and it's neither bitter!  Men are worse! dnt quote me o!

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thank u, May be not 100% cos i don't trust 100% too. But u've got to give some quantity of trust to someone u love.

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@ Poster

The thing is that you can trust a lady but dont trust 100%- Thats the truth.

If you trust a lady 100% and you get caught off balance, mehnnn you'll nearly commit suicide, I've seen so many things and its funny because i know i'll see more. I personally dont trust anyone 100%, yep i mean anyone- not even my parents, brother and sisters - dats just me

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@pretty

hi, i trust u.

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All u guys saying u don't trust anybody. Remember u've got to give trust to love someone. If u can't trust enough You can't love enough.

@Joey Hi

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@poster

please don't trust.even yourself.you enter the mart,buy a canned beer,how sure are you that youve not purchased poison?.but you still go ahead and consume it.Isnt that trust?poster,its easier said than done.trust is inevitable.we just have to trust.

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trust is a very difficult virtue to build.

d only solution is; take it that what u dont see does not exist,

dont imagine things u've not seen so u wont form a wrong impression

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na trust samson trust his wifey,

and he paid for it with his life

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. . . especially sons of the daughters of eve.

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trust nobody my guy

expecially daughters of eve

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I also find it difficult to trust.

I maintain this principle___ Trust no man until proven otherwise

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When it comes to trust, you must first of all build a strong trust for yourself before extending it to others. You only give out what you have likewise whatever you gives out comes back to you.

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That's prolly bcus u don't trust in yaself. Free ur mind.

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i used to be like that but i realised how it sometimes hurts people i really care about so i've started opening up. first, take your time to know those who genuinely care about you and and try to communicate with them more and as sly mentioned, pray. remember, it's a thing of the mind.

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why some boys and girls are tell lie to boyfriends or girlfriends

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It may have been you've had bad experience with people you trusted in the past, if this is the case, you've got to learn to trust people all over again, i know that it can be a very hard if it's due to bad experience in the past but you've got to learn to at least give benefit of the doubt, i personally do not trust anybody 100% but i can still trust up to 90% leaving 10% for room for error.

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