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What makes a "big boy" or "big girl"?

I asked two girls this question and i was surprised at their answers. Well am very sure you guys are different people and I expect different answer.

As for me i don't celebrate a mediocrity, you can't be a fraudster and say you are a big-boy and ill accept that. Na lie !

What's your opinion?

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Yeah money makes a big boi/gal but ur source has gotta be one whereby u suffered a bit and struggled to make it- Abrahamovich(chelsea's owner) 4 example.u must've brainsrespect urself and u must be able 2 interact with people no matter their status or age or aw silly they are, that's y i don't believe in the age factor. brains r very cogent cos i believe am smarter dan k.west in som areas despite his success. that's d more reason y i respect p-square.

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What makes a big girl is as stated below:

A girl who is caring

A girl who can handle all domestic works (especially cooking)

A girl who do not have so much love for material things

A girl who posses all the charasteristics of a virtueos woman

Yeah that's it, If you got all that then you are a big girl for life!!!

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A big boy is simply as it sounds. You can do things not every of ur mate can do. I consider guys who pay regular bills, live good lives, maintain a particular standard. And wat have you. But another thing to consider is that some people could be big in some ways while others have a different

approach,

like example. Im a big boy in my world, seun is also big in his own way.

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a guy who knows how to treat a woman

a guy who comports himself in all aspects

a guy who can face situations like a man and who holds responsibilty for his actions

to me, al these and many others make Up a bg boy!

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@dejiolowe big boy/ big gril means smth, am in a haste i wil throw more light later!

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big boy and big girl dont mean anything coz there aint any universal meaning. ppl just use it anyhow. am a big boy yippie!!!!

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Many still don't understand what big boy & gilr is all 'bout.

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I think y'all are just saying what you want the tag to mean, as opposed to what we all know it means.

Kazey is right on the money with the definition

I doubt very much that CITY PEOPLE addresses people as big boyz and big girls for their moral stance or maturity...but thats just me

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u r a big boi or gurl when u r ready to face d consequences of ur actions head on instead of running off!

u r a big boi or gurl when people can depend on u!

u r a big boi or gurl when there is a problem u try as much as possible to make d best choice!

u r a big boi or gurl when u face ur responsiblilities!

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Big boy/big girl is all about achievement. As we can see that people value those that has money.

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I was chatting with group of friends on the topic "what makes guy big or what you can call a big boy or a big girl"  is it money, ways of life or what ? I look forward to hearing your opinion.

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Haha wizzie.What makes a big boy is ur personality,achievements and thoughts

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What makes a big boy also makes a big girl.

Brains.

Its not what you have but who you are. Show me a guy with stuffs upstairs and i'll show you one who would succeed (and become big) anywhere in the world (only a matter of time).

Fraudsters are not big. I believe it takes the same brain energy to make a good or bad million. I dare them to make it clean then we'll know who truly is a big boy. When a fraudster goes down thats the end. If a big boy goes down , he'll bounce back. He's like a ball dipped in water, he's got something on the inside that thrusts him upwards. He's got knowledge and intelligence (brains).

As far as i'm concerned big boys and girls are the ones who have got no limits.

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What makes a big boy or girl.

Is your brain

Ur responsiblities

Ur charatcer, behaviour attitude

and appearnace.

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Hmm, have to say it's maturity and the way he owns up to his responsibility. Admitting that he dosen't know all things and that he'll work towards learning. dat sort of thing.

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well to me it depends not on the age, but the peronality. my brother is 4 yrs younger than me but he talks with more maturity!

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What makes u a big boy and a big girl is the ability to be able to tackle any situation u find urself and most importantly to be able to show people that u are a leader.

Having the latest Jeep is not a big boy or girl. watch out

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maturity, age is not by maturity,,,....i.e to say age is not marturity but wat u have acheive in life show how big u are.

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You r right. Age Not inclusive.

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Okay y'all didnt define this right.

There are THREE KINDS OF BIG BOYS!

Big for nothing boys: Just big in age but brainless boys.

Big for something, but really nothing boys: These ones, are big because they are the area boys, Them ghetto freaks, smoking addict best friends to weed. They consider themselves Big because they do crack and steal, and rob and do everything BAD!

Big for something good boys: these ones are big because they achived what they want to achieve.. through the right way. They earned it.

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agreed!

Age is supposed to show maturity but unfortunately it's not always the case.  I hear a lot of young girls and guys saying how "gown" they are because they're 18.  I find that according to law you are legally and adult at 18 but only legally, not mentally.

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Your thinking ability determines your age. "You are as young as your faith and as old as your fear."

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Yeah age is just a number. U can be as old as the heavens and still without achievement and be young with achievements.

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A guy who is truthfull and stands on his word.

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