I wont bore u with details but I need a very honest and real contributions. I was in love with this girl and we dated for like 4 years. She's stuborn while I was a flirt. She caught me on 2 occasions in the act!. Later I traveled out of da country and told her to stay in ma apartment. I later cracked her email and read some mails that pointed to the fact that she's secretely dating another person. I was enraged and rang her phone to explain but instead for her to give me explanation, she just said she's no more interested in the relationship again, So we parted ways. I was deflated abroad and about a month after that I was hooked with another babe in nigeria. I have been to Nigeria to see her, she's calmer and not stubborn, and respect me a lot, but after about 5 months, my old flame came back begging me to take her back. Strange thing is I still found myself loving her and I still love this new girl a lot. I have met the new babe family and my family loves her. But to be honest ,I can't shake my ex from my mind. What do u suggest I do because I can't understand why she had to be begging?, Please give me concrete advice because I don't want to make mistake in ma marriage.