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4 Da Ladies,if Ur Boy Friend Slaps U Whats Ur Best Reaction?

Slapped ma girl yesterday, cos she called me namez.(fool,coward,,etc).She slapped me bk,as if dts not enuf 4 her she went 4 ma laptop charger nd used 2 hit me on ma face. If u were da guy or da girl, wts d best way 2 handle ds situation?

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If I were ur gf, I would breakup with u immediately coz u will turn me to a punching bag if we get marrid. Most women have died as a result of their women- beating husbands

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I wud slap you back! or wait till u are sleeping so I wud get a big pocket if laundry water and pour the whole smelly content on you.NEVER hit a woman!its cowardly thing.

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A terrible reaction. But I support it 100%. She has every right to protect herself in self-defence. I would caution women to be careful when responding to such. A very violent man could do real damage to a lovely lady. It is better to walk away and end the relationship. No woman (or man) should have to put up with any form of violence.

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Men, I can't take such a hideous act from that Dam that calls herself my girlf**K. How could she be referring to me as 'fool & coward',or are we not in the relationship again? If my girl try that damned crap with me, i'm inflict bruises on her.Mtcheeew

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Am sure most of the girls here are still single. I still wonder why girls think its normal to provoke and frustrate their man. If you respect your man he'll do the same. They said real men don't hit their woman, how about a real woman? So a real woman can abuse and provoke her man? People should get real please. I don't support hitting a woman, also the woman should stop calling their man names like fool, Naughty Person, silly etc...

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dude why would you hit your girlfriend!?

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Ha! the training that i got from my kick-boxing classes would pay off, by the time i'm done beating his Bottom, even him mama no go recognize am.

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I swear, pple are just calling for the ops head, but I swear it's not easy cos I av been in a similar situation, I used to have this very insultive ex gf, even her friends knew she had a bad mouth, We were coming frm and outing once around yaba market, and she was jst running her mouth I didn't say a word cos I'm naturally a calm person, she continued running her mouth and I was ignoring her she was lucky she jst kept quiet @ the right time cos I was one second frm giving her a very dirty slap right there in the open in yaba, Thnk God that didn't happen, I cn neva eva date an abusive gf, Cos I dnt tk kindly to insults, and I av noticed many girls joke with insultive words, that doesn't go well with me too, Well for women it's their character u jst av to be patient with them,

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you know you started it first the rules is that you never lay your hands on your lady no matter what. you could as well have walked out and it would have rather made her look foolish and most likely she would have called later to apologise. or better still you apologise whether wrong or right thats the true test of maturity,

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if he slaps me i will just walk away

cos wat i got to do lies in ma heart

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I don't know lol

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@abrahym u got it ma dear

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Na so so sneeze I dey sneeze. Slap slap everywhere. Haba! Wetin I do?

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Hitting ur girl wasnt the best thing to have done , u would have just walked out on her , correct guys dont hit girls .

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I don't know my reaction if slapped in my face. Shocked, stunned - I would cry in devastation - TRUST gone. How do you trust your destroyer? Insulting your man and putting him down isn't your right to do either. Physical violence is the beginning of the end. Crying while packing my bags, not knowing where to go but CLEARLY SEEING that staying there is no longer an option. I'll be homeless first.

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@ pro01, brother this is the 21st century, if a woman is slapped she must retaliate besides we didn't get the genesis of this gist, a girl won't just come over and rain insults at you for no reason, so dude must av done sumtin, and if my bf ever hit me i would not only retaliate, i would get him locked up to discourage any such attempts again, and to further discourage the reoccurence of such i will call it quits, it's high time guys realised the world isn't a man's own anymore, women are also part of it

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Call 911 or 999, LOL

But if in Nigeria call your Family and ask them to come and beat him up.

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Dont t alk to him for 2 weeks until he begs you not just say sorry i mean beg you.

If he does it again KICK HIS Bottom OUT. He is a violent man

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In as much as am not subscribing to men who assult their women physically, all d ladies in d house r missing the part where she verbally abused him.

remember to carry knife and morter pestle is not an exclusive right!

they say " even d fish would not have been caught if it had kept it mouth shut"

ladies becareful of what u say to ur man please.

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I'll most definately slap him back and run for my dear life. Its a promise

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if i'm going crazy with anger, i guess i'd slap him back. if i'm able to keep my calm and think clearly i won't, because i'm not a good fighter and i'd be better off if things don't get very physical. it'd be nearly impossible for me to get over the issue, and might eventually end the relationship.

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U shldn't av slapped her in d first place no mata wht she did, u shld av walked out of her wen she was callin u names.as 4 me once am datin a guy nd he slaps me dt wil be d end cos i dnt wnt any man to turn me to punching bag.

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Poster u did a huge wrong by slapping her. But the deed is already done but her retaliating MEHN!! no venture to go back(plead wif her). That lady is a sadist. I for a person wont raise ma hand against a woman and i can't also co-habit wif an insulting lady. Thats one of the many reasons i luv and adore ma dad. My mum is so insulting that i pray i don't get her type to marry, but ma old man is a perfect gentleman (has neva raised his hand for once, the best he does is get out of house)

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guy y u put ur on woman?

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Hmmmmm. . ,  Like I said, Violence will never solve anything

Poster, by right you shouldnt hit her either. If she mocked you, tell her to stop and that you dont like it. Like I aid, talk it over, if she refuse to hear you, than I suggest you shouldnt even be hanging around with her no more. Do you want your marriage life to be together with a violent woman whom constantly drives you crazy?

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Its like you're too soft for that girl for her to slap you back, well u too slow for her, its me the girl is dead and gone with beating.

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By right you both shouldnt use any slapping/hitting against each other. If both are not satisfied with each other's comment, you both should talk it out and ressolve the matter. Violence will nver solve anything. . .

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And who are you to raise your hands on a woman? Better respect your manhood, even if you dont respect yourself.

shior.

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Report her to the police because once a woman feels like she's in control, she'll do it again. If she reports you. . .  the law would look harsher on you than on her.

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If my husband slap me, I will be like Farrah Fawcett in the movie the BURNING BED,

The title of the movie speaks for itself!

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Real MEN dont hit women. I think its time someone grew up

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If my BF slaps me

I would return it immediately~

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Says who? Why is it that you seem to think that I'm can't defend myself? Who's to say I won't knock the hell out of him? Smh.

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@topic.

There are two things involved.

1. Tell him thank you after the slap.

2. Turn the other cheek for him to finish his work in your life.

Quietly pack your bag and leave his house.

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If my boyfriend slapped me, I'd slap him right back. I don't take kindly to people putting their hands on me when they know they wouldn't want someone to do the same to them.

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guy u r lucky she didnt go for ur groin? slapping a lady makes an immatured guy

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@ Poster A REAL MAN never hits a woman,PERIOD!!! Regardless of how much you are provoked by the woman please walk away. Walking away does not make you any less a man. For goodness sake we know that women are physically weaker than men(most women anyway) so why would you enter into physical confrontation with a woman? Would you enter into a fight with a child knowing fully well you can easily beat up a child? I have no respect for any man that beats women, it is the mark of a lesser man. I am not holding fort for women as it is true that women can be pretty abusive verbally and some women actually beg to be beaten, but hey if a woman is abusive and can not be corrected, walk out of the relationship. REAL MEN DO NOT BEAT WOMEN TO PROVE THEIR MANLINESS ONLY WUSSIES!!!!

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omo d best thing do wen she insult u na waka leave am.but as u slap e stil gud but if na me be d omoge i go slap u back for anywere,if na ur manhood manage am.

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Uchechiboy2000@yahoo.com

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@poster; U only got a retalliation from her cos u did nt slap her hard enough!

I once had a similar experience, though not my gal but her room mate way back in school, after series of warnings to her, even went as far as very late 1 night to go ask her boyfriend to tell her to stay off my case, but she continued being insultive and won't stop calling me names. It got to the height of it the day she called me "oponun oshi" (silly fool) and all these just because I was dating her friend and room mate who now hardly spend time in the room but with me in my self-contained. My gal gets first hand info on my past (Av a bad 1 though especially as a player but was serious with ds 1), abt 3 levels were seperating us for that matter. Still Trying to be patient as I've never hit any gal b4, I sat her down in her room spoke to her, told her how angry I was and that the next time she woudn't be so lucky to escape my wrath. Then as I stood up to leave, as if she dared me, she hissed so loud that u would have heard if u were sitting in the next room. At this point I lost it, just d 2 of us in the room (my gal was outside waiting for me to finish my discussion with her), I went straight to her in anger and dealth her a very dirty and resounding slap that she fell to d ground, I dnt stop there o, I followed her up with my belt while she was still reeling on the floor, by now my gal had rushed in to save her, but man it was too late, as neighbours too started rushing in (It was a private hostel), by this time I had beaten d daylight out of her.

And for those of u saying u will get ur broda and cousins blah blah blah, I think she tot thesame way too. Cos, later that night my galfriend came in to call me to tell me I got some ppl outside to c me, I dressed up to meet dem outside my house. It was the bro., a friend of his (both same level as me in sch) and her, to cut it short, I stood up to the 2 of them looked them in the eyes and asked them to bring it on. I dnt need to call on mobs in my street to linch them b4 they do when they c me in a fight, nd if they like they can take me up anywhere, I always av a backup plan for anything am doing. He stepped down and walked away with his sis. still in tears. She was admitted for 2 weeks and stayed back home for another 1 week b4 returning to school.

Finisthed with Uni. same year, later broke up wt my gal (now an ex) but we still talk, she was always telling guys beat her now like she is a punching sack and was always from 1 bf to the other.

Some gals are too insultive for their own good and they just might not find a guy to settle down with. Some NLanders (females mostly) saying they will slap him back, go ahead and slap him back and u av just dug ur own grave which will come after the rent u payed for an hospital bed expires.

Sorry all, story too long, just had to let u in on the details, that som gals wudn't give u a choice!

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U even proud dey talkin say u slap ur gfrnd? One of d signs of maturity is d ability 2 control ones anger

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U even proud dey talkin say u slap ur gfrnd? One of d signs of maturity is d ability 2 control ones anger

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Why dont you both grow up? Did your school teacher tell you to keep your hand to yourself? A beg let anyone touch me, me and that person go enter same trousers.

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If i were the girl's elder brother, I'll commend her for what she did. Then she'll lead me back to you. When i see you, i go start my own. Man-to-Man. After beating you silly, i go dig your head inside one drum of water. I'll warn ya to neva eva lay a finger on my sis again cuz if u do, I'll lay your a.s.s out

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I know me - I'll call him a S.O.B and go to the bathroom and cry my eyes out.

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that's my girl!!deserves a standing ovation for not giving her hands to washermen! i will do the same and walk out of d relationship! if you come back begging, i will reconsider and accept you back if you are a first offender, but if there is a repeat, i will walk out for life!!

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