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Abortion, Should I Chase Her?

My girlfriend told me she had sex with a guy in school got pregnant and did an abortion. What do I do. Chase her away or we should continue our relationship yet i still love her,

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i still love her no matter what, but yet have the feelings of her cheating on me.

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Well, you were not specific in your post.

Still, she's confessed to you, of her own free will. I don't know the finer details, but don't make her feel you're wielding power over her, by letting her sweat, whether you're going to forgive her or not. If you can't let it go, then please, let her know, so she can move on, don't leave her hanging indefinitely.

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yes, she does need my forgiveness cuz we were going out before it happen.

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I fail to see what her abortion in the past, with someone else, before you two were dating has to do with you.

As far as I'm concerned, she's done nothing wrong, and doesn't need your forgiveness. However, she does need your understanding. She could have kept quiet about it, and to be honest, she didn't need to tell you, but she chose to, because she feels comfortable with you.

It's all in a past, a past you weren't part of, so let it drop. Unless, you're looking for a way out of the relationship, and you don't love her as much as you claim to?

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Forgive her.

Forgive Yourself.

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what d u want me to do?

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Ask yourself if its possible for u to chase her away from ur heart,

According to u, u still love her.

Time heals wounds, with time hopefully u would get over it.

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thanks Nairalanders, i really appreciates your reply. I really don't know if you love me like i do. Well for now, i will keep my fingers crossed.

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chase her for what?

my friend we all know that men sleep around a lot.Where do you think they find the women to sleep with?

she is a honest woman which is rare.Most girls will deny ever sleeping with more then 1 person or having a abortion.

so calm down my friend.

we all like to marry saint but there is no saint left .a honest woman is the next best thing!

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Pal what do u want to chase her for? At least she came out plain and honest to you by telling you that kind of secret. How many girls do u think can do that? It shows that she really loves you and wants to be by ur side. Or hw do u think it would be if later on in life, say when u've gotten married, you get to hear from someone else, worst of all from the dude who got her pregnant in the first place? Look forget all that poo of dumping her and take really good care of her. Shower her with love and care. it's not easy telling someone that kind of thing if she doesn't love you. No try chase am at all or else u'll just prove urself as a wimp and not a man.

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kai,

1) she fucc person

2) she come kill the pikin in the name of abortion

damn it man, she's getting her marching orders.

she will be forgiven but she go still get her marching orders

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erm. . . . . . . . i fail to see what the issue is.

did she sleep and commit abortion while you knew her?

Even Jesus forgave the thief on the cross. So you are going to crucify her for the sins of her past.

Nna na wa oooooooooo nka sike no be small !!!!!!!!

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What is the problem? At least she was honest with you, right. She could have hidden it, but she felt comfortable enough to tell you her secret. It could not have been easy for her. Leave her alone, continue with her if you Love her.

I dont know many women that have not had an abortion, it is just that they are clever enough to hide it.

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why would u chase her away? quit acting like a child.

except u don't love her and need an excuse outta the relationship.

at least she's being sincere bout wat happened in her past.

imagine u got someone pregnant, then aborted back in skool, u told her and she chased u away cos of that?

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