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Across The Oceans Love?is It 4real?

Hey, People.

Can i get your tots on this?  Just exactly how realistic is havin an "across the oceans relationship?" Its hard enough to keep a relationship going, not to mention one that has your partner living out of state.

A friend's 3years boyfriend is movin to the states soon and she's really worried about how long they can last as a couple.Personally i dnt think its worth it.Lets break up n go our seperate ways! But i didnt ave the guts to tell her that!

So what do u'all think?

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why is he going to the states? it's easier to be the guy leaving and coming back to visit now and again, rather than the babe left there waiting, he'll meet new people and it'll be easy to get a new local gf - if she tries this all her family and friends will know, etc, and she'll look the guilty party. it's his choice to go - she should (in the nicest possible way) put the ball in his court - stay / take me along and we'll continue this, leave me alone and it's an open reloationship,

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it real for mamy water

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@busta

It does work, you just have to be patience, trustworth with each. my boyfriend stay in an European country and I live in USA, we got no problem. our love grows stronger has each day passes, we mean everything thing to each other. u know some times there are lot of temptation but you just have to be able to overcome it and be strong. we see each other like every six month, either i travel to see him or he comes here or naija. lots of people think it's not gonna work but now we both prove to all of them it's did, he rock my world and no other guy on this planet can ever take his space. but on the other hands if your both see each other together in future no need of continuing the long oversea relationship.

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If you already had this opinion, why did you decide to ask?

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Are we all not being a little bit pessimistic?.

i think i agree with iice that some can make it work. Again, Maybe it depends on how badly you really want it to last.

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Some people can make it work, others can't.

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tell ur friend to move on

doesn't work!

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Eyes that don't see, forget! Therefore, you need a time limit. You need a target to cling on. Distance relationships can last only if there is hope to get together (in real life) at a certain point. I mean, if ur friend has plans to move to the states too, or if the guy will come back, then, with some efforts, they can pull it out; but otherwise, they don't stand a chance. It's all logical.

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