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Am A Boy Of 23, But Am Inlove With A Woman Of 38, I Love What Should I Do?

I LOVE MY WOMAN DESPECT THE FACT THAT SHE SENIOR ME BEARLY WITH 15-16 YEARS. BUT WHAT KILLS ME MOST IS THAT I CANT DIENY THAT I LOVE HER. ANY TIME SHE MISUNDERSTANDS ME I FEEL HURT DEEPLY, PLEASE ADVICE ME ON WHAT TO DO.

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timmfikk,

Na so life be? No be small matter. Well sa free world. Nothing do you ma bobo.O jasi ni?

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Chei ma'm Gabrywyl is out of here agin, i go trace yah one more time.

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@ Garywyll, Please take it cool with ma peeps here na. I no fit shout among u ooo

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Its not for you. its for the poster if you mind. . .

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Thank you Teacher!!

We know already!!!!!

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No one is too young for love, because love doesn’t come from your mind, which knows your age, but from your heart, which knows no age.

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lol. . .yeah whats the link?

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how am i embarrassing you? by the way where else is there to go thats any quieter than this?

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you are embarassing me in public but you claim to like me. is this how you treat people you like?

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I dont have a boyfriend anywere. . .and it is quiet here

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Its pretty quiet here. . .

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HaHaHahahahaha. . .lmao

How is it dumb. . look at what you wrote earlier

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get a load of her gabwryl, "i'm too good for him"

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Im serious i like you as a networking friend

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look at YOU i do like  you

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Oh Oh. . . Here we goes again. The born flirterer has been unleashed.

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Ok Poster, after reading the comments from other Nairalanders, I bet you will be very demotivated with the majority comments in here. My advise to you is if you love her and if she loves you, than try to work it out from there. Bare in mind that theres other couples whom are facing this situation like you so you're not alone.

And to make you feel better, my aunt got married to a guy 15 years younger than her and they have 5 children. So there, anything's possible. You just have to work hard on it and believe that both of you can do it.

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why don't you resize the picture on your profile

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mE? nosy? youre the one with all the questions. . .the one question i ask and you wont even answer.

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I didn't. why are you so nozzy? don't you have homework to do.

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No i didnt. . .why did you change your user ID?

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how do you know if i have a boyfriend?

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like . . . your boyfriend was calling? you aidc you were single motun.

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I didnt run away. . . I jut had other things to do.

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Kids come from God and him alone Amen

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@ poster

no do anything.

as young ladies plenty reach,na your big aunty mates you dey follow.u be champion.

you don dey chop your "papa meat" already.

NA YOU BIKO!!!

now wey you dey chop 38 year old meat,make you upgrade to 50 begin chop your mama mate,

then upgrage again go 70 begin chop your grandmama mate.

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anti motun, is it you the poster is referring to?

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23 year old boy and 38 yr old woman?

She could be your mother1

ewww, this thread is so gross.

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Eww thanks for that. I guess he only needs to wash away the fungus growing on the egg.

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There are alot of 50 year old females still with a good egg.

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Dude you really need to leave this woman alone. The yoke of her egg is gone. Desperate times don't call for measures this desperate.

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@ post

difference in Age? 10 years!! Not too bad if all other things remain equal, afterall we have 50 year old 'babes' that are as young as 16 at heart AGE is a MATTER of the MIND if you dont MIND it doesnt MATTER,

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hey macho man, ah aha ha h, u must be a real service machine ooo, well i guess u are just interested in the cash rewards thats all and she gets all the panshing she needs anyday anytime, its her money,why would u complain, just get this into your head boy, you are a slave in this story and until you backout of this starnge biz of urs, u will remain the sex machine, omokomo!!!!

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At age 23, of course the poster will be more exposed to girls around his age and below because culturally that's what he's preconditioned to do. Physically however, he might encounter a 38yr old woman and find a strong sexual appeal in her. Mentally, and depending on his level of maturity, he might find it more interesting hanging with a 38yr old that has substance to add to his mind, than a 20yr old that lacks depth of mind. So there are numerous dimensions that will make this seemingly impossible match to actually turn out to be an enchanting pairing. I have never discriminated a good opportunity with a physically sophisticated and intelligently savvy woman because of age, younger, same age, older, its the attitude that counts most for me.

@post, love is a deeper issue and I think you are more infatuated here than you are in love with her. Becareful, love means a lot to her at that age than it does to you at your age. You might wake up one day and find a shiny metal on your wedding finger and start wondering how did I get into this, but it will be too late. Don't mind that she is older than you, if she misbehaves deal with her Bottom like a man. Sometimes for no apparent reason, just get up and cause a scene and disturb the status quo, shake things up and don't tell her why, make her wonder what you are going through, not the other way around.

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If you really love her no problem but make sure you are not just her boytoy. And what is wrong with people here, its not a crime to love someone older than you, but make sure you are not getting played.

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watch out! u're heading towards ur own destruction. for all i care, that is not love and u can never be the man in that relationship. do something good with ur life rather than destroying ur future. get a life, guy!

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@poster

Sharp guy!!! ows biznex.hp shes dropin al da money.keep sellin bt rem d honorary titleoooooo HIV or d advanced one AIDS.jst a reminder, u can play safe while u do ur biznx.ok.

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contact soul e he will be able to put you thro on what to do.

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@ Poster

When your eyes don open, you go find someone your own age. For now make you enjoy the honeymoon period.

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Ofcourse u'd feel hurt deeply when she misunderstands u.Have bothered 2 ask urself wat u r doing in a no win situation. U r better off looking 4 someone within ur age bracket n I'm not so sure u r in love with her. I'm not trying 2 b hard but I think u shld take a critical look at d situation.These sort of relationship hardly works because nature has already ordained dat d man take d leading position in a physical relationship which by virtue of ur age difference u wld never b able 2 assume n its bound 2 cause havoc on ur self esteem. Wldn't u rather get a girl who wld look up 2 u wit admiration n pride n who wld listen 2 u when u ask her 2 rather than stay with a lady who may never give u d opportunity 2 b d man. Even if u want 2 date an older lady, 38-23 is way 2 much. Think abt it.

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As older women, to be with somreone younger makes us feel more desirable, dont hurt your frien

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Am sure dis is a joke right? bt if its true den u need serious prayers frm ur ppl. abi u wan die b4 ur time?

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make una leave the guy oh. una want make d money source wey im dey enjoy stop to dey dish out cash ni?

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How is it that you consider yourself a "boy" at age 23?

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You can ask SOUL E (the naija singer), he will tell you what to do because you are both in the same shoes or better still both of you can start an association of young guys dating their aunties.Rubbish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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hisses & zooms away,

some sick fellow

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There is not wrong with a young man be in love with a woman older than him as long there is love and proper understanding. When young man fall in love with a woman older than him, people talk any how but if  girls are going out with their grand father. That one is not sin. Na wa oooooooo

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this is one of the attention seeker,

common get your bloody self out of here.

seun, you better close this f**kin post

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I really dont know and can not understand the basis for this relationship but tread gently, boy! If you take her to bed, you might be submerged inside her Well and the services of a fork-lift or an excavator may be needed to bring you out.

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